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Sep 26, 2008 7:38 PM CSTdo you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
NESMAN
NESMANNESMANsheffield, South Yorkshire, England, UK34 Threads 20 Polls 228 Posts

do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?(Vote Below)

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Yes
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Alittle
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Maybe
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No
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I sometimes cant help but think about this as i usualy say stupid things at the wrong time and i dont think Im the best looker in town.
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Sep 26, 2008 7:38 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
NESMAN
NESMANNESMANsheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK34 Threads 20 Polls 228 Posts
I sometimes cant help but think about this as i usualy say stupid things at the wrong time and i dont think Im the best looker in town.
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Sep 26, 2008 8:05 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 2,351 Posts
NESMAN: I sometimes cant help but think about this as i usualy say stupid things at the wrong time and i dont think Im the best looker in town.


Sweetheart, we have all been in this prodicamint. I looked at your profile, mainly just to get your age.. When I was your age, I had the exact same insecurities!! I felt everything I said and done must appear very silly to others................ But believe me, with age comes confidence............... Now when I feel stupid with the things I say or do.................I still feel it..... But also have the ability to put two fingers up and say; 'So fecking what!?' LMAO
Take me or leave me!!!

And in time you too, will gain that confidence and just be comfortable with yourself!

hug Jo
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Sep 26, 2008 8:54 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK69 Threads 2,362 Posts
Mate as someone of your age (thats why i looked at your pro) I can honestly tell you not to worry about it.

I used to have exactly the same worries but one day thought f*ck it.. What does it matter what people think of me? As long as I was comfortable in what I looked like it really didn't matter what others thought..

The more I thought that the more confident I became, in turn I became more confident talking to people (women included) and have reaped the benefits (how big headed does that sound!!)..

What I'm trying to say in a roundabout way is balls to what others think, just be happy in yourself and others will follow
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Sep 27, 2008 4:37 AM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK37 Threads 5 Polls 10,047 Posts
NESMAN: I sometimes cant help but think about this as i usualy say stupid things at the wrong time and i dont think Im the best looker in town.
No, I couldn't care less, I'm quite thick skinned professor If they don't like me, chances are I'll not like them either rolling on the floor laughing

Anyway, all I seem to have met this week are people who are so full of their own imaginary self importance that they never had the time to form an opinion of me laugh .... hmmm Anyway, back to the original question. Sod everyone else, as long as "you" like "you" and worship bowing yourself then that's all that really matters

laugh
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Sep 27, 2008 6:23 AM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 260 Posts
such sensible answers,be yourself,dress as u want and sod everyone else
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Sep 27, 2008 6:32 AM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK22 Threads 2 Polls 1,184 Posts
Zellarrone1: No, I couldn't care less, I'm quite thick skinned If they don't like me, chances are I'll not like them either

Anyway, all I seem to have met this week are people who are so full of their own imaginary self importance that they never had the time to form an opinion of me .... Anyway, back to the original question. Sod everyone else, as long as "you" like "you" and worship yourself then that's all that really matters


I agree with Zella aka Helga wave wine teddybear

If people can only judge on first appearance or looks without the manners of speaking to you or getting to know you before they do so it is *they* who have a problem,
NOT YOU.

I have been judged by the same myopic individuals as you are experiencing and my most positive suggestion FWIW is to just smile and say nothing or just Ignore them and move on and they hate it. laugh

My philosphy has always been WYSIWYG - What you see is what you get and I haven't lost out financially in my two professions or in my hobbies and interests by it.

so cheers handshake
Mike angel the shitehawk @ Broadstairs Kent
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Sep 27, 2008 8:07 AM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK17 Threads 278 Posts
very well said,never let others get u down
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Sep 27, 2008 3:47 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France103 Threads 4 Polls 5,247 Posts
NESMAN: I sometimes cant help but think about this as i usualy say stupid things at the wrong time and i dont think Im the best looker in town.


Listen mate..if always putting your foot in it pisses you off, try prozac..Just a thought..
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Sep 28, 2008 12:48 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK37 Threads 5 Polls 10,047 Posts
mike1937: I agree with Zella aka Helga

If people can only judge on first appearance or looks without the manners of speaking to you or getting to know you before they do so it is *they* who have a problem,
NOT YOU.

I have been judged by the same myopic individuals as you are experiencing and my most positive suggestion FWIW is to just smile and say nothing or just Ignore them and move on and they hate it.

My philosphy has always been WYSIWYG - What you see is what you get and I haven't lost out financially in my two professions or in my hobbies and interests by it.

so
Mike the shitehawk @ Broadstairs Kent
wave Seems we are all in some sort of agreement talk to hand at least in this thread so far laugh
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Sep 28, 2008 4:10 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
Beenabout
BeenaboutBeenaboutPreston, Lancashire, England UK6 Threads 209 Posts
Jesus Wept!-What complex prompted this thread?-You are what you are!-Just be yourself-an be proud of it!!!!.
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Oct 21, 2008 11:18 AM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
NESMAN
NESMANNESMANsheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK34 Threads 20 Polls 228 Posts
some people get worried because of past experience
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Feb 20, 2009 2:55 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK223 Posts
not realy im still going whear what i want and look how i want no matter what anyone else thinks of me
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Feb 20, 2009 3:42 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK88 Threads 10,714 Posts
I couldnt care less what anybody thinks.........laugh

As for you...well..its something that`ll get better as you get older, and gain a little more experience......As long as you have a little self confidence, then everything else will just fall into place....cheers

Theres more to life than bein good looking....but I wouldnt know about that bein the super stud that I am.....rolling on the floor laughing drinking



laugh doh
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Feb 20, 2009 4:41 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 2,351 Posts
lovaboy: I couldnt care less what anybody thinks.........

As for you...well..its something that`ll get better as you get older, and gain a little more experience......As long as you have a little self confidence, then everything else will just fall into place....

Theres more to life than bein good looking....but I wouldnt know about that bein the super stud that I am.....




bowing We're not worthy!! bowing

wink
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Feb 20, 2009 4:54 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
mrgs1
mrgs1mrgs1GLOUCESTER, Gloucestershire, England UK2 Posts
First impression's do count when your as ugly as i'am! You just want to live in a cave. it's all very well having confidence but that soon get's knocked out of you, my skin is 6" thick but when people have been so nasty for so long it soon goes, and you feel like shit.would'nt mind if i was fat, covered in acne etc and these bloke's pull too!The world has positive and negative some people have to endure negative, so other people can enjoy the positive's.
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Feb 20, 2009 5:02 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 2,351 Posts
mrgs1: First impression's do count when your as ugly as i'am! You just want to live in a cave. it's all very well having confidence but that soon get's knocked out of you, my skin is 6" thick but when people have been so nasty for so long it soon goes, and you feel like shit.would'nt mind if i was fat, covered in acne etc and these bloke's pull too!The world has positive and negative some people have to endure negative, so other people can enjoy the positive's.


What are you on about??? Just took a sneaky peek at your profile pic and you aren't ugly!

Not after thet sympathy vote are ya??? wink


handshake Jo
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Feb 20, 2009 5:35 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
mrgs1
mrgs1mrgs1GLOUCESTER, Gloucestershire, England UK2 Posts
jojo69: What are you on about??? Just took a sneaky peek at your profile pic and you aren't ugly!

Not after thet sympathy vote are ya??? Jo
No not at all thank you. Perhap's the people who were nasty to me in the past had the problem!Still on the bright side when i was 8 years old, i was very overweight, many ring's of fat on me,then shot up to 6.1" and firm no gut. So not too bad, just like you said, sod the people who are nasty i feel better already, I cant be nasty to people i see inner beauty.
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Feb 20, 2009 5:51 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 2,351 Posts
mrgs1: No not at all thank you. Perhap's the people who were nasty to me in the past had the problem!Still on the bright side when i was 8 years old, i was very overweight, many ring's of fat on me,then shot up to 6.1" and firm no gut. So not too bad, just like you said, sod the people who are nasty i feel better already, I cant be nasty to people i see inner beauty.


I was only joking about the sympathy vote thing (My scouse banter - Sorry!)

You certainly have a great and positive outlook on life. handshake
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Feb 21, 2009 4:50 AM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 6,745 Posts
dont care about what people think. i am who i am and what you see is what you get. Take it or leave it.

head banger head banger head banger
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Feb 21, 2009 3:24 PM CST do you get worried of what people may think of you on first sight?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK88 Threads 10,714 Posts
mrgs1: First impression's do count when your as ugly as i'am! You just want to live in a cave. it's all very well having confidence but that soon get's knocked out of you, my skin is 6" thick but when people have been so nasty for so long it soon goes, and you feel like shit.would'nt mind if i was fat, covered in acne etc and these bloke's pull too!The world has positive and negative some people have to endure negative, so other people can enjoy the positive's.


laugh Did he ever come back then?? dunno laugh
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