I look at them while not logged on because if I look at it when logged on the guy thinks that I'm interested in him and then he sends me an email. When my response is that I'm not interested or if I don't respond he starts arguing that I looked at his profile acting like I just committed a felony. People get bent out of shape with this profile thing. They act like you're not supposed to look at their profile unless you're interested in a relationship with them.
Same here if i see someone on the forums and i like what they saying i sometimes take a peek BUT its just a peek as i am not pervingseeking anyone any more
montemonte: They act like you're not supposed to look at their profile unless you're interested in a relationship with them.
I had a similar experience. She actually asked me why! But t led to a very satisfying correpondence. Still in progress. Nothing romantic - just pen pals! She is in my country, but a thousand miles away.
Nuliiiiiii: Same here if i see someone on the forums and i like what they saying i sometimes take a peek BUT its just a peek as i am not pervingseeking anyone any more
Catfoot: I had a similar experience. She actually asked me why! But t led to a very satisfying correpondence. Still in progress. Nothing romantic - just pen pals! She is in my country, but a thousand miles away.
montemonte: I look at them while not logged on because if I look at it when logged on the guy thinks that I'm interested in him and then he sends me an email. When my response is that I'm not interested or if I don't respond he starts arguing that I looked at his profile acting like I just committed a felony. People get bent out of shape with this profile thing. They act like you're not supposed to look at their profile unless you're interested in a relationship with them.
I find that really odd. If someone looks at my profile and doesnt contact me its because they are not interested so I wouldnt see any point in contacting them
As to the OP I usually log on and go to the forums first so I would be logged in before viewing anyone.
no point in hiding. most of us on here signed up to get attention. who woulda thunk there would be so many fun people on here from around the world? i've been having fun learning from everyone. and the woman i am dating likes the responses to my forum questions.
Catfoot: Do you ever browse CS without logging in? Looking at profiles anonymously. If so, tell us why if you please. No problem with it. I'm just curious.
I think Jill is referring to how long it takes CS to actually log us off. I think it's about 10 minutes after you log out. Another words, when you think you've logged out, you haven't, because it takes about 10 minutes to get it through cyberspace. I figured out by people that are in my Favorites List. If they told me they were logging out immediately, the red light would still be on under their name, meaning they aren't logged off yet The way to make sure you are logged off is to search your name with the Search tool. If you're not on, it will show it there.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
Catfoot: Do you ever browse CS without logging in? Looking at profiles anonymously. If so, tell us why if you please. No problem with it. I'm just curious.
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