HotrodLarrys: Open Discussion.... Someone asked me this question in the past, Just Curious as what the Majority thinks. Have Fun with it!
There's a HUGE difference to "being" in love then "thinking" your in love...I've THOUGHT I was in love 3 times, come to find out, I wasn't or I wouldn't have been able to walk away like I did IMHO
SoonerGal: There's a HUGE difference to "being" in love then "thinking" your in love...I've THOUGHT I was in love 3 times, come to find out, I wasn't or I wouldn't have been able to walk away like I did IMHO
Thanks sooner, I can relate to that quite clearly, and Seems at times we dont realize True Love Fully, Until we loose it....The Mind is a funny thing!
and it is a hard question to answer for the most part, I felt it would be an Educational Discussion for all
whtwhb: Well, I dont know, but Ive got a real problem, Im in love with two woman, and I love them equally.
this right here is why it's ALL so superficial.... no such thing as TRUE love, so if you can bang'em in bed and they fix meals and clean the house guess you best keep'em
SoonerGal: this right here is why it's ALL so superficial.... no such thing as TRUE love, so if you can bang'em in bed and they fix meals and clean the house guess you best keep'em
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
SoonerGal: this right here is why it's ALL so superficial.... no such thing as TRUE love, so if you can bang'em in bed and they fix meals and clean the house guess you best keep'em
'Ah I prefer what happens to my brain when I think I an in love, maybe I'm stupid but I have a big grin on my face
bodleing2: I'm at a loss to understand how you can 'fall in love' with someone if it's not reciprocal.
But I guess projections can have strange effects on us all.
yes...projections.
i have felt many things..love, like, lust, infatuation, passion, compassion, trust, ... perceptions projections
i enjoy (in joy) these feelings (based on fantasies really) till i begin to question or write stories to accompany them that do not support them, often the result of a forced reality changing my perception.
i have had the experience that i 'thought/believed/perceived...'felt' i was 'in love' with someone, it turned out..he was not 'inlove' with me. so does 'in love' need to be reciprocal?...dunno...
i do think 'in love' does require that it's reciprocal to sustain it.
so yes.. projection on my part. but i gotta say...i still felt/believed i was 'in love'.
is one illusion more important than another?
i think it's easier to be love. just requires a decision to love someone. open my heart, accept rather than judge, and act in a loving way.
But Reality is It Doesn't Always work that way Or Most of us would not be here!
it doesnt always work that way...yes we can try and try again. Love should or cannot be just a relationship for me.When ever i love someone through this one i love all.Then i love the trees, sky, the birds....and all women The rare mnoments when i feel myself in love it is not related to a person. I fel more free. I dont need an object for it, coz all IS love. "most of us would not be here"---- nomaybe more would be here.
HotrodLarrys: Thanks sooner, I can relate to that quite clearly, and Seems at times we dont realize True Love Fully, Until we loose it....The Mind is a funny thing!
and it is a hard question to answer for the most part, I felt it would be an Educational Discussion for all
you need to drop the mind to be in love, or at least you need to have a distance to the mind,
the person who is identified with the mind(no distance) cannot love
nokundi: it doesnt always work that way...yes we can try and try again. Love should or cannot be just a relationship for me.When ever i love someone through this one i love all.Then i love the trees, sky, the birds....and all women The rare mnoments when i feel myself in love it is not related to a person. I fel more free. I dont need an object for it, coz all IS love. "most of us would not be here"---- nomaybe more would be here.
I personally am done trying....not wasting anymore of my precious energy....not saying I'll never be with anyone again, but LOVE will NOT be in the equation.
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