langleygirl: Personally I don't go into any relationship and consider "how it will end" ... far from it.
Neither do I. No offense, but I think you misunderstood the question.
What your response is a totally different subject. My question is plain and simple. It has nothing to do with your thoughts when entering a new relationship.
I`m simply asking, do prefer to do the breaking-up or do you prefer when your partner breaks up with you (when the relationship is over)?
langleygirl: Personally I don't go into any relationship and consider "how it will end" ... far from it.
A healthy and positive mindset and reply. I think like many things that either instance is possible but neither would be desirable. For those that are already planning how to exit they most surely will. ;-}
Surely mature people when they embark on a relationship don´t have "dumper and dumpee" on the agenda!!!! Certainly if, after some initial wall razing, one or other of the parties feels it is going nowhere then either is entitled to say so!!!!!
Nikogas: A healthy and positive mindset and reply. I think like many things that either instance is possible but neither would be desirable. For those that are already planning how to exit they most surely will. ;-}
I've never experienced being on the receiving end of a break up (hmm lucky me ) but I know what compassion is and know how painful it must feel for those inflicted by rejection.
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