Do confessions make a relationship stronger? ( Archived) (129)

Aug 10, 2013 2:51 AM CSTDo confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts

Do confessions make a relationship stronger?(Vote Below)

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Yes
35
41%
No
21
24%
Not sure
25
29%
Ask me later
5
6%
Total Votes
86
dunno
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Aug 10, 2013 2:54 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
Confessions imply screwups, so not sure... maybe you can describe a specific scenario to which we could respond?
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Aug 10, 2013 2:55 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 400 Posts
Depends on the confession and the openness of both partners. And more.. But it should.
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Aug 10, 2013 2:57 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
NotMissTaken: Depends on the confession and the openness of both partners. And more.. But it should.

hole
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Aug 10, 2013 2:59 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 400 Posts
stefff: Confessions imply screwups, so not sure... maybe you can describe a specific scenario to which we could respond?


If every men think like that, no wonder you are always accused of lying.. roll eyes
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Aug 10, 2013 3:01 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
NotMissTaken: If every men think like that, no wonder you are always accused of lying..

liar liar liar


...but perhaps you misunderstood me angel
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Aug 10, 2013 3:01 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
_R_J_
_R_J__R_J_@, Lithuania Minor Lithuania2 Threads 2 Polls 126 Posts
I clicked yes, because sometimes it really does, because one of partners or even both partners are word's man and doesn't wants to break their word, BUT not in all times yes works, it really depends on couple, who's man and woman in relation
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Aug 10, 2013 3:03 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK33 Threads 4 Polls 21,245 Posts
Golly, no.

That Catholic priest/naughty girl role play stuff is well dodgy.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:04 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
_R_J_
_R_J__R_J_@, Lithuania Minor Lithuania2 Threads 2 Polls 126 Posts
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Aug 10, 2013 3:04 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
jac379: Golly, no.

That Catholic priest/naughty girl role play stuff is well dodgy.

Fess us Jac!

"Forgive me Father for I've sinned..."

love laugh
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Aug 10, 2013 3:06 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
steffffie: Confessions imply screwups, so not sure... maybe you can describe a specific scenario to which we could respond?


Would you confess to your girlfriends that you had naughty thoughts of a woman you work with?

OR

Would you confess to your GF that you told her a lie?

etc.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:12 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
Hahahaha! That's funny!thumbs up
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Aug 10, 2013 3:14 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
lalasierra: Would you confess to your girlfriends that you had naughty thoughts of a woman you work with?

OR

Would you confess to your GF that you told her a lie?

etc.


Having naughty thoughts is not a sin in my book, ergo, no need to fess it up. From experience, I'd say it's better to keep them to ourselves.

I try my best not to lie. The truth may be appreciated, but doesn't always make a relationship stronger.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:16 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 400 Posts
stefff: ...but perhaps you misunderstood me


That's what usually stops men from saying truth. that women might misunderstood. There's some truth there. Can't omit the fact that there are women who are... Well.. whatever.. But if my boyfriend thinks me like that, he has a low opinion of me. snooty
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Aug 10, 2013 3:19 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
NotMissTaken: That's what usually stops men from saying truth. that women might misunderstood. There's some truth there. Can't omit the fact that there are women who are... Well.. whatever.. But if my boyfriend thinks me like that, he has a low opinion of me.


That's pretty heavy!thumbs up
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Aug 10, 2013 3:23 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 400 Posts
lala: That's pretty heavy!


If a girl can't be trusted to be open-minded in small things, how much more with the major issues? smile
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Aug 10, 2013 3:28 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
NotMissTaken: That's what usually stops men from saying truth. that women might misunderstood. There's some truth there. Can't omit the fact that there are women who are... Well.. whatever.. But if my boyfriend thinks me like that, he has a low opinion of me.


A lapse of judgement or a screwup doesn't help the relationship, no matter if it's confessed or not. Once done, one may be able to fix things up by fessing up, or it may make no difference, depending on the circumstances.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:35 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 400 Posts
stefff: A lapse of judgement or a screwup doesn't help the relationship, no matter if it's confessed or not. Once done, one may be able to fix things up by fessing up, or it may make no difference, depending on the circumstances.


I agree on "depending on the circumstances". But you guys most of the time make the screwup even bigger by trying to fix it by your brilliant ideas.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:37 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
_R_J_
_R_J__R_J_@, Lithuania Minor Lithuania2 Threads 2 Polls 126 Posts
Femminists
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Aug 10, 2013 3:37 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
if a person ..feels she/he...has to confess.....about something.....it shows a troubled mind....and should not enter into a relationship.......if it is that serious.jmo.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:38 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA11 Threads 981 Posts
NotMissTaken: I agree on "depending on the circumstances". But you guys most of the time make the screwup even bigger by trying to fix it by your brilliant ideas.

Accused of stereotyping and youth of age! professor laugh
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Aug 10, 2013 3:38 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
_R_J_
_R_J__R_J_@, Lithuania Minor Lithuania2 Threads 2 Polls 126 Posts
yeah yeah yeah it's always guy's who's guilty, women - nevah, she's brilliant entity, never mistaken, pfft rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 10, 2013 3:39 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
NotMissTaken: If a girl can't be trusted to be open-minded in small things, how much more with the major issues?


Exactly!
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Aug 10, 2013 3:40 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
steffffie: A lapse of judgement or a screwup doesn't help the relationship, no matter if it's confessed or not. Once done, one may be able to fix things up by fessing up, or it may make no difference, depending on the circumstances.


True.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:41 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK33 Threads 4 Polls 21,245 Posts
steffffie: Fess us Jac!

"Forgive me Father for I've sinned..."

No way, I've heard rumours about the size of your bible.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:42 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
NotMissTaken: I agree on "depending on the circumstances". But you guys most of the time make the screwup even bigger by trying to fix it by your brilliant ideas.


SOME GUYS do have those brilliant ideas! I've dated of few of them, hahaha!
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Aug 10, 2013 3:44 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
_R_J_: Femminists


And you are ALWAYS bringing femminists into EVERY conversation!thumbs down DUMB!
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Aug 10, 2013 3:45 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK377 Threads 8 Polls 24,763 Posts
I think for smaller things like finding another woman attractive, or having naughty thoughts about someone else, it's best to keep quiet. If you act on these things then perhaps you'd better have a look at your relationship.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:46 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
My mind is/not troubled but confession is a daily duty.
Any relationship entered is entered because of a need to know!
If you cross my path and smile it is because you need to be smiled at.
Love you.

If you want to know walk in my shoes, I will freely give them to you.
Forgive me for the shoes you walk in because they may cause you pain.
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Aug 10, 2013 3:47 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA178 Threads 82 Polls 1,293 Posts
tomcatwarne: I think for smaller things like finding another woman attractive, or having naughty thoughts about someone else, it's best to keep quiet. If you act on these things then perhaps you'd better have a look at your relationship.


Everyone is human and it's hard not to look. Is it a crime to look?
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Aug 10, 2013 3:47 AM CST Do confessions make a relationship stronger?
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 400 Posts
stefff: Accused of stereotyping and youth of age!


Wouldn't it be worse if I said boys? grin
And this is not a feminist issue.. tongue
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