Which is your partner of choice? ( Archived) (22)

Apr 19, 2013 8:19 AM CSTWhich is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California, USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts

Which is your partner of choice?(Vote Below)

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Dominant
25
48%
Submissive
27
52%
Total Votes
52
Please explain your answer.
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Apr 19, 2013 8:37 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
Maus19
Maus19Maus19Kilkenny, Ireland3 Threads 397 Posts
a respectful equal would be my choice. And for both of us to have the wisdom, knowledge and strength to know when to take a step back or forward.
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Apr 19, 2013 8:41 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra: Please explain your answer.

Both. I don't like choices. wink
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Apr 19, 2013 8:47 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
MADDOG69: Both. I don't like choices.


I like this answer.
grin
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Apr 19, 2013 8:49 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Dominant in some ways heart wings
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Apr 19, 2013 9:02 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
serena123: Dominant in some ways


I prefer a dominant man myself but there are times I like to take charge as well when I'm feeling extra frisky.

devil
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Apr 19, 2013 9:09 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
Both, depending on my moodbatting
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Apr 19, 2013 9:15 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
lalasierra: I prefer a dominant man myself but there are times I like to take charge as well when I'm feeling extra frisky.
Exactly!wine
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Apr 19, 2013 9:21 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
serena123: Dominant in some ways


agreed with you, Serene... I like independent man who can take a stand in his own feet without being a dictator... a good leader with soft heart, why not ??? I exactly hate babysitting...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 21, 2013 1:51 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
Relationships are suppose to be a partnership, so I think both should be equal. Of course, each partner has their own strengths in specific areas, so I think each should be allowed to lead in their areas of expertise.

The terms dominant & submissive remind me too much of control-freak & victim, respectively.
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Apr 21, 2013 8:30 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Cyn_Real: agreed with you, Serene... I like independent man who can take a stand in his own feet without being a dictator... a good leader with soft heart, why not ??? I exactly hate babysitting...


thumbs up Well said, and I agree. To add to that, I need a man with a back-bone!

wine
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Apr 21, 2013 8:37 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
lalasierra: I prefer a dominant man myself but there are times I like to take charge as well when I'm feeling extra frisky.


Well here ladyboxing boxing Andcomfort

laugh
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Apr 21, 2013 9:01 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
menu11: Well here lady And


boxing giggle shimmy laugh

You are a silly man!
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Apr 21, 2013 9:03 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
lalasierra: You are a silly man!


Why, thank you....silly lady.laugh tongue laugh
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Apr 21, 2013 9:14 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
menu11: Why, thank you....silly lady.


You`re welcome! And back at ya!

tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 22, 2013 4:41 AM CST Which is your partner of choice?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
My partner of choice is both dominant under the right circumstances, and submissive under the right circumstances.

In other words I am happy taking a back seat when my partner is better suited to be dominant in certain circumstances, like when I am with her in her home country and city in China. It makes perfect sense for her to be dominant speaking the language, knowing the lay of the land, etc.

But here in Australia, she takes a back seat to me being not as familiar with English and the culture here.

So there is a time and a place for each of us to behave as leader / follower. This happens in every relationship and it should not be threatening to either partner to submit to the other out of love and in the right circumstances.....
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Apr 28, 2013 5:56 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
AustralianGirlAU
AustralianGirlAUAustralianGirlAUIzmir, Aegean Turkey196 Posts
KIBALUV: Relationships are suppose to be a partnership, so I think both should be equal. Of course, each partner has their own strengths in specific areas, so I think each should be allowed to lead in their areas of expertise.

The terms dominant & submissive remind me too much of control-freak & victim, respectively.

Exactally. I need an equal to walk by my side. And I'm not dammaged goods with a complex and dont deserve that either.
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Apr 28, 2013 6:34 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Halv0: My partner of choice is both dominant under the right circumstances, and submissive under the right circumstances.

In other words I am happy taking a back seat when my partner is better suited to be dominant in certain circumstances, like when I am with her in her home country and city in China. It makes perfect sense for her to be dominant speaking the language, knowing the lay of the land, etc.

But here in Australia, she takes a back seat to me being not as familiar with English and the culture here.

So there is a time and a place for each of us to behave as leader / follower. This happens in every relationship and it should not be threatening to either partner to submit to the other out of love and in the right circumstances.....


So is seems you both have a nice partnership. Good for you two! thumbs up
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Apr 28, 2013 6:44 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
AustralianGirlAU: Exactally. I need an equal to walk by my side. And I'm not dammaged goods with a complex and dont deserve that either.


Great answer, and by your post's, your confidence shines through. You are a very intelligent and funny lady! I get a kick out of some of your post's!

bouquet
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Apr 29, 2013 10:15 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
lalasierra: Well said, and I agree. To add to that, I need a man with a back-bone!


yeah....I don't need crawling crying baby to get along with...
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Apr 29, 2013 10:34 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Cyn_Real: yeah....I don't need crawling crying baby to get along with...


You could always give birth if you wanted that, right?

laugh
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Apr 29, 2013 10:39 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
AustralianGirlAU
AustralianGirlAUAustralianGirlAUIzmir, Aegean Turkey196 Posts
lalasierra: Great answer, and by your post's, your confidence shines through. You are a very intelligent and funny lady! I get a kick out of some of your post's!


Thanks. Tone is not always an easy thing to get right in a virtual world. so glad my forthrightness is not taken the wrong way
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Apr 29, 2013 10:44 PM CST Which is your partner of choice?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
AustralianGirlAU: Thanks. Tone is not always an easy thing to get right in a virtual world. so glad my forthrightness is not taken the wrong way


Your welcome, you're doing a fantastic job!

Nice new pic, by the way.



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