How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love? (222)

Nov 1, 2013 5:31 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
confused i am very sorry , i cant get youconfused
chatonlyman2: You have an observation.Just figure out why,weed the weak and be carefull with the rest of them.
Safer that way and easier to cope.No dream is unmanageable or overcomable. If that makes any sence. Ask yourself
Why don't she make sence
Nov 1, 2013 5:33 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal: I find it bizarre that we're all single for the most...and sitting here blowing about love...we are bored aren't' we


Actually these are the Type of Educational Discussions we USED TO HAVE on CS, Alot can be Learned! Now the topics are what color is your Dog? and Who sold who!doh and Oh nevermind!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave
Nov 1, 2013 5:37 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Actually these are the Type of Educational Discussions we USED TO HAVE on CS, Alot can be Learned! Now the topics are what color is your Dog? and Who sold who! and Oh nevermind!



It's a good topic wave laugh now educational I'll have to disagree with you, I learn from my OWN experiences and failures, not someone else's teddybear
Nov 1, 2013 5:38 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
rebel2: Personally i have never been in love,and i am looking forward to it should it ever happen.


I Wish My Very Best To You on that Note!cheers cheers cheers

You Seem Like a Nice Guy, even if we pick on one another for a long time!grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing handshake
Nov 1, 2013 5:39 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
love has no name.You cannot define it, you cannot say what it is.you can be in it, you can experience ityou can help others to experience it, but there is no way to define it.Milliones of ppl. have loved, milliones have experienced the joy of it, the mystery of it, but not a single definition exists in the world. Same with God. so i say , god is love lolpurple heart ok. god is unknown for us, love is a little known,so lets start with love.From love to god maybe?from one indefinable that is available to anotjer indefinable that is unknown, unavailable.purple heart
Nov 1, 2013 5:40 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Actually these are the Type of Educational Discussions we USED TO HAVE on CS, Alot can be Learned! Now the topics are what color is your Dog? and Who sold who! and Oh nevermind!



absolutley important topicsdoh doh rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 1, 2013 5:42 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
SoonerGal: It's a good topic now educational I'll have to disagree with you, I learn from my OWN experiences and failures, not someone else's



the other "someone elses " are your experiencepurple heart
Nov 1, 2013 5:42 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal: It's a good topic now educational I'll have to disagree with you, I learn from my OWN experiences and failures, not someone else's


OK, But You Can Learn alot From Your Elders!snooty giggle troll flower
Nov 1, 2013 5:47 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
nokundi: not even blowing about love, i just was thinking that this is a side to find partners but what is written abbout love is just superficial and poor.Understand me right , so many members on cs, but love is not the topic. And love is and should be an endless topic to comment about.superficiality sems to be more important. (nokundi-rebel)


I don't believe there is a universal definition of love...every individual experiences and defines love in a way that is particular to them, their depth of sensitivity, and awareness of their emotional capacity.
For me love translates into a fierce desire to protect, support and comfort; a wanting to consider their needs, to be a shoulder to lean/cry on, to cheer them on when they need encouragement, to fight in their corner, to allow them the space to be who they are without recriminations or insecure jealousies; sharing a passionate desire that can be ignited by a simple touch or fleeting meeting of the eyes....and so much more...
Nov 1, 2013 5:51 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
silence...Don't you hate that? Uncomfortable silence. ....Why do we feel it's necessary to talk about bull in order to feel comfortable?

That's when you know you've found somebody really special. When you can just shut the hell up for a minute and comfortably share a silence."-Pulp Fiction


to the "special silence" !!! cheers
Nov 1, 2013 5:52 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
LadyDiz: I don't believe there is a universal definition of love...every individual experiences and defines love in a way that is particular to them, their depth of sensitivity, and awareness of their emotional capacity.
For me love translates into a fierce desire to protect, support and comfort; a wanting to consider their needs, to be a shoulder to lean/cry on, to cheer them on when they need encouragement, to fight in their corner, to allow them the space to be who they are without recriminations or insecure jealousies; sharing a passionate desire that can be ignited by a simple touch or fleeting meeting of the eyes....and so much more...
wave lady diz

how lovely what you wrote, pls read #96, we can speak about love and not define it , truepurple heart
Nov 1, 2013 5:58 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
nokundi: lady diz

how lovely what you wrote, pls read #96, we can speak about love and not define it , true


wave Nokundi
We share the same thoughts on this, in many ways hug
Nov 1, 2013 5:58 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
is the love gone over here?
Nov 1, 2013 6:00 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
LadyDiz: Nokundi
We share the same thoughts on this, in many ways


second time, you remember?hug thank you very much
Nov 1, 2013 6:08 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
Love is simply within your definition.Love yourself in order to give love. No way around that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Gotamotorcycle motorcycle motorcycle motorcycle
Nov 1, 2013 6:09 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
chatonlyman2: Love is simply within your definition.Love yourself in order to give love. No way around that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Gota


Lithuania??? !!
Nov 1, 2013 6:10 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
now there was so much positive things written about love. Do you know the other side of the medal? I am sure you know.
Nov 1, 2013 6:11 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
I hope I didn't put a damper on it....just my opinion is all, or better yet MY experiences bouquet
Nov 1, 2013 6:13 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
chatonlyman2: Love is simply within your definition.Love yourself in order to give love. No way around that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Gota


sure , thats the premission, if you cannot love yourselve the love to others is not real
Nov 1, 2013 6:16 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
chatonlyman2: Love is simply within your definition.Love yourself in order to give love. No way around that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Gota
So that's the problem I,am not hugging myself enough?hug thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing wave
Nov 1, 2013 6:17 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal: I hope I didn't put a damper on it....just my opinion is all, or better yet MY experiences
You are Fine, We all have our own experiences, and all are different, so sometimes times it is good to get Many opinions....I would guess the Europe Bunch is going to bed, and I am fixing to Go Out, so I just got out of the Shower!
We Learn Till we Die!teddybear
Nov 1, 2013 6:21 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
HotrodLarrys: You are Fine, We all have our own experiences, and all are different, so sometimes times it is good to get Many opinions....I would guess the Europe Bunch is going to bed, and I am fixing to Go Out, so I just got out of the Shower!
We Learn Till we Die!


the tibetans say: learn to die, coz only when you have learned to die you know how to live.cheers
Nov 1, 2013 6:23 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
nokundi: now there was so much positive things written about love. Do you know the other side of the medal? I am sure you know.


ok. little feedback for love, how can i expect an holistic view to see the other side of the medalpurple heart
Nov 1, 2013 6:26 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi: the tibetans say: learn to die, coz only when you have learned to die you know how to live.


Sounds Good To Me!cheers cheers

I am out of here, Have Fun!wave
Nov 1, 2013 6:28 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
Sounds Good To Me!

I am out of here, Have Fun![/quotenjoy the evening wave
Nov 1, 2013 6:31 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
SoonerGal: I hope I didn't put a damper on it....just my opinion is all, or better yet MY experiences


i am lost here,... as usual grin
Nov 1, 2013 6:38 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
laugh
Scott1812: So that's the problem I,am not hugging myself enough?
Ya manhead banger hug
Nov 1, 2013 6:40 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Bogart_1960: i am lost here,... as usual



lol...me too grin
Nov 1, 2013 6:59 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
nokundi: i had her as my focus .Now i know that this is only a partial way, and sooner or later this way leads to frustration, coz no partial life ever leads to fulfillment.Something was missing---and that was me.



Been there Noky. I focused on my ex and ignored the red flags too. I ignored what people told me about him. I ignored my gut feeling that was telling me to run. He dumped me after I gave him more then I've ever given any man. That was eight years ago. I've been over it a long, long time but I learned my lesson not to ignore the red flags or my intuition.
Nov 1, 2013 7:06 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
montemonte: Been there Noky. I focused on my ex and ignored the red flags too. I ignored what people told me about him. I ignored my gut feeling that was telling me to run. He dumped me after I gave him more then I've ever given any man. That was eight years ago. I've been over it a long, long time but I learned my lesson not to ignore the red flags or my intuition.


thanks for sharing, montemonte, i also learned but i have a strong tendency always to forget myself.Means that i have to be aware always When i love someone i serve....
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