PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU. ( Archived) (13)

Apr 2, 2013 10:23 PM CSTPEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong, China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts

PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.(Vote Below)

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EVERYDAY I SMILE, AND ACT LIKE NOTHING'S WRONG. IT'S CALLED PUTTING EVERYTHING IN GOD'S HAND AND SIMPLY BEING STRONGcomfort comfort
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May 14, 2016 5:45 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
CorreLola
CorreLolaCorreLolaGBA South, Buenos Aires Argentina2 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
I agree people don't change.
They can pretend but at who they are at their core will never change.
That person that forgets about you as if you were yesterday's garbage.
Who doesn't remember when your b-day is.
That person will never change.
Rant over.
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May 14, 2016 10:04 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
CorreLola
CorreLolaCorreLolaGBA South, Buenos Aires Argentina2 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
CorreLola: I agree people don't change.
They can pretend but who they are at their core will never change.
That person that forgets about you as if you were yesterday's garbage.
Who doesn't remember when your b-day is.
That person will never change.
Rant over.


That person that never calls...
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May 14, 2016 10:05 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
CorreLola
CorreLolaCorreLolaGBA South, Buenos Aires Argentina2 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
People who are this careless never cared about you to begin with.
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May 14, 2016 10:11 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
CorreLola
CorreLolaCorreLolaGBA South, Buenos Aires Argentina2 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
Thing I don't get though is why they even take the time to talk to you, why get to know you to just dissapear afterwards.
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May 14, 2016 10:13 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
CorreLola
CorreLolaCorreLolaGBA South, Buenos Aires Argentina2 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
Maybe some people are like children who after they had played with a toy for a while they get tired of it and go get another one.
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May 14, 2016 10:23 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
CorreLola
CorreLolaCorreLolaGBA South, Buenos Aires Argentina2 Threads 2 Polls 78 Posts
People don't change.
They just get better at pretending.
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May 15, 2016 11:53 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,370 Posts
People do change. If with a partner; is it together or living separate lives while playing "house"?

The question might be: have they invested time, communication with their partner so that they both change, and hopefully grow, together?

What I don't agree with is that people grow apart. If this is true, it may signify that both have been neglecting each other. I absolutely admire the couples that have been able to work and communicate through it all and flourish to the end.

Yes. There are those that were never sincere from the beginning so over time, they "move on" with out you or even in spite of you. These can be some of the harshest dealings a person might have to go through. They can interject long term, personal havocs, of their own. Only time reveals the best or worse in any one or any thing.

It still takes work and effort but I always wish the best for any one.
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May 16, 2016 1:35 AM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
EVERY truth is true to the person. If not knowing the person causes you to fear it is your fault.
We all see the story teller
It is poor and rich.
Most stories are true to the telling.
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May 16, 2016 2:03 AM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
In response to: EVERYDAY I SMILE, AND ACT LIKE NOTHING'S WRONG. IT'S CALLED PUTTING EVERYTHING IN GOD'S HAND AND SIMPLY BEING STRONG
there's a saying I use. " if you tell the truth. It becomes part of your past. If you tell a lie. It becomes part of your future "
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May 16, 2016 8:51 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
Kylie21
Kylie21Kylie21Trenton, New Jersey USA1 Posts
In response to: I agree people don't change.
They can pretend but at who they are at their core will never change.
That person that forgets about you as if you were yesterday's garbage.
Who doesn't remember when your b-day is.
That person will never change.
Rant over.
You don't think people are having help becoming monsters?
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May 16, 2016 9:27 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
In response to: Thing I don't get though is why they even take the time to talk to you, why get to know you to just dissapear afterwards.


Perhaps they realised it was all a big mistake?
Perhaps they found they didn't really like some of the characteristics of their future partner?
Perhaps they saw a few too many red flags?
Perhaps you're finding fault with the wrong person?
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May 19, 2016 5:44 AM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
Kylie21: You don't think people are having help becoming monsters?

yep,Voices,that's right,ain't it?
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Jun 16, 2016 9:16 PM CST PEOPLE DONT CHANGE.THEY JUST FIND NEW WAYS TO LIE TO YOU.
Cambolover
CamboloverCamboloverGeneva, Vaud Switzerland4 Posts
In response to: I agree people don't change.
They can pretend but at who they are at their core will never change.


For the last 5-10 years, I've been trying to become a better person in some ways, and I guess that I have succeeded to a certain extent. Of course, you can still say that this hasn't changed who I am, but only my behaviour, and maybe, under the right (or wrong) circumstances, I would go back to being my old self, unwillingly.

But, even if I believe that some people can change, at least to a degree, I would never count on someone to change for ME, and this an important distinction, especially in a relationship. Do not think that the person you love will work on his/her flaws because of her/his love for you, that never happens. People only ever change for themselves, usually after a series of events in their lives makes them think about themselves, or something extreme happens, or whatever, but I don't think a lot of guys quit drinking because their wives/gf's asked them to....
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