I look for all the above but I know its rather unrealistic but 3 stand out the most honestly loyalty and dependability I can't imagine ever meeting a woman these days like that. I only had one in my life time many years ago but we had to let go for we could only go just so far. Aside from that she had those qualities I really adored as I gave her the same.
steffffie: Loyalty is precious... is it the most important trait that you'd look for in a man?
Tough question, Steffie. Trust/loyalty is very important, so I will say yes. I want to know that I can trust my man to never lie or cheat. When there is trust, love and respect grow much stronger in my opinion.
Enkidu: I look for all the above but I know its rather unrealistic but 3 stand out the most honestly loyalty and dependability I can't imagine ever meeting a woman these days like that. I only had one in my life time many years ago but we had to let go for we could only go just so far. Aside from that she had those qualities I really adored as I gave her the same.
I'm sorry to hear your relationship didn't work out.
lalasierra: Tough question, Steffie. Trust/loyalty is very important, so I will say yes. I want to know that I can trust my man to never lie or cheat. When there is trust, love and respect grow much stronger in my opinion.
We have different ways to view relationships so it may be hard to find common ground.
For me, whether my girl lies or sleeps with someone else is none of my business. What matters is that the time we spend together is worth it.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Enkidu: I look for all the above but I know its rather unrealistic but 3 stand out the most honestly loyalty and dependability I can't imagine ever meeting a woman these days like that. I only had one in my life time many years ago but we had to let go for we could only go just so far. Aside from that she had those qualities I really adored as I gave her the same.
You don't have a very high opinion of women, then?
The free love experiment did not work. As Humans we are naturally territorial, and because we have emotions we are jealous. A commitment is part of the whole package as we seek contentment. Plus there are health issues with multiple partners. To each their own of course, but for myself it would just lead to a more complicated life.
Sep 6, 2013 3:26 AM CST MEN, What do you look for in a woman?
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
I believe I have all those qualities, except perhaps for the external beauty part since beauty is really a subjective thing. The interesting things is that I'm not unique - I know many women who could say the same. And men for that matter....
rebel2: A little bit of everything. The world is full of lovely women,all differant,and the pleasure is finding out all about them,and enjoying there company.
justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia2,592 posts
LadyDiz: I believe I have all those qualities, except perhaps for the external beauty part since beauty is really a subjective thing. The interesting things is that I'm not unique - I know many women who could say the same. And men for that matter....
I agree, beauty is so much more than the externals. good post.
...a kind gentle woman who has the ability..to know a mans worth as a person.....to love a person for what he/she has..is not wrong.....but its just a love to gain...I don't seek to gain.......but a true love that will last....that's my honest answer.......(serious..head on today)....pete.
truheart1941: ...a kind gentle woman who has the ability..to know a mans worth as a person.....to love a person for what he/she has..is not wrong.....but its just a love to gain...I don't seek to gain.......but a true love that will last....that's my honest answer.......(serious..head on today)....pete.
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
lalasierra: Please elaborate.
Someone I can lean on and trust ...
packed in a hourglass body ,6 foot tall ,enormous bank account , age between 23 and 23 and a half I could make some exceptions regarding age ,but the bank account must be double huge
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