why wont women message me? ( Archived) (74)

May 7, 2013 4:37 PM CSTwhy wont women message me?

why wont women message me?(Vote Below)

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profile pic
25
25%
lack of info in profile
12
12%
just not interested
65
64%
Total Votes
102
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May 7, 2013 4:51 PM CST why wont women message me?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Have you messaged them?
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May 7, 2013 4:54 PM CST why wont women message me?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Jillll: Have you messaged them?




I was going to ask the same question.Didn't want a particular person to put a doh under my post.
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May 7, 2013 4:56 PM CST why wont women message me?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Ccincy: I was going to ask the same question.Didn't want a particular person to put a under my post.



I guess that person can put a doh under my post
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May 7, 2013 4:57 PM CST why wont women message me?
Spiritdragon
SpiritdragonSpiritdragonSligo, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 9 Posts
there's very little to see in the profile pic, only eyes-try a better picture.
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May 7, 2013 4:59 PM CST why wont women message me?
j1709
j1709j1709meath, Meath Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 5 Posts
Jillll: Have you messaged them?



Yeah I have messaged them.
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May 7, 2013 5:00 PM CST why wont women message me?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
j1709, no matter how modern women get, most still like to be pursued. Keep trying and maintain a sense of humor about things and relax, you are quite young.
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May 7, 2013 5:03 PM CST why wont women message me?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I said my piece when you asked for feedback about your profile.

I notice you didn't make any changes after quite a few people went to the effort of giving you feedback.

If something isn't working for you, using it in the same way is still not going to work for you.

I'm a great advocate of focussing on making friends which increases you opportunity for finding a special attachment with one of them.
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May 7, 2013 6:19 PM CST why wont women message me?
GO2COFOUBRO
GO2COFOUBROGO2COFOUBROChicago, Illinois USA1 Threads 11 Posts
I'm a bit surprised at the results of this poll.
If one has contacted another (isn't that the expectation of
any dating site), I would hope that most members would have
the courtesy of actually carefully reading the senders profile
(even IF they don't care for the uploaded photo).

To see that most people have answered that they won't respond
because they don't like the pic??? Pretty darn shallow thinking
wouldn't you say, people....

Reach a little deeper into your hearts and consider: If you contacted someone, and they don't respond, how does that make YOU
feel. We're dealing (sometimes, wouldn't you say?) genuine people,
feelings, interest), so the least anyone could do, is respond in
kind with a kind message (even if you're not interested; at least have the clarity and integrity to say so-- by an automated message or a reply.
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May 7, 2013 6:22 PM CST why wont women message me?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
GO2COFOUBRO: I'm a bit surprised at the results of this poll.
If one has contacted another (isn't that the expectation of
any dating site), I would hope that most members would have
the courtesy of actually carefully reading the senders profile
(even IF they don't care for the uploaded photo).

To see that most people have answered that they won't respond
because they don't like the pic???
Pretty darn shallow thinking
wouldn't you say, people....

Reach a little deeper into your hearts and consider: If you contacted someone, and they don't respond, how does that make YOU
feel. We're dealing (sometimes, wouldn't you say?) genuine people,
feelings, interest), so the least anyone could do, is respond in
kind with a kind message (even if you're not interested; at least have the clarity and integrity to say so-- by an automated message or a reply.



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


4 out of the 5 people who actually voted lol.

Hardly a good eprresentative of the site and warranting a telling off.
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May 7, 2013 6:22 PM CST why wont women message me?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Glatlol: 4 out of the 5 people who actually voted lol.

Hardly a good eprresentative of the site and warranting a telling off.


representative doh
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May 7, 2013 6:24 PM CST why wont women message me?
GO2COFOUBRO
GO2COFOUBROGO2COFOUBROChicago, Illinois USA1 Threads 11 Posts
I'm a bit surprised at the results of this poll.
If one has contacted another (isn't that the expectation of
any dating site?), I would hope that most members would have
the courtesy of actually carefully reading the senders profile
(even IF they don't care for the uploaded photo).

To see that most people have answered that they won't respond
because they don't like the pic??? Pretty darn shallow thinking
wouldn't you say, people?...

Reach a little deeper into your hearts and consider: If you contacted someone, and they don't respond, how does that make YOU
feel? We're dealing (most of the time, wouldn't you say?) with genuine people, feelings, interest), so the least anyone could do, is respond in kind with a kind message (even if you're not interested, at least have the clarity and integrity to say so-- by an automated message or a reply).
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May 7, 2013 6:31 PM CST why wont women message me?
GO2COFOUBRO
GO2COFOUBROGO2COFOUBROChicago, Illinois USA1 Threads 11 Posts
Glatlol: 4 out of the 5 people who actually voted lol.

Hardly a good eprresentative of the site and warranting a telling off.



You know, I looked at the ratio bar, friend, not the number of voters. But, a poll is a poll--doesn't really matter how few or many answer (but it would be GREAT to revisit that poll and see the ratio bars change). And, it's my opinion (last I checked, we're allowed our opinions on this site, huh? If you view it as a comeuppance, I guess that's your opinion then....glad I got your
interest. ;~}
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May 7, 2013 6:42 PM CST why wont women message me?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
Perhaps your messing up, but If you put on your profile 'Scammers welcomed' to send them money, that just might work.laugh That's what I had to do.laugh
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May 7, 2013 6:44 PM CST why wont women message me?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
GO2COFOUBRO: You know, I looked at the ratio bar, friend, not the number of voters. But, a poll is a poll--doesn't really matter how few or many answer (but it would be GREAT to revisit that poll and see the ratio bars change). And, it's my opinion (last I checked, we're allowed our opinions on this site, huh? If you view it as a comeuppance, I guess that's your opinion then....glad I got your
interest. ;~}


Yep, and I gave mine.

Comeuppance? Where did I mention that?
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May 7, 2013 6:45 PM CST why wont women message me?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
GO2COFOUBRO: You know, I looked at the ratio bar, friend, not the number of voters. But, a poll is a poll--doesn't really matter how few or many answer (but it would be GREAT to revisit that poll and see the ratio bars change). And, it's my opinion (last I checked, we're allowed our opinions on this site, huh? If you view it as a comeuppance, I guess that's your opinion then....glad I got your
interest. ;~}



Can you view one without the other?
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May 7, 2013 6:48 PM CST why wont women message me?
liakos
liakosliakossamos, North Aegean Greece22 Threads 393 Posts
why do you need them to message you? honest question, please deconstruct and analyse (analyze)...
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May 7, 2013 7:08 PM CST why wont women message me?
j1709
j1709j1709meath, Meath Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 5 Posts
liakos: why do you need them to message you? honest question, please deconstruct and analyse (analyze)...



I meant reply to my messages
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May 7, 2013 7:12 PM CST why wont women message me?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
j1709: I meant reply to my messages


From what I can gather the percentage of replies to messages on here is very low.


Are you mailing girls who's profiles match yours? You mention fun-loving, looking for fun etc a few times, going by that girls who are looking for a relationship wouldnt think of you as a match.
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May 7, 2013 7:12 PM CST why wont women message me?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
get healthy, smile.
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May 7, 2013 7:15 PM CST why wont women message me?
j1709: Please leave a comment after you vote


just a quick question - what would girls your age message you about?
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May 7, 2013 7:18 PM CST why wont women message me?
j1709
j1709j1709meath, Meath Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 5 Posts
sophiasummer: get healthy, smile.


How much healthier do u want me to get. I am a fittnes instructor
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May 7, 2013 7:20 PM CST why wont women message me?
j1709
j1709j1709meath, Meath Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 5 Posts
JeanKimberley: just a quick question - what would girls your age message you about?


I just want them to reply to my messages
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May 7, 2013 7:23 PM CST why wont women message me?
j1709: I just want them to reply to my messages


sorry to hear you are not getting a lot of responses. All the best to you.
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May 7, 2013 7:25 PM CST why wont women message me?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
Ok, then its not a really good "pic" of you,
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May 7, 2013 7:31 PM CST why wont women message me?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
Don't feel bad, they won't message me either lol
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May 7, 2013 7:34 PM CST why wont women message me?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
well you can also emails to scammers, and send them money... they will respond everyday!!grin

no response, so?.....just forget and enjoy your life !!
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May 7, 2013 7:43 PM CST why wont women message me?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
j1709: Please leave a comment after you vote


A couple of suggestions...take a few more pics of yourself if you can and post them on your profile so the ladies can see more of you (with clothes on)laugh Add a bit more info about yourself and your interests.
When you send an email to someone you're interested in, mention something about her and any common interests in the email and keep it polite/respectful. All the best to you. wine
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May 7, 2013 7:46 PM CST why wont women message me?
liakos
liakosliakossamos, North Aegean Greece22 Threads 393 Posts
2intrigued: A couple of suggestions...take a few more pics of yourself if you can and post them on your profile so the ladies can see more of you (with clothes on) Add a bit more info about yourself and your interests.
When you send an email to someone you're interested in, mention something about her and any common interests in the email and keep it polite/respectful. All the best to you.


is that not a "to do" list for someone to scam one? i'm sure there must be more on internet chemistries
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May 7, 2013 7:53 PM CST why wont women message me?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
liakos: is that not a "to do" list for someone to scam one? i'm sure there must be more on internet chemistries


Just trying to help the guy out. dunno
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May 8, 2013 12:59 AM CST why wont women message me?
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Women like it if you get to know them first. If you get too close and personal too fast, they might think you just want one thing. Also, your profile picture makes you look unhappy and anxious and it looks like it is hiding something.
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