We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, if we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love. -Thich Nhat Hanh-
CuriousHim: This is one area that most people get wrong.
People don't get this wrong, CuriousHim. They define love differently.
You didn't give many options in your poll, so you have stacked it.
I know I am in love with someone, when I don't want to live apart from them, when I become a better man for being with them, when I don't want to be apart from them, when I care for them on a physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual level.
Love doesn't work to a formula, this kind of poll attempts to do just that - formularise love. You just can't do that.
Halv0: People don't get this wrong, CuriousHim. They define love differently.
You didn't give many options in your poll, so you have stacked it.
I know I am in love with someone, when I don't want to live apart from them, when I become a better man for being with them, when I don't want to be apart from them, when I care for them on a physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual level.
Love doesn't work to a formula, this kind of poll attempts to do just that - formularise love. You just can't do that.
I am cheering for you to find that someone you love!
Halv0: People don't get this wrong, CuriousHim. They define love differently.
You didn't give many options in your poll, so you have stacked it.
I know I am in love with someone, when I don't want to live apart from them, when I become a better man for being with them, when I don't want to be apart from them, when I care for them on a physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual level.
Love doesn't work to a formula, this kind of poll attempts to do just that - formularise love. You just can't do that.
5 Indeed, each people express their own feeling by being in love
She is all that matters in comparison to everything else, every other second is thinking about her, everything I see is her... I've been in real love once in this life, don't want to do it again. It's really draining.
Halv0: People don't get this wrong, CuriousHim. They define love differently.
You didn't give many options in your poll, so you have stacked it.
I know I am in love with someone, when I don't want to live apart from them, when I become a better man for being with them, when I don't want to be apart from them, when I care for them on a physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual level.
Love doesn't work to a formula, this kind of poll attempts to do just that - formularise love. You just can't do that.
Rumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK980 posts
I once lost a girl I loved. The rush of pain was so intense even a fight club pummeling couldn’t have distracted me from it. But I didn’t stoically shrug it off. I threw glasses at the wall. I broke things. I smashed up my apartment.
If you aren’t smashing stuff after losing a lover you don’t know the pleasure of love.
So, how do I know it was love? From the then hole in my heart to the now hole in my kitchen door.
Love is not all about money or things its about your feelings its a magical feelings that you feel when your love one is around with you, and may foget all your problems.
real love or true love may not as like a storm that comes a way its like a wind that blow you and let you feel so good inside and outside.
And always remember, if the persons love you he/she will not anything to you except your smile and time.
when you love a girl, you will accept that she lives you and broke your heart. If that makes her happy then give to her.
you dont have to do smashing all your stuff. that is a good attitude of a man, because if you cannot see or afford to smash your things then maybe you may hit the person you love.
avoid that habbit as long as early.
if that is true love it will come to back to you.
in my family traditions and my parents and grandparents say
"If the person meant for you He/She will come back to you no matter how long of year and no matter how are you both. The thing is that your hearts bound to each other and God will do the rest."
Just pray and say thank you to God for giving you a wonderful experience and teaching you how to love and how to be hurt.
jono7: We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, if we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love. -Thich Nhat Hanh-
Lovely
In an ideal situation...YES....in a less desirable circumstance when one's tolerance and forgiveness levels have matured beyond ego.
Hard to explain specially when you have your heart broken too many times and love appears to be just a fleeting moment of hormones going haywire inside your brain.
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