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What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in? ( Archived) (29)

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#0
Sep 17, 2008 2:16 PM CSTWhat do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida, USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Hannasthe1OPWesley Chapel, Florida, USA80 posts

What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
Do you make prank calls?
2
2%
Do you just wait it out?
18
17%
Do you eat a ton of food?
7
7%
Do you just mope around til the feelings gone?
6
6%
Do you just try to fit in?
12
11%
Would you just pretend your not feeling this way?
17
16%
Do you call a friend.
15
14%
Try to cheer your self up?
14
13%
Would you justwatch tv to ignore the feeling?
13
12%
Or would you take it out on people you know?
3
3%
Total Votes
107
dunno conversing dunno
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#1
Sep 17, 2008 2:16 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Hannasthe1OPWesley Chapel, Florida USA80 posts
dunno conversing dunno
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#2
Sep 17, 2008 2:21 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada25,438 posts
Call a friend...being different is a good thing....there is a saying that goes..."You were born an original...don't die a copy"....then look for friends who are like minded and like the same things as you do....being part of the "in-crowd" means you have to act like them to fit in....but real friends love and accept you for who you are and wouldn't want you to change a thing!!!!



wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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#3
Sep 17, 2008 2:47 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
JimNastics
JimNasticsJimNasticsKingston, New Jersey USA116 Threads 1 Polls 731 Posts
JimNasticsKingston, New Jersey USA731 posts
use more lubricant ? rolling on the floor laughing
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#4
Sep 17, 2008 2:58 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
JimNastics: use more lubricant ?
laugh thumbs up
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#5
Sep 17, 2008 3:01 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA5,169 posts
I kissed a girl and i liked it...the taste of her cherry chapstickcool
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#6
Sep 17, 2008 3:07 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
Call a friend...it always helps to talk about it to someone who does love you for who you are, and is probably the same way.

hug
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#7
Sep 17, 2008 3:17 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
The_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA3,395 posts
None of the above.

I've spent a lifetime not fitting in. I wasn't one of the cool kids in Highschool - I was the guy who ran a trapline and spent his spare time hunting and fishing. I wasn't the dedicated hell-raiser in my early twenties - I did my drinking at home and rodeo'd on the weekends. I wasn't a Yuppy in my thirties - I drove a truck and worked alternately as a semi-professional gun-fighter for a local tourist trap and as a living history docent for various historic sites in my spare time. And it continues...

Ultimately, I just had to accept it and realize that the reason I don't fit in is because I'm different than everyone else -- Heck, I'm even different from the folks that are like me! I've never been able to fit into any kind of established "mold" and it finally occured to me that it doesn't mean that I'm wrong, just an individual.

I'll admit that not fitting in does get a little lonely at times, but if fitting in means ascribing myself to the norms established by society, then it's a lonliness that I'll embrace!

So don't sweat it too much - Embrace your individuality instead and it'll you'll live better and be happier!

thumbs up cheers
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#8
Sep 17, 2008 3:20 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
LillymSliema, Majjistral Malta3,391 posts
cardsfan24: I kissed a girl and i liked it...the taste of her cherry chapstick


I like that song...grin
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#9
Sep 17, 2008 3:25 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Please don't do what I did...avoid people and be miserable for most of your adulthood.

Go grab life and do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. You are young and your time is now. Best of luck to you!!hug
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#10
Sep 17, 2008 3:28 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
The_Kansan: None of the above.

I've spent a lifetime not fitting in. I wasn't one of the cool kids in Highschool -

Ultimately, I just had to accept it and realize that the reason I don't fit in is because I'm different than everyone else -- Heck, I'm even different from the folks that are like me! I've never been able to fit into any kind of established "mold" and it finally occured to me that it doesn't mean that I'm wrong, just an individual .

I'll admit that not fitting in does get a little lonely at times, but if fitting in means ascribing myself to the norms established by society, then it's a lonliness that I'll embrace!

So don't sweat it too much - Embrace your individuality instead and it'll you'll live better and be happier!


Well said! I can relate, believe me! I don't "fit in" perfectly in any of my "worlds", but I love my individuality!

As Kermit once sang, "It's not easy being green" frog , referring to it not being easy being different than anyone around you. It's what I sing when I'm having one of those days that it gets to me.
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#11
Sep 17, 2008 3:34 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
brokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA603 posts
The_Kansan: None of the above.

I've spent a lifetime not fitting in. I wasn't one of the cool kids in Highschool - I was the guy who ran a trapline and spent his spare time hunting and fishing. I wasn't the dedicated hell-raiser in my early twenties - I did my drinking at home and rodeo'd on the weekends. I wasn't a Yuppy in my thirties - I drove a truck and worked alternately as a semi-professional gun-fighter for a local tourist trap and as a living history docent for various historic sites in my spare time. And it continues...

Ultimately, I just had to accept it and realize that the reason I don't fit in is because I'm different than everyone else -- Heck, I'm even different from the folks that are like me! I've never been able to fit into any kind of established "mold" and it finally occured to me that it doesn't mean that I'm wrong, just an individual .

I'll admit that not fitting in does get a little lonely at times, but if fitting in means ascribing myself to the norms established by society, then it's a lonliness that I'll embrace!

So don't sweat it too much - Embrace your individuality instead and it'll you'll live better and be happier!





Kansan, That is so well written, in the itself you are a strong individual. You are doing with your life what brings out the best in you. You are THE KANSAN!!!
handshake handshake
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#12
Sep 20, 2008 3:16 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Hannasthe1OPWesley Chapel, Florida USA80 posts
mbcasey: Please don't do what I did...avoid people and be miserable for most of your adulthood.

Go grab life and do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. You are young and your time is now. Best of luck to you!!


Thanks for the good advice.I'll try!



wave
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#13
Sep 20, 2008 10:39 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
justmebeinme
justmebeinmejustmebeinmeDes moines, Iowa USA1 Posts
justmebeinmeDes moines, Iowa USA1 posts
The_Kansan: None of the above.

I've spent a lifetime not fitting in. I wasn't one of the cool kids in Highschool - I was the guy who ran a trapline and spent his spare time hunting and fishing. I wasn't the dedicated hell-raiser in my early twenties - I did my drinking at home and rodeo'd on the weekends. I wasn't a Yuppy in my thirties - I drove a truck and worked alternately as a semi-professional gun-fighter for a local tourist trap and as a living history docent for various historic sites in my spare time. And it continues...

Ultimately, I just had to accept it and realize that the reason I don't fit in is because I'm different than everyone else -- Heck, I'm even different from the folks that are like me! I've never been able to fit into any kind of established "mold" and it finally occured to me that it doesn't mean that I'm wrong, just an individual .

I'll admit that not fitting in does get a little lonely at times, but if fitting in means ascribing myself to the norms established by society, then it's a lonliness that I'll embrace!

So don't sweat it too much - Embrace your individuality instead and it'll you'll live better and be happier!


AMEN!!!!!!
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#14
Sep 20, 2008 11:08 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
TALK LOUD.....


grin
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#15
Sep 20, 2008 11:13 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
In all seriousness,I don't want fit in with the in crowd.....the in crowd is insane.


I don't need to belong to any group.
All I need is to be in contact with REALITY.
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#16
Sep 21, 2008 11:49 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Galactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA9,196 posts
I just wait it out. I'm Aquarius. I've never fit in. Eh. It's only life. We all get through it.dunno cool
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#17
Sep 21, 2008 12:22 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
solitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina4,041 posts
...and there is always 'the Charles Whitman solution'....with payback as there seemingly are so many variations of this in the US, moreso than in any other country in the world...
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#18
Sep 21, 2008 12:25 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
nfowlernowhere, Washington USA2,634 posts
confused we are supossed to fit in???



























mumbling stupid voices
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#19
Sep 21, 2008 12:26 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
I don't try to fit in with the in crowd.


I'm very capable to stand on my own two feet.
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#20
Sep 21, 2008 12:27 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
nfowlernowhere, Washington USA2,634 posts
somechick: I don't try to fit in with the in crowd.I'm very capable to stand on my own two feet.



I am sure they are very lovely feet M'lady
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#21
Sep 21, 2008 12:29 PM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
nfowler: I am sure they are very lovely feet M'lady



Thank You.
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#22
Nov 23, 2008 7:38 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
MOJO50
MOJO50MOJO50cancld but FT-belo,MC-M-1,ca-, Minnesota USA3 Threads 24 Posts
MOJO50cancld but FT-belo,MC-M-1,ca-, Minnesota USA24 posts
I think to be yourself and never deicide that you don't belong!teddybear
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#23
Nov 23, 2008 7:50 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
B_S1965
B_S1965B_S1965champlin, Minnesota USA9 Threads 308 Posts
B_S1965champlin, Minnesota USA308 posts
somechick: I don't try to fit in with the in crowd.I'm very capable to stand on my own two feet.

I agree. I'm my own person so I usually find something in common with someone and if I don't then I pick another crowd....cheers
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#24
Nov 23, 2008 8:01 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Taterspringfield, Illinois USA3,326 posts
None of the above, other people can't get me down... I am confident enough in myself (not conceited) to know I only have to worry about my life, and I realize people aren't always going to agree with each other.. Antone can can what ever they want to me, I know the true, so what's it matter what someone else says or does...

I think for myself, and do for myself(not selfish) just very independent..

I don't need to get anyone's approval, for any of the decisions I make...cheers
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#25
Nov 23, 2008 8:03 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Taterspringfield, Illinois USA3,326 posts
Tater: None of the above, other people can't get me down... I am confident enough in myself (not conceited) to know I only have to worry about my life, and I realize people aren't always going to agree with each other.. Anyone can say whatever they want to me, I know the truth, so what's it matter what someone else says or does...

I think for myself, and do for myself(not selfish) just very independent..

I don't need to get anyone's approval, for any of the decisions I make...



Kids this is why your teacher always tell you to proofread..laugh

wow, that was bad...laugh cheers
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#26
Nov 23, 2008 8:14 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
GirlWednesday
GirlWednesdayGirlWednesdayScarborough, Ontario Canada1 Threads 53 Posts
GirlWednesdayScarborough, Ontario Canada53 posts
Tater: Kids this is why your teacher always tell you to proofread..

wow, that was bad...
thumbs up
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#27
Nov 23, 2008 8:51 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
HJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA17,068 posts
Is not the need to "feel" like one is "fitting in", actually a lack the of "feeling" of self-worth??dunno
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#28
Nov 23, 2008 8:54 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
princemuncher
princemuncherprincemunchernorthfield, Ohio USA12 Threads 378 Posts
princemunchernorthfield, Ohio USA378 posts
I've never fit in anywhere for most of my life.


























And I farking LOVE it.
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#29
Nov 23, 2008 8:54 AM CST What do you do when you feel like you don't fit in?
PietroPaoloV
PietroPaoloVPietroPaoloVGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden57 Threads 3 Polls 722 Posts
PietroPaoloVGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden722 posts
I just scratch the back of me head and exclaim:

- Fu**'em

And then I leave

And then I....


.... another story for another time
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