"I believe that you can fall in love many times with many different people. However,I don't think that you can fall in love the same way twice.One type of relationship may be steady.Another may be fire and brimstone.Who is to say if one of these is better that the other? The deciding factor is how it all fits together.Your love,I mean,and your life."
Aaltarboy: inaresting. We use this term in English, but in other languages, it's much less a passive act. One becomes in love with another. But there does seem to be a range of how folks end up in love, and for many, it's almost an hypnotic process. I think I've done it both ways. Active is far better. People work at it, as they get to know each other more, and see the true human qualities of each other, no matter the circumstances. At some point, the lights go on, and one says---she (he) really is special, I'd best think about this one seriously. The worst is the love at first sight. Oh, sure it happens, and rarely can lead to a lasting romance. But mostly it seems to be extreme infatuation practiced by the weak and lonely. Roberto.
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I think that would generate more problems than it would solve.
Best to limit it to three or four at a time.