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Nov 3, 2013 8:38 PM CSTTo find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
StandardsFirst
StandardsFirstStandardsFirstPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania, USA24 Threads 24 Polls 61 Posts

To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A(Vote Below)

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Yes.Want to date&see if chemisty but also talk lot
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60%
Want to see how chemisty goes.Serious "?" later
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21%
Unconcerned with how relate issues, etc. Want fun.
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19%
Total Votes
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How much do you care about getting to know someone versus JUST going with the FEEL of the person with you and having fun? Not that that isn't important but it seems like you can speed up the process a BIT faster by asking some good questions at least by the 2nd or 3rd date..not to necessarily grill them by asking too many too soon either.

This question is more for those seeking permanent relationships because otherwise those JUST into dating normally DO care more about just having fun and only a bit about how much they see eye to eye on things like issues, goals, where to live, traditions,values, hates, etc.
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Nov 3, 2013 8:49 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
I definitely Want to ask Key Questions, That is the most Important in Long term relationships.... and that is what I seek, I hate to waste time fiddling with someone only to find out I did Not ask right questions, and actually wasting My time....mumbling laugh thumbs up
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Nov 3, 2013 8:52 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Chemistry A why would I wish to make someone feel as if they're a science project.
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Nov 3, 2013 9:07 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
Ccincy: Chemistry A why would I wish to make someone feel as if they're a science project.


Well maybe not to that extreme, But Certain things can save both people time and later heartaches....even simple as Smoking or drinking, some will accept it some will not... Just My Opinion!... I will ask questions, maybe in a discreet way, wink

But NO, Not as a science project!rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Nov 3, 2013 9:17 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Well maybe not to that extreme, But Certain things can save both people time and later heartaches....even simple as Smoking or drinking, some will accept it some will not... Just My Opinion!... I will ask questions, maybe in a discreet way,

But NO, Not as a science project!




I know of a site which I won't mention that will find people matches,testing and all.LOL


The only bad thing was that someone I knew once went through the process of that particular site and ended up losing hundreds of dollars and then found out that it was an employer of that particular site.
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Nov 3, 2013 9:35 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
Ccincy: I know of a site which I won't mention that will find people matches,testing and all.LOLThe only bad thing was that someone I knew once went through the process of that particular site and ended up losing hundreds of dollars and then found out that it was an employer of that particular site.


Wow, I know we live in a scary world of deceit, That's what makes it so hard to find a good one... Here I go again!doh dancing

dunno
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Nov 3, 2013 9:35 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
StandardsFirst
StandardsFirstStandardsFirstPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 24 Polls 61 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Well maybe not to that extreme, But Certain things can save both people time and later heartaches....even simple as Smoking or drinking, some will accept it some will not... Just My Opinion!... I will ask questions, maybe in a discreet way,

But NO, Not as a science project!


True...they want to have SOME fun on each date. If they have so many questions they feel like they are at a job interview or being questioned by interrogators (ha ha) or worse...one stalks them to get the facts THAT way...that can be boring or else (in stalking case) intrusive.
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Nov 3, 2013 9:39 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
StandardsFirst: How much do you care about getting to know someone versus JUST going with the FEEL of the person with you and having fun? Not that that isn't important but it seems like you can speed up the process a BIT faster by asking some good questions at least by the 2nd or 3rd date..not to necessarily grill them by asking too many too soon either.

This question is more for those seeking permanent relationships because otherwise those JUST into dating normally DO care more about just having fun and only a bit about how much they see eye to eye on things like issues, goals, where to live, traditions,values, hates, etc.
throw caution to the wind follow your heart the odd time it does pay off, my heart is bigger than my brain where females are concerned heart wings
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Nov 3, 2013 9:44 PM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
StandardsFirst: True...they want to have SOME fun on each date. If they have so many questions they feel like they are at a job interview or being questioned by interrogators (ha ha) or worse...one stalks them to get the facts THAT way...that can be boring or else (in stalking case) intrusive.


So True, I have done that in the past, and learning that is not a Job interview.....You have to go Laugh, have fun, and slip in a question now and then, But Communication is a must, Unless You just want some nightly fun.... If You are Interested in someone Long Term, you WILL have questions! Just Not to be intrusive... I Am Larry, Please to meet You.handshake cswelcome
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Nov 8, 2013 4:33 AM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
66ManOWar99
66ManOWar9966ManOWar99Merrigum, Victoria Australia8 Threads 8 Polls 121 Posts
I don't think you can find love by working to a schedule. You have to take things on faith and hope you don't get hurt.
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Nov 8, 2013 4:43 AM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
66ManOWar99: I don't think you can find love by working to a schedule. You have to take things on faith and hope you don't get hurt.

I was also going to ask if you can speed up getting to know someone.

Second, or third date? How about the 102nd, or 103rd date? Or the 1002nd, or 1003rd date? laugh

Should we ever stop enquiring about what's going on with those closest to us?
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Nov 8, 2013 4:45 AM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
jac379: I was also going to ask if you can speed up getting to know someone.

Second, or third date? How about the 102nd, or 103rd date? Or the 1002nd, or 1003rd date?

Should we ever stop enquiring about what's going on with those closest to us?

Effective communication builds chemistry, surely?
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Feb 22, 2014 8:59 AM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
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Feb 22, 2014 9:09 AM CST To find your ideal mate SOON don't it make sense to get logical facts AND find out about chemistry A
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
I always go by my intuitive (gut) feelings.
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