Rumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK980 posts
Straight away, on the night.
You should say "I love you" early on, too, just to get things off to a rolling start.. and also, if you say it jokingly enough times at the beginning you may completely devalue the word and thus avoid unwanted longer term commitments.
You should say "I love you" early on, too, just to get things off to a rolling start.. and also, if you say it jokingly enough times at the beginning you may completely devalue the word and thus avoid unwanted longer term commitments.
definitely not until he has proven himself worthy. not at all if I am not attracted. not at all if his behavior in anyway indicates he's into one niters or is not looking for monogamy. not at all if he bahaves in an immature, mean or hostile fashion, not at all if he is not attentive and willing to wait to prove that he is looking for a lasting relationship of some kind
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
nokundi: there is no common rule, there is no should or should not, it depends on the situation
I agree with that to a certain extent. Who makes up these rules, I always thought all's fair in love and war, it is really up to the individuals concerned and noone else s business.
If two people are old enough to date they are old enough to decide what they want to do, and how far they will go and when JMO,
tomcatwarne: I agree with that to a certain extent. Who makes up these rules, I always thought all's fair in love and war, it is really up to the individuals concerned and noone else s business.
If two people are old enough to date they are old enough to decide what they want to do, and how far they will go and when JMO,
yes I can basically agree with this. it depends on what you want also,,,,honestly men seldom stay involved long with women who sleep with them right away....so I tend to give that some thought too
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
felixis99: yes I can basically agree with this. it depends on what you want also,,,,honestly men seldom stay involved long with women who sleep with them right away....so I tend to give that some thought too
Yes I think most men wouldn't start ripping her nickers off on the first date, from my own point of view I only date women I am attracted to and this would involve a certain amount of respect on my part.
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