Would you rather dump or be dumped? ( Archived) (19)

Apr 21, 2013 9:48 PM CSTWould you rather dump or be dumped?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California, USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts

Would you rather dump or be dumped?(Vote Below)

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I`d rather do the dumping
37
74%
I`d rather be dumped
13
26%
Total Votes
50
Neither is a feeling, so this is may be a tough question.
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Apr 21, 2013 9:51 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
lalasierra: Neither is a feeling, so this is may be a tough question.
Personally I don't go into any relationship and consider "how it will end" ... far from it.
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Apr 21, 2013 10:02 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
langleygirl: Personally I don't go into any relationship and consider "how it will end" ... far from it.


Neither do I. No offense, but I think you misunderstood the question.

What your response is a totally different subject. My question is plain and simple. It has nothing to do with your thoughts when entering a new relationship.

I`m simply asking, do prefer to do the breaking-up or do you prefer when your partner breaks up with you (when the relationship is over)?
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Apr 22, 2013 4:56 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Always dump firstprofessor Do unto others, before they do unto youcheers
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Apr 22, 2013 5:24 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Lets get them before they get us.laugh
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Apr 22, 2013 5:29 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
langleygirl: Personally I don't go into any relationship and consider "how it will end" ... far from it.


thumbs up A healthy and positive mindset and reply. I think like many things that either instance is possible but neither would be desirable. For those that are already planning how to exit they most surely will.
;-}
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Apr 22, 2013 5:32 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
When lived in SA/JHB,was my past time to dump them.-grin
serena123: Always dump first Do unto others, before they do unto you
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Apr 22, 2013 6:19 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
I would not like to dump or be dumped.... The feelings would be as strong and painful for me or the other person, either way...
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Apr 22, 2013 7:19 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
I'd rather split up with someone that I don't want to be with rather than split up with someone that I do. So being dumped is worse.

Dumping girls is never a nice thing to do, but do it often enough and you will build up a tolerance for the guilt-feelings.
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Apr 23, 2013 1:39 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
lalasierra: Neither is a feeling, so this is may be a tough question.


Id rather love and see what happens than focus on the ending of something....
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Apr 23, 2013 2:03 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
anisiltir28
anisiltir28anisiltir28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia63 Posts
They are both unpleasant. I haven't been into those situations and I do not fancy to be there.
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Apr 23, 2013 6:24 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Hmmm,both is fine with me:-)its just like u shallow or u spit it out:-)
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Apr 23, 2013 6:46 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
check_mate
check_matecheck_mateLondon, Greater London, England UK42 Threads 12 Polls 968 Posts
chris27292729: When lived in SA/JHB,was my past time to dump them.-


no wonder your'e living on your own laugh
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Apr 23, 2013 10:09 AM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Surely mature people when they embark on a relationship don´t have "dumper and dumpee" on the agenda!!!! Certainly if, after some initial wall razing, one or other of the parties feels it is going nowhere then either is entitled to say so!!!!!
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Apr 23, 2013 6:34 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Nikogas: A healthy and positive mindset and reply. I think like many things that either instance is possible but neither would be desirable. For those that are already planning how to exit they most surely will.
;-}


I've never experienced being on the receiving end of a break up (hmm lucky me laugh ) but I know what compassion is and know how painful it must feel for those inflicted by rejection.

As for this question not being about feelings???? confused dunno
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Jan 18, 2014 2:04 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Golfsaboteur
GolfsaboteurGolfsaboteurSomewhere on the Costa del sol, Andalusia Spain35 Posts
In response to: Neither is a feeling, so this is may be a tough question.

My wife said she didn´t know what she would do if I dumped her. Probably drown.
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Jan 18, 2014 2:08 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 599 Posts
I prefer to stay single and avoid either one. beer
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Jan 18, 2014 6:53 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,370 Posts
No vote.

I hope few to none go into a relationship looking this far ahead. I know there are those that do but I'm not one of them.

In any relationship, friends, lovers, spouses...etc; I hope the best for every one. thumbs up
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Jan 18, 2014 7:05 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I don't think either would be really all that fun.
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Jan 18, 2014 7:07 PM CST Would you rather dump or be dumped?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
Draegoneer: No vote.

I hope few to none go into a relationship looking this far ahead. I know there are those that do but I'm not one of them.

In any relationship, friends, lovers, spouses...etc; I hope the best for every one.
Nice thoughtshandshake To dump or be dumped. Happiness is the answerhandshake
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