truheart1941: ....I find it a shame reading most comments on here....that any kind of relationship......is doomed before it even starts........by what has happened in the past.....one must move on....and not to live behind the wall...filled with hate and bitterness..........jmo.
I agree trueheart, we pick who we have a relationship with, and if someone always picks someone wrong for them, who's fault is it?
inaresting. We use this term in English, but in other languages, it's much less a passive act. One becomes in love with another. But there does seem to be a range of how folks end up in love, and for many, it's almost an hypnotic process. I think I've done it both ways. Active is far better. People work at it, as they get to know each other more, and see the true human qualities of each other, no matter the circumstances. At some point, the lights go on, and one says---she (he) really is special, I'd best think about this one seriously. The worst is the love at first sight. Oh, sure it happens, and rarely can lead to a lasting romance. But mostly it seems to be extreme infatuation practiced by the weak and lonely. Roberto.
Aaltarboy: inaresting. We use this term in English, but in other languages, it's much less a passive act. One becomes in love with another. But there does seem to be a range of how folks end up in love, and for many, it's almost an hypnotic process. I think I've done it both ways. Active is far better. People work at it, as they get to know each other more, and see the true human qualities of each other, no matter the circumstances. At some point, the lights go on, and one says---she (he) really is special, I'd best think about this one seriously. The worst is the love at first sight. Oh, sure it happens, and rarely can lead to a lasting romance. But mostly it seems to be extreme infatuation practiced by the weak and lonely. Roberto.
truheart1941: ....I find it a shame reading most comments on here....that any kind of relationship......is doomed before it even starts........by what has happened in the past.....one must move on....and not to live behind the wall...filled with hate and bitterness..........jmo.
Totally agree.... Why waste My Time on one who dont want to Love?
* Only once or twice 8 19% * Three or four times3 7% * 5 or 6 times 12% * More than 6 49% * Every time you fall out of Love9 21% * I dont know, Good Question...10 23% * Love is only Lust or Infatuation most of the time 4 9% * Never Love sucks! Forums only 4 9%
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I agree trueheart, we pick who we have a relationship with, and if someone always picks someone wrong for them, who's fault is it?
I think we should learn from past experiences.