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Aug 30, 2008 8:47 PM CSTHow to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario, Canada100 Threads 29 Polls 2,854 Posts

How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
Kiss and make up
47
43%
Stay awake all night
1
1%
Wake up the person, if necessary
3
3%
Take the blame
6
5%
Impossble
3
3%
Pray together
1
1%
Have sex together
40
36%
Cry and mope
2
2%
Sit and stare at each other
2
2%
Continue fighting
5
5%
Total Votes
110
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Oct 2, 2010 10:19 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Kiss and make up and having se* together seems to be in the lead. hug
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Oct 2, 2010 10:26 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran6 Threads 2,771 Posts
Lonely1: Kiss and make up and having se* together seems to be in the lead.
i geuss this one works for those who like the make up lovemaking
some just qurrel for that indeed!
but dont think it works for really angry very mad mates
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Oct 2, 2010 10:36 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
strict: i geuss this one works for those who like the make up lovemaking
some just qurrel for that indeed!
but dont think it works for really angry mates


LOL. So true. Revenge is sweet.devil And if looks could kill.boxing
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Oct 2, 2010 10:37 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)72 Threads 1 Polls 15,114 Posts
Get good and drunk ? drinking
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Oct 4, 2010 1:44 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran6 Threads 2,771 Posts
popcorn
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Oct 4, 2010 2:19 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,866 Posts
angry revengeful sex is the best grin
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Oct 4, 2010 2:50 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta60 Threads 4,845 Posts
Boban1: angry revengeful sex is the best


Yep.... best thing in the world laugh
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Oct 4, 2010 2:55 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
estate
estateestatePERTH, Tayside, Scotland UK4 Threads 2,470 Posts
Offer a huge hug !!

hug hug hug hug

grin
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Oct 4, 2010 3:01 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Have sex in the kitchen/living room/bathroom, then go to bed.
wink
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Oct 4, 2010 3:07 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA15 Threads 2 Polls 3,127 Posts
For me it really helps if my partner is the type to do something really silly (singing, voice imitations, skipping, anything!).... it breaks the seriousness of the mood, I can't help but laugh, and for that frees the tension to be spent much better ways than fighting.cheers
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Oct 4, 2010 9:28 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
opentuit: For me it really helps if my partner is the type to do something really silly (singing, voice imitations, skipping, anything!).... it breaks the seriousness of the mood, I can't help but laugh, and for that frees the tension to be spent much better ways than fighting.


I must tell you, I have been a member of CS for sometime now. I have had discussions with some great people, you being one of them.

They say we should wait a long time after each relationship before we get involved in another, so that we can muse on our mistakes and faults. So we wait a few years and become a perfect angel. Then we fall in love with anotherangel. Then after years a few years the angel- men are angels too - turns into a devil.

Me? I never change. I am always a perfectangel.
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Oct 4, 2010 9:52 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
katt1017
katt1017katt1017Southern, New Hampshire USA80 Threads 14 Polls 2,410 Posts
Agree to disagree for the time being and set a time to work it out.

It's very easy to hold on to what ever the arguement is about and to want to be right.

Remember that no matter how you feel about what ever you are fighting about that you love the other person. Tell them you love them without adding any "but" about the argument. Remember that they love you too.

Sometimes a good night's sleep and a little time will make the disagreement feel more manageable.
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Oct 5, 2010 4:46 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA15 Threads 2 Polls 3,127 Posts
estate: Offer a huge hug !!



ok... but I'll probably cry.... sigh and punch your chest just once (like a total girl)..... doh



and then laugh at myself... dunno



and then..... well, then we're good, right?thumbs up




laugh
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Oct 5, 2010 5:32 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,645 Posts
no need to do anything, just buy two beds to put in your bedroom in advance, then u can quarrel with your partner at any time,laugh
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Oct 5, 2010 5:35 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada21 Threads 1,850 Posts
I don't see the chopping off the other's person's feet option...wow
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Oct 5, 2010 5:38 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Think before you speak, that helps keep the quarrels down in the first place. However, sometime they are unavoidable, and sometimes it depends on what the fight is about. You have to separate what is and what isn't something you can compromise on. I compromise on most things, but I will sleep on couch a night or two over some things laugh
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Oct 5, 2010 5:49 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
Jihadmeathello: Think before you speak, that helps keep the quarrels down in the first place. However, sometime they are unavoidable, and sometimes it depends on what the fight is about. You have to separate what is and what isn't something you can compromise on. I compromise on most things, but I will sleep on couch a night or two over some things


Generally I agree, except for that last part, I'm not sleeping on the couch. If she can't handle being in the same bed, she can sleep on the couch.grin
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Oct 5, 2010 5:50 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA15 Threads 2 Polls 3,127 Posts
kidatheart: Generally I agree, except for that last part, I'm not sleeping on the couch. If she can't handle being in the same bed, she can sleep on the couch.



Let's WRESTLE for who gets the couch!rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 5, 2010 5:51 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
kidatheart: Generally I agree, except for that last part, I'm not sleeping on the couch. If she can't handle being in the same bed, she can sleep on the couch.


Well, that part completely revolves around 2 things. 1, whose place it is, and 2, whether I think we will work it out or not laugh
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Oct 5, 2010 5:58 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada21 Threads 1,850 Posts
kidatheart: Generally I agree, except for that last part, I'm not sleeping on the couch. If she can't handle being in the same bed, she can sleep on the couch.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 346782172167182 DEMERITS!!!!wow
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Oct 5, 2010 6:00 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
opentuit: Let's WRESTLE for who gets the couch!



Ok...boogie
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Oct 5, 2010 6:01 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
911gypsy: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 346782172167182 DEMERITS!!!!



This isn't driving infractions we're talking about, there is no "point system".tongue
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Oct 5, 2010 6:07 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada21 Threads 1,850 Posts
kidatheart: This isn't driving infractions we're talking about, there is no "point system".
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh yes there is!!!grin Every woman in her right mind has the point system, whether it's a yeah or nay..........DON'T BE A NAY!!doh laugh
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Oct 5, 2010 6:14 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
911gypsy: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh yes there is!!! Every woman in her right mind has the point system, whether it's a yeah or nay..........DON'T BE A NAY!!



Why do I feel like I'm being dragged back to high school?roll eyes

I'll be me, no points!smoking


grin
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Oct 5, 2010 7:03 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK211 Threads 2 Polls 6,605 Posts
Going to bed angry is a recipe for disaster. Stay up and discuss the problem like adults,say sorry to EACH OTHER then go to bed with love in your heart not hate.heart beating
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Oct 5, 2010 7:08 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,866 Posts
shoot her kneecaps in the living room.. so you`ll have the bedroom for your self....redclown
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Oct 5, 2010 7:14 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Vetri32
Vetri32Vetri32Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore2 Threads 480 Posts
having sex after a quarrel is great, it sort of rush of blood in your head and the sex is great go getter that does both a world of good
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Oct 5, 2010 10:35 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA6 Threads 1,548 Posts
Easy, I just go to bed.
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Oct 5, 2010 10:44 AM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK33 Threads 12,156 Posts
sitand stare. then make your point.go go upstairs and sleep with the nanny.....grin grin grin grin grin
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Oct 6, 2010 8:24 PM CST How to not go to bed angry after a lovers quarrel
Based on the poll, almost 45% stated that we should kiss and make up. Then why are there so many divorces?

Somehow I think that once we get into The War of the Roses mindset nobody wants to lose. We are so self-centered, fragile and proud that we rarely try to patch thinks up before the poor kids begin to suffer. moping
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