Yes.Want to date&see if chemisty but also talk lot
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Want to see how chemisty goes.Serious "?" later
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Unconcerned with how relate issues, etc. Want fun.
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How much do you care about getting to know someone versus JUST going with the FEEL of the person with you and having fun? Not that that isn't important but it seems like you can speed up the process a BIT faster by asking some good questions at least by the 2nd or 3rd date..not to necessarily grill them by asking too many too soon either.
This question is more for those seeking permanent relationships because otherwise those JUST into dating normally DO care more about just having fun and only a bit about how much they see eye to eye on things like issues, goals, where to live, traditions,values, hates, etc.
I definitely Want to ask Key Questions, That is the most Important in Long term relationships.... and that is what I seek, I hate to waste time fiddling with someone only to find out I did Not ask right questions, and actually wasting My time....
Ccincy: Chemistry A why would I wish to make someone feel as if they're a science project.
Well maybe not to that extreme, But Certain things can save both people time and later heartaches....even simple as Smoking or drinking, some will accept it some will not... Just My Opinion!... I will ask questions, maybe in a discreet way,
HotrodLarrys: Well maybe not to that extreme, But Certain things can save both people time and later heartaches....even simple as Smoking or drinking, some will accept it some will not... Just My Opinion!... I will ask questions, maybe in a discreet way,
But NO, Not as a science project!
I know of a site which I won't mention that will find people matches,testing and all.LOL
The only bad thing was that someone I knew once went through the process of that particular site and ended up losing hundreds of dollars and then found out that it was an employer of that particular site.
Ccincy: I know of a site which I won't mention that will find people matches,testing and all.LOLThe only bad thing was that someone I knew once went through the process of that particular site and ended up losing hundreds of dollars and then found out that it was an employer of that particular site.
Wow, I know we live in a scary world of deceit, That's what makes it so hard to find a good one... Here I go again!
HotrodLarrys: Well maybe not to that extreme, But Certain things can save both people time and later heartaches....even simple as Smoking or drinking, some will accept it some will not... Just My Opinion!... I will ask questions, maybe in a discreet way,
But NO, Not as a science project!
True...they want to have SOME fun on each date. If they have so many questions they feel like they are at a job interview or being questioned by interrogators (ha ha) or worse...one stalks them to get the facts THAT way...that can be boring or else (in stalking case) intrusive.
StandardsFirst: How much do you care about getting to know someone versus JUST going with the FEEL of the person with you and having fun? Not that that isn't important but it seems like you can speed up the process a BIT faster by asking some good questions at least by the 2nd or 3rd date..not to necessarily grill them by asking too many too soon either.
This question is more for those seeking permanent relationships because otherwise those JUST into dating normally DO care more about just having fun and only a bit about how much they see eye to eye on things like issues, goals, where to live, traditions,values, hates, etc.
throw caution to the wind follow your heart the odd time it does pay off, my heart is bigger than my brain where females are concerned
StandardsFirst: True...they want to have SOME fun on each date. If they have so many questions they feel like they are at a job interview or being questioned by interrogators (ha ha) or worse...one stalks them to get the facts THAT way...that can be boring or else (in stalking case) intrusive.
So True, I have done that in the past, and learning that is not a Job interview.....You have to go Laugh, have fun, and slip in a question now and then, But Communication is a must, Unless You just want some nightly fun.... If You are Interested in someone Long Term, you WILL have questions! Just Not to be intrusive... I Am Larry, Please to meet You.
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To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A(Vote Below)
This question is more for those seeking permanent relationships because otherwise those JUST into dating normally DO care more about just having fun and only a bit about how much they see eye to eye on things like issues, goals, where to live, traditions,values, hates, etc.