chatonlyman2: You have an observation.Just figure out why,weed the weak and be carefull with the rest of them. Safer that way and easier to cope.No dream is unmanageable or overcomable. If that makes any sence. Ask yourself Why don't she make sence
SoonerGal: I find it bizarre that we're all single for the most...and sitting here blowing about love...we are bored aren't' we
Actually these are the Type of Educational Discussions we USED TO HAVE on CS, Alot can be Learned! Now the topics are what color is your Dog? and Who sold who! and Oh nevermind!
HotrodLarrys: Actually these are the Type of Educational Discussions we USED TO HAVE on CS, Alot can be Learned! Now the topics are what color is your Dog? and Who sold who! and Oh nevermind!
It's a good topic now educational I'll have to disagree with you, I learn from my OWN experiences and failures, not someone else's
love has no name.You cannot define it, you cannot say what it is.you can be in it, you can experience ityou can help others to experience it, but there is no way to define it.Milliones of ppl. have loved, milliones have experienced the joy of it, the mystery of it, but not a single definition exists in the world. Same with God. so i say , god is love lol ok. god is unknown for us, love is a little known,so lets start with love.From love to god maybe?from one indefinable that is available to anotjer indefinable that is unknown, unavailable.
HotrodLarrys: Actually these are the Type of Educational Discussions we USED TO HAVE on CS, Alot can be Learned! Now the topics are what color is your Dog? and Who sold who! and Oh nevermind!
Nov 1, 2013 5:47 PM CST How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
nokundi: not even blowing about love, i just was thinking that this is a side to find partners but what is written abbout love is just superficial and poor.Understand me right , so many members on cs, but love is not the topic. And love is and should be an endless topic to comment about.superficiality sems to be more important. (nokundi-rebel)
I don't believe there is a universal definition of love...every individual experiences and defines love in a way that is particular to them, their depth of sensitivity, and awareness of their emotional capacity. For me love translates into a fierce desire to protect, support and comfort; a wanting to consider their needs, to be a shoulder to lean/cry on, to cheer them on when they need encouragement, to fight in their corner, to allow them the space to be who they are without recriminations or insecure jealousies; sharing a passionate desire that can be ignited by a simple touch or fleeting meeting of the eyes....and so much more...
silence...Don't you hate that? Uncomfortable silence. ....Why do we feel it's necessary to talk about bull in order to feel comfortable?
That's when you know you've found somebody really special. When you can just shut the hell up for a minute and comfortably share a silence."-Pulp Fiction
LadyDiz: I don't believe there is a universal definition of love...every individual experiences and defines love in a way that is particular to them, their depth of sensitivity, and awareness of their emotional capacity. For me love translates into a fierce desire to protect, support and comfort; a wanting to consider their needs, to be a shoulder to lean/cry on, to cheer them on when they need encouragement, to fight in their corner, to allow them the space to be who they are without recriminations or insecure jealousies; sharing a passionate desire that can be ignited by a simple touch or fleeting meeting of the eyes....and so much more...
lady diz
how lovely what you wrote, pls read #96, we can speak about love and not define it , true
SoonerGal: I hope I didn't put a damper on it....just my opinion is all, or better yet MY experiences
You are Fine, We all have our own experiences, and all are different, so sometimes times it is good to get Many opinions....I would guess the Europe Bunch is going to bed, and I am fixing to Go Out, so I just got out of the Shower! We Learn Till we Die!
HotrodLarrys: You are Fine, We all have our own experiences, and all are different, so sometimes times it is good to get Many opinions....I would guess the Europe Bunch is going to bed, and I am fixing to Go Out, so I just got out of the Shower! We Learn Till we Die!
the tibetans say: learn to die, coz only when you have learned to die you know how to live.
nokundi: i had her as my focus .Now i know that this is only a partial way, and sooner or later this way leads to frustration, coz no partial life ever leads to fulfillment.Something was missing---and that was me.
Been there Noky. I focused on my ex and ignored the red flags too. I ignored what people told me about him. I ignored my gut feeling that was telling me to run. He dumped me after I gave him more then I've ever given any man. That was eight years ago. I've been over it a long, long time but I learned my lesson not to ignore the red flags or my intuition.
montemonte: Been there Noky. I focused on my ex and ignored the red flags too. I ignored what people told me about him. I ignored my gut feeling that was telling me to run. He dumped me after I gave him more then I've ever given any man. That was eight years ago. I've been over it a long, long time but I learned my lesson not to ignore the red flags or my intuition.
thanks for sharing, montemonte, i also learned but i have a strong tendency always to forget myself.Means that i have to be aware always When i love someone i serve....
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Safer that way and easier to cope.No dream is unmanageable or overcomable. If that makes any sence. Ask yourself
Why don't she make sence