After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts? (51)

Aug 10, 2013 12:58 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
gifts bring back memories, if isnot requirement to return them, the best is tokeep them some place,a box , time heals, but an engagement ring should be returned , there is no point keeping it.
but if he asked me to give back the gifts he to have given me,I would give him the trash and bad timeswine
Aug 10, 2013 5:54 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
Annelise101
Annelise101Annelise101Oslo, Norway2 Threads 19 Posts
lalasierra: Do you deserve to keep the gifts? Why or why not?
OR
Do you have the right to ask for the gifts back?
Why?


No and daffily not....when you gave you give from your heart... Love is mean you respect and don't want anything back... If you ask the give back that like a child ....

When I with someone I like to make him special , I like to buy a nice gifts to him . When we finished I never ask it back .... As last we were had a good time together...
Aug 12, 2013 8:56 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
chris27292729: Never asked them (gifts) back.Better to remember you as a gentleman,than a cheap scrooge.


That's the right thing to do.
Aug 12, 2013 8:58 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
jac379: The last gift I was given was a very expensive, popular brand of perfume which reeked like a hazardous chemical factory to me.

My best friend was thrilled to bits with it, however.


Hahaha! You re-gifted! Well at least someone got good use of it.
Aug 12, 2013 8:59 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
chris27292729: I would never asked from her,presents given by me,in the same time,i'll return all her presents given to me,even without her asking.





I wouldn't really consider an engagement ring to be a gift especially when the guy would've purchased it himself.


I wouldn't wish to have any connection of a broken relationship.
Aug 12, 2013 9:02 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Cyn_Real: I do believe that only teenagers will do these ideas.


I do agree, very juvenile behavior, but I've seen it happen before (whether it's been in the heat of the moment or not).
Aug 13, 2013 9:23 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
Extremely petty to ask for gifts back. Engagement rings are also a grey area.....I have a colleague who has been engaged four times and has managed to recycle the same ring to all four prospective brides. He is now having it polished in preparation for fiancé no. 5!
Aug 13, 2013 9:27 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
lalasierra: Do you deserve to keep the gifts? Why or why not?
OR
Do you have the right to ask for the gifts back?

Why?


After a break-up, what was given to the other
should left behind.beer
Aug 13, 2013 9:28 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
LadyDiz: Extremely petty to ask for gifts back. Engagement rings are also a grey area.....I have a colleague who has been engaged four times and has managed to recycle the same ring to all four prospective brides. He is now having it polished in preparation for fiancé no. 5!


Number 5! That's wild! Gotta give him credit for not giving up on love but it makes me wonder if there's something wrong with him and I'm not so sure how I feel about the recycled ring idea.confused
Aug 13, 2013 9:45 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
When I got divorced..my husband sold all my paintings,and bought a boat!
Aug 13, 2013 9:49 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
serena123: When I got divorced..my husband sold all my paintings,and bought a boat!


Did you buy a new husband?confused
Aug 13, 2013 9:52 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
bungallow55: Did you buy a new husband?
seventeen years later... still havn`t got onehug
Aug 13, 2013 9:55 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
serena123: seventeen years later... still havn`t got one


Girl, I'm right here.heart beating
Aug 13, 2013 10:00 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
Pom_Pom
Pom_PomPom_PomBuenos Aires, Argentina71 Threads 32 Polls 1,740 Posts
He can keep the gifts as long as I get to keep the dogs... dancing dog
Aug 13, 2013 10:08 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Serena: And I've just the other day I heard a good word about him from another CS member!
Aug 13, 2013 4:57 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
prettyandwitty
prettyandwittyprettyandwittyValetta, Majjistral Malta2 Posts
He hurt me badly and when I left him, I left in his home every single thing he had bought me. months later I found a pair of earrings from hi, forgotten in a purse but couldn't give them back. He was already with another one. Younger rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 13, 2013 5:53 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
An engagement is a contract for marriage.

If he breaks the contract, she can keep the ring. I wouldn't want it.

If she breaks the contract, she has to give the ring back to him.


I would give back everything he gave me

I wouldn't want back whatever I gave him.

Memories are enough to deal with without having material things to look at.
Aug 13, 2013 7:21 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
chris27292729: Never asked them (gifts) back.Better to remember you as a gentleman,than a cheap scrooge.



well said thumbs up


Me & my exs never did that. Since we gave it with sincerity from the bottom of our heart, then so be it... maybe I am not a sentimental person...so I think the show must go on... They are not my destiny...
Aug 13, 2013 8:26 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
Samalona68
Samalona68Samalona68Ujung Pandang, Indonesia3 Threads 368 Posts
rebel2: No way...they were gifts,given without condition.


thumbs up
Aug 16, 2013 8:22 AM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
steffffie: Loser or not, he has a sense of humor, and you don't.


wrong way round.

is more fun to make a woman smile/laugh.
Aug 16, 2013 9:04 PM CST After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
After a break-up, would you ask for your gifts back/would you give back the gifts?



give them away
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