Would you rather dump or be dumped?

I`d rather do the dumping
37
74%
I`d rather be dumped
13
26%
Total Votes
50
Neither is a feeling, so this is may be a tough question.

Comments (19)

langleygirl
Personally I don't go into any relationship and consider "how it will end" ... far from it.

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lalasierra


Neither do I. No offense, but I think you misunderstood the question.

What your response is a totally different subject. My question is plain and simple. It has nothing to do with your thoughts when entering a new relationship.

I`m simply asking, do prefer to do the breaking-up or do you prefer when your partner breaks up with you (when the relationship is over)?

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serena123
Always dump firstprofessor Do unto others, before they do unto youcheers

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Ccincy
Lets get them before they get us.laugh

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Nikogas


thumbs up A healthy and positive mindset and reply. I think like many things that either instance is possible but neither would be desirable. For those that are already planning how to exit they most surely will.
;-}

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chris27292729
When lived in SA/JHB,was my past time to dump them.-grin

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Count_Me_In
I would not like to dump or be dumped.... The feelings would be as strong and painful for me or the other person, either way...

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Obstinance_Works
I'd rather split up with someone that I don't want to be with rather than split up with someone that I do. So being dumped is worse.

Dumping girls is never a nice thing to do, but do it often enough and you will build up a tolerance for the guilt-feelings.

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Bluefish22


Id rather love and see what happens than focus on the ending of something....

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anisiltir28
They are both unpleasant. I haven't been into those situations and I do not fancy to be there.

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Migsy
Hmmm,both is fine with me:-)its just like u shallow or u spit it out:-)

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check_mate


no wonder your'e living on your own laugh

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hoolet
Surely mature people when they embark on a relationship don´t have "dumper and dumpee" on the agenda!!!! Certainly if, after some initial wall razing, one or other of the parties feels it is going nowhere then either is entitled to say so!!!!!

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mariespoodles


I've never experienced being on the receiving end of a break up (hmm lucky me laugh ) but I know what compassion is and know how painful it must feel for those inflicted by rejection.

As for this question not being about feelings???? confused dunno

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Golfsaboteur

My wife said she didn´t know what she would do if I dumped her. Probably drown.

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CapNemo
I prefer to stay single and avoid either one. beer

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Draegoneer
No vote.

I hope few to none go into a relationship looking this far ahead. I know there are those that do but I'm not one of them.

In any relationship, friends, lovers, spouses...etc; I hope the best for every one. thumbs up

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Ccincy
I don't think either would be really all that fun.

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chatonlyman2
Nice thoughtshandshake To dump or be dumped. Happiness is the answerhandshake

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