It is much better to be hurt with the truth than to be deceived with a lie.Being lied to is worse. Believing the lie,well,we all like to be able to take people for their word. The truth does usually come out in the end.
Believing is not a sin. It is lying that is wrong. I hate it when somebody lies to me. The first time I discover that somebody lied to me, start wondering what other things he/she lied about. In the end I won’t believe a singled word that he/she speaks; even if it is true.
jac379: I don't beat myself up about trusting people.
I'd sooner be lied to than be the kind of person who doubts everyone.
I can walk away from a lie, or a liar, but I have to live with myself...and people have to suffer me.
good wisdom. i get lied to by everyone i know. that doesn't bother me. i am not that easy to fool. and i don't let others effect my morals. call me oldschool, i rather speak the truth and say too much than to lie or say too little.
Ccincy: Both.That I was naive enough to be that trusting.
I don't think you have anything to reproach yourself about because you have trusted someone. The onus is on others to be honest and truthful with you. If they are not, the problem lies with them.......
A person can deal with the truth...but can't deal with a lie...once someone lies you can't believe anything they say...you are waiting for the next lie...I am not that person to wait around...lie to me once...and it is SEE YA
A person can deal with the truth...but can't deal with a lie...once someone lies you can't believe anything they say...you are waiting for the next lie...I am not that person to wait around...lie to me once...and it is SEE YA
it is hard to accept when you already believed his words and his promises....
by your own inquiry and research, you found that that he lied to you before you believe him...then, it is better than to believe him fully eventhough that you knew that his words and actuations are already lies...
Sliprywnwt: Which is worse? Being lied to or you believing the lie?
Both!
We want what we want and we see what we want to see. Sometimes we see what is only to be shown to us at the time. Remember what your truth is and you will always win.
The lie is what it's supposed to be and you need to know what your truth is.
Every truth to the teller is true and you and I need to understand this because we are all truth tellers.
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