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Nov 1, 2013 3:42 PM CSTHow Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?

How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?(Vote Below)

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Only once or twice
17
20%
Three or four times
3
4%
5 or 6 times
2
2%
More than 6
8
10%
Every time you fall out of Love
15
18%
I dont know, Good Question...
24
29%
Love is only Lust or Infatuation most of the time
8
10%
Never Love sucks! Forums only
6
7%
Total Votes
83
Open Discussion.... Someone asked me this question in the past, Just Curious as what the Majority thinks. Have Fun with it!wine
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Nov 1, 2013 3:53 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany4 Threads 2 Polls 1,840 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Open Discussion.... Someone asked me this question in the past, Just Curious as what the Majority thinks. Have Fun with it!


Better than to fall in love is to be in love.
All life long.heart wings
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Nov 1, 2013 3:59 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK377 Threads 8 Polls 24,691 Posts
nokundi: Better than to fall in love is to be in love.
All life long.


Well nokundi, I won't give my knee jerk reaction to your comment, I have been in total love only once. How about you.
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Nov 1, 2013 3:59 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi: Better than to fall in love is to be in love.
All life long.


I Totally Agree with that!wine

But Reality is It Doesn't Always work that way Or Most of us would not be here!
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Nov 1, 2013 4:02 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA87 Threads 26,944 Posts
Falling in love and having a relationship are two different things.
Keanu Reeves
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Nov 1, 2013 4:06 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK377 Threads 8 Polls 24,691 Posts
Ccincy: Falling in love and having a relationship are two different things.
Keanu Reeves

This is true I hope I don't fall in love again unless it is reciprocated.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:07 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
whtwhb
whtwhbwhtwhbStrand, Western Cape South Africa19 Posts
Well, I dont know, but Ive got a real problem,
Im in love with two woman, and I love them equally.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:11 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK49 Threads 4,684 Posts
tomcatwarne: This is true I hope I don't fall in love again unless it is reciprocated.


I'm at a loss to understand how you can 'fall in love' with someone if it's not reciprocal.

But I guess projections can have strange effects on us all.

grin
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Nov 1, 2013 4:12 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
whtwhb: Well, I dont know, but Ive got a real problem,
Im in love with two woman, and I love them equally.


That does sound like a problem!laugh




Please Vote for something People!... Thank You!wave
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Nov 1, 2013 4:13 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA87 Threads 26,944 Posts
tomcatwarne: This is true I hope I don't fall in love again unless it is reciprocated.



How could you fall in love with someone if they didn't love you back?

I wouldn't consider that being a relationship.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:14 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK377 Threads 8 Polls 24,691 Posts
bodleing2: I'm at a loss to understand how you can 'fall in love' with someone if it's not reciprocal.

But I guess projections can have strange effects on us all.



Well I guess you are not as smart as I thought you were.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:15 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK49 Threads 4,684 Posts
whtwhb: Well, I dont know, but Ive got a real problem,
Im in love with two woman, and I love them equally.


That's not a problem, pick the one who gives best head!!!

grin
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Nov 1, 2013 4:20 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
bodleing2: I'm at a loss to understand how you can 'fall in love' with someone if it's not reciprocal.

But I guess projections can have strange effects on us all.


wave Hi bodleing, Yes and in Hopes, Needs to continue reciprocating tho sometimes that looses it's strength, on one side or the other too often!roll eyes
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Nov 1, 2013 4:20 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA24 Threads 12 Polls 3,208 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Open Discussion.... Someone asked me this question in the past, Just Curious as what the Majority thinks. Have Fun with it!



There's a HUGE difference to "being" in love then "thinking" your in love...I've THOUGHT I was in love 3 times, come to find out, I wasn't or I wouldn't have been able to walk away like I did professor IMHO
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Nov 1, 2013 4:24 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK377 Threads 8 Polls 24,691 Posts
Ccincy: How could you fall in love with someone if they didn't love you back?

I wouldn't consider that being a relationship.


Are you so controlled you can work this to how you want??? This sounds like a psychopath to me.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:27 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany4 Threads 2 Polls 1,840 Posts
tomcatwarne: Well nokundi, I won't give my knee jerk reaction to your comment, I have been in total love only once. How about you.



total love 3 times (love-falling)purple heart
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Nov 1, 2013 4:27 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal: There's a HUGE difference to "being" in love then "thinking" your in love...I've THOUGHT I was in love 3 times, come to find out, I wasn't or I wouldn't have been able to walk away like I did IMHO

Thanks sooner, I can relate to that quite clearly, and Seems at times we dont realize True Love Fully, Until we loose it....The Mind is a funny thing!

and it is a hard question to answer for the most part, I felt it would be an Educational Discussion for allbouquet
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Nov 1, 2013 4:32 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA87 Threads 26,944 Posts
tomcatwarne: Are you so controlled you can work this to how you want??? This sounds like a psychopath to me.




Tom you need help.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:34 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada31 Threads 14 Polls 2,119 Posts
whtwhb: Well, I dont know, but Ive got a real problem,
Im in love with two woman, and I love them equally.
I wish I had your problem!blues laugh
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Nov 1, 2013 4:40 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA24 Threads 12 Polls 3,208 Posts
whtwhb: Well, I dont know, but Ive got a real problem,
Im in love with two woman, and I love them equally.



this right here is why it's ALL so superficial....doh no such thing as TRUE love, so if you can bang'em in bed and they fix meals and clean the house guess you best keep'em
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Nov 1, 2013 4:41 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 3,109 Posts
hiya, larry wave

numbers and love don't rhyme in my world and i don't think that emotions are countable...

i guess, it would be usuful to define what "falling in love" means for each of us
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Nov 1, 2013 4:41 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 3,109 Posts
hiya, larry wave

numbers and love don't rhyme in my world and i don't think that emotions are countable...

i guess, it would be usuful to define what "falling in love" means for each of us
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Nov 1, 2013 4:43 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain9 Threads 8,565 Posts
SoonerGal: this right here is why it's ALL so superficial.... no such thing as TRUE love, so if you can bang'em in bed and they fix meals and clean the house guess you best keep'em
shock shock shock Do you mean there is more!
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Nov 1, 2013 4:44 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK377 Threads 8 Polls 24,691 Posts
SoonerGal: this right here is why it's ALL so superficial.... no such thing as TRUE love, so if you can bang'em in bed and they fix meals and clean the house guess you best keep'em
'Ah I prefer what happens to my brain when I think I an in love, maybe I'm stupid but I have a big grin on my facegrin grin grin grin
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Nov 1, 2013 4:44 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 10,632 Posts
bodleing2: I'm at a loss to understand how you can 'fall in love' with someone if it's not reciprocal.

But I guess projections can have strange effects on us all.


yes...projections.

i have felt many things..love, like, lust, infatuation, passion, compassion, trust, ...
perceptions
projections

i enjoy (in joy) these feelings (based on fantasies really) till i begin to question or write stories to accompany them that do not support them, often the result of a forced reality changing my perception.

i have had the experience that i 'thought/believed/perceived...'felt' i was 'in love' with someone, it turned out..he was not 'inlove' with me. so does 'in love' need to be reciprocal?...dunno...

i do think 'in love' does require that it's reciprocal to sustain it.

so yes.. projection on my part. but i gotta say...i still felt/believed i was 'in love'.

is one illusion more important than another?

i think it's easier to be love. just requires a decision to love someone. open my heart, accept rather than judge, and act in a loving way.

jmho


wine
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Nov 1, 2013 4:45 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany4 Threads 2 Polls 1,840 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I Totally Agree with that!

But Reality is It Doesn't Always work that way Or Most of us would not be here!

it doesnt always work that way...yes we can try and try again.
Love should or cannot be just a relationship for me.When ever i love someone through this one i love all.Then i love the trees, sky, the birds....and all womensmitten The rare mnoments when i feel myself in love it is not related to a person. I fel more free. I dont need an object for it, coz all IS love.
"most of us would not be here"---- nomaybe more would be here.heart wings
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Nov 1, 2013 4:45 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Completely..................only once
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Nov 1, 2013 4:47 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany4 Threads 2 Polls 1,840 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Thanks sooner, I can relate to that quite clearly, and Seems at times we dont realize True Love Fully, Until we loose it....The Mind is a funny thing!

and it is a hard question to answer for the most part, I felt it would be an Educational Discussion for all


you need to drop the mind to be in love, or at least you need to have a distance to the mind,

the person who is identified with the mind(no distance) cannot love
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Nov 1, 2013 4:47 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA24 Threads 12 Polls 3,208 Posts
nokundi: it doesnt always work that way...yes we can try and try again.
Love should or cannot be just a relationship for me.When ever i love someone through this one i love all.Then i love the trees, sky, the birds....and all women The rare mnoments when i feel myself in love it is not related to a person. I fel more free. I dont need an object for it, coz all IS love.
"most of us would not be here"---- nomaybe more would be here.



I personally am done trying....not wasting anymore of my precious energy....not saying I'll never be with anyone again, but LOVE will NOT be in the equation.
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Nov 1, 2013 4:48 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA24 Threads 12 Polls 3,208 Posts
nokundi: you need to drop the mind to be in love, or at least you need to have a distance to the mind,

the person who is identified with the mind(no distance) cannot love



huh? confused wave
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Nov 1, 2013 4:48 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany4 Threads 2 Polls 1,840 Posts
thumbs up
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