j1709, no matter how modern women get, most still like to be pursued. Keep trying and maintain a sense of humor about things and relax, you are quite young.
I'm a bit surprised at the results of this poll. If one has contacted another (isn't that the expectation of any dating site), I would hope that most members would have the courtesy of actually carefully reading the senders profile (even IF they don't care for the uploaded photo).
To see that most people have answered that they won't respond because they don't like the pic??? Pretty darn shallow thinking wouldn't you say, people....
Reach a little deeper into your hearts and consider: If you contacted someone, and they don't respond, how does that make YOU feel. We're dealing (sometimes, wouldn't you say?) genuine people, feelings, interest), so the least anyone could do, is respond in kind with a kind message (even if you're not interested; at least have the clarity and integrity to say so-- by an automated message or a reply.
GO2COFOUBRO: I'm a bit surprised at the results of this poll. If one has contacted another (isn't that the expectation of any dating site), I would hope that most members would have the courtesy of actually carefully reading the senders profile (even IF they don't care for the uploaded photo).
To see that most people have answered that they won't respond because they don't like the pic??? Pretty darn shallow thinking wouldn't you say, people....
Reach a little deeper into your hearts and consider: If you contacted someone, and they don't respond, how does that make YOU feel. We're dealing (sometimes, wouldn't you say?) genuine people, feelings, interest), so the least anyone could do, is respond in kind with a kind message (even if you're not interested; at least have the clarity and integrity to say so-- by an automated message or a reply.
4 out of the 5 people who actually voted lol.
Hardly a good eprresentative of the site and warranting a telling off.
I'm a bit surprised at the results of this poll. If one has contacted another (isn't that the expectation of any dating site?), I would hope that most members would have the courtesy of actually carefully reading the senders profile (even IF they don't care for the uploaded photo).
To see that most people have answered that they won't respond because they don't like the pic??? Pretty darn shallow thinking wouldn't you say, people?...
Reach a little deeper into your hearts and consider: If you contacted someone, and they don't respond, how does that make YOU feel? We're dealing (most of the time, wouldn't you say?) with genuine people, feelings, interest), so the least anyone could do, is respond in kind with a kind message (even if you're not interested, at least have the clarity and integrity to say so-- by an automated message or a reply).
Glatlol: 4 out of the 5 people who actually voted lol.
Hardly a good eprresentative of the site and warranting a telling off.
You know, I looked at the ratio bar, friend, not the number of voters. But, a poll is a poll--doesn't really matter how few or many answer (but it would be GREAT to revisit that poll and see the ratio bars change). And, it's my opinion (last I checked, we're allowed our opinions on this site, huh? If you view it as a comeuppance, I guess that's your opinion then....glad I got your interest. ;~}
GO2COFOUBRO: You know, I looked at the ratio bar, friend, not the number of voters. But, a poll is a poll--doesn't really matter how few or many answer (but it would be GREAT to revisit that poll and see the ratio bars change). And, it's my opinion (last I checked, we're allowed our opinions on this site, huh? If you view it as a comeuppance, I guess that's your opinion then....glad I got your interest. ;~}
GO2COFOUBRO: You know, I looked at the ratio bar, friend, not the number of voters. But, a poll is a poll--doesn't really matter how few or many answer (but it would be GREAT to revisit that poll and see the ratio bars change). And, it's my opinion (last I checked, we're allowed our opinions on this site, huh? If you view it as a comeuppance, I guess that's your opinion then....glad I got your interest. ;~}
From what I can gather the percentage of replies to messages on here is very low.
Are you mailing girls who's profiles match yours? You mention fun-loving, looking for fun etc a few times, going by that girls who are looking for a relationship wouldnt think of you as a match.
A couple of suggestions...take a few more pics of yourself if you can and post them on your profile so the ladies can see more of you (with clothes on) Add a bit more info about yourself and your interests. When you send an email to someone you're interested in, mention something about her and any common interests in the email and keep it polite/respectful. All the best to you.
2intrigued: A couple of suggestions...take a few more pics of yourself if you can and post them on your profile so the ladies can see more of you (with clothes on) Add a bit more info about yourself and your interests. When you send an email to someone you're interested in, mention something about her and any common interests in the email and keep it polite/respectful. All the best to you.
is that not a "to do" list for someone to scam one? i'm sure there must be more on internet chemistries
Women like it if you get to know them first. If you get too close and personal too fast, they might think you just want one thing. Also, your profile picture makes you look unhappy and anxious and it looks like it is hiding something.
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