have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later? (50)

Mar 15, 2013 7:04 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
ca625
ca625ca625Middletown, Connecticut USA1 Posts
I did take him back a few times. This last time was it. Every guy I knew or talked to he accuse me of doing them. If I said no I was a liar. So this time its over for good. I don't want to live walking on eggshells...
Apr 21, 2013 3:17 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
In this scenario, the adage, "Try, try, again does NOT work!" If it didn't work out the first time, it never will because people's basic personalities never change.
Apr 21, 2013 3:22 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Are you referring to my X? rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 21, 2013 5:13 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
microherd
microherdmicroherdKildare, Ireland4 Threads 252 Posts
Once and never again...never ever, ever, ever again.

A leopard can't change it's spots and it was a waste of 2 years of my time.
Apr 21, 2013 5:21 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Don’t believe in second chances in relationships; It is a decision I make carefully, but when is done, is finished; not going back, or thinking about it anymore.
Apr 21, 2013 5:25 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Yes, when I was 17. I quickly learnt that it was a mistake and havent repeated it. Am ex is an ex for a reason.
Apr 21, 2013 5:26 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
Like everyone else the golden rule its over and thats it, however i have changed my mind since my last one and i was taken back and it was better second time round, we both learnt a few things, and moved on with a new foundation and yet it can work.

If you are positive and make sure there are new foundations, the walls can be strengthened.
Apr 21, 2013 5:27 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Martina84
Martina84Martina84Copenhagen, Capital Region Denmark2 Posts
I hoped that this guy realized that I was a special girl that u just don't throw away. But he did. 4 months later he wanted me back. I said it was too late! Read my profile to know what I did. I wrote my story there...
Apr 21, 2013 6:26 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
I leaved him for good reason rather than we have to hurt each other later.
Once he wanna back but better we have our own each other life rather than together
Apr 21, 2013 7:11 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
No. If it didn`t work out the first time I don`t believe it will work out the second time. The relationship didn`t work for a reason and that is why you are no longer together.

I believe the idea should be to move forward and not backward.

Good luck to you.
May 13, 2017 1:41 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Jenny5IA
Jenny5IAJenny5IACabopino, Andalusia Spain8 Threads 247 Posts
Yes, I had to take my ex back after dumping him, his leg was poking out of the bush so in the end I threw him in the canal
May 13, 2017 2:17 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
Jenny5IA: Yes, I had to take my ex back after dumping him, his leg was poking out of the bush so in the end I threw him in the canal



laugh
May 13, 2017 2:20 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
I've regretted ever taking a woman back.

It's best to move on.
May 13, 2017 5:41 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
In response to: I have hope he will take me back



No! If I thought there was a chance to work things out, I would have never left. This is not to say I'm not sorry for ending some relationships, but it worked just fine at the time.
May 13, 2017 6:37 PM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
BritishLondon
BritishLondonBritishLondonManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK323 Posts
I imagine doing something like that feels like picking a scab and only having one shot is what makes it interesting. Everything is more beautiful that way.
May 14, 2017 4:25 AM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Have I ever been dumped,and NOT been taken back later?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 14, 2017 8:29 AM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
mykingdomforanam: I've regretted ever taking a woman back.

It's best to move on.
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Jul 21, 2017 1:56 AM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
Miscreant
MiscreantMiscreantLos Angeles, California USA38 Posts
Dumbest thing i've ever done. Next to getting married in the first place. Had no clue what i was doing. She sure did though. She was as mean as she could get away with, while still holding onto that marriage contract. I'll be paying for that foolery for the rest of my life.
Jul 21, 2017 6:57 AM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
LaPiu
LaPiuLaPiuCopenhagen, Capital Region Denmark40 Threads 11 Polls 494 Posts
Are we human ? OF COURSE I have - and that´s the way it should be, don´t let pride and principles rule your love life, give each other a second and a third chance IF you love each other heart wings
Jul 21, 2017 6:59 AM CST have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
When they are gone, they are gone,, simple!!
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