Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease? ( Archived) (37)

Dec 11, 2013 8:56 AM CSTWould you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
r3y5a6
r3y5a6r3y5a6Riyadh, Ar Riyad, Saudi Arabia22 Threads 20 Polls 17 Posts

Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?(Vote Below)

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Yes. I don't want to compromise other people.
5
9%
Yes. I don't want my family bother/worry myself.
6
11%
Yes. I want to have euthanasia.
14
26%
No. There's still hope.
9
17%
No. I'm afraid to die.
4
8%
No. Life is a gift.
15
28%
Total Votes
53
This is to allow us to think how people respond to this situation.
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Dec 11, 2013 9:15 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
Fast_Rich
Fast_RichFast_RichNerja, Andalusia Spain7 Threads 6 Polls 56 Posts
r3y5a6: This is to allow us to think how people respond to this situation.


It's really a question of quality of life rather than whether or not the disease is incurable. You can live for many years with an incurable disease but once you loose the quality of life then its time to check out and that decision should be recognized as a fundamental human right.
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Dec 11, 2013 9:17 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
r3y5a6: This is to allow us to think how people respond to this situation.
With an incurable disease, you looking at your death,in to near or distance future.And you live as long as the disease allow you to live.dunno
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Dec 11, 2013 9:29 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
chris27292729: With an incurable disease, you looking at your death,in to near or distance future.And you live as long as the disease allow you to live.
my friend,refused treatment,went out as a man,in a few yrs.no hospice/pain meds,kept his faith/rip.
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Dec 11, 2013 9:38 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
reb56: my friend,refused treatment,went out as a man,in a few yrs.no hospice/pain meds,kept his faith/rip.


alright, it all depends on your entourage and your personal beliefs.
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Dec 11, 2013 9:39 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
pianawait
pianawaitpianawaitjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia2 Posts
chris27292729: With an incurable disease, you looking at your death,in to near or distance future.And you live as long as the disease allow you to live.


I agree with Chriss, if I got an incurable disease, there is no choice for me to live or die .... sooner or later I will die, but I think we must have hope that might make us live longer.
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Dec 11, 2013 9:40 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Fast_Rich: It's really a question of quality of life rather than whether or not the disease is incurable. You can live for many years with an incurable disease but once you loose the quality of life then its time to check out and that decision should be recognized as a fundamental human right.



I agree with this.
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Dec 11, 2013 9:40 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
lovemedofr: alright, it all depends on your entourage and your personal beliefs.
thumbs up
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Dec 11, 2013 9:49 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Don't they say life is short!!!! Then incurable or not, "Vivre pour Vivre"
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Dec 11, 2013 9:49 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
I would be devastated, but would consider my self lucky that I have a chance to get everything in order and say goodbye, spending quality time with my loved ones... Many don't have that
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Dec 11, 2013 10:05 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
serena123: I would be devastated, but would consider my self lucky that I have a chance to get everything in order and say goodbye, spending quality time with my loved ones... Many don't have that


we can't choose the way we leave unless we commit suicide (which is another topic), and stats says that about 80% die from illness, so we should all think of the end and what to do ... before ...live and enjoy life handshake
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Dec 11, 2013 10:35 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
lovemedofr: we can't choose the way we leave unless we commit suicide (which is another topic), and stats says that about 80% die from illness, so we should all think of the end and what to do ... before ...live and enjoy life
I agree, its something that should be done anyway.. However, most people don't think about it, because no one wants to think about death. But lives can be taken in an instant wine
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Dec 11, 2013 10:41 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Fast_Rich: It's really a question of quality of life rather than whether or not the disease is incurable. You can live for many years with an incurable disease but once you loose the quality of life then its time to check out and that decision should be recognized as a fundamental human right.


what he said...thumbs up
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Dec 11, 2013 10:46 AM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
mitsos
mitsosmitsoslarnaca,famagusta, Nicosia Cyprus17 Threads 801 Posts
r3y5a6: This is to allow us to think how people respond to this situation.

I would choose to live as much as possible only if i thought i still had something important to offer.
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Dec 11, 2013 12:51 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
r3y5a6: This is to allow us to think how people respond to this situation.
No amount of childhood upbringing, no amount of college education, no number of years and experience in my career can hold a candle to the enlightenment and exciting awe and wonder of the world and universe I gained from my terminal illness. In fact, terminal illness saved my life, in every way.

(if you understand, you understand. If you don't, you don't). I want to add this, just for the heck of it: The members on CS are as important to me as any friends, and I am grateful for so many. CS is a real resource for me, and I find that there are so, so many loving and caring people. Yes, it's a little weird that we do not actually "know" one another, yet I feel a kindred spirit with so many. Thank you. rose
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Dec 11, 2013 12:54 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
rohaan: No amount of childhood upbringing, no amount of college education, no number of years and experience in my career can hold a candle to the enlightenment and exciting awe and wonder of the world and universe I gained from my terminal illness. In fact, terminal illness saved my life, in every way.

(if you understand, you understand. If you don't, you don't). I want to add this, just for the heck of it: The members on CS are as important to me as any friends, and I am grateful for so many. CS is a real resource for me, and I find that there are so, so many loving and caring people. Yes, it's a little weird that we do not actually "know" one another, yet I feel a kindred spirit with so many. Thank you.


Bravo, bien dit et bon courage à vous !teddybear lips
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Dec 11, 2013 1:11 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
lovemedofr: Bravo, bien dit et bon courage à vous !
Merci beaucoup, Chou Chou!hug
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Dec 11, 2013 1:22 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
rohaan: Merci beaucoup, Chou Chou!

You're most welcome ! je vous envoie plein d' Amour et de "Gros Becs" ! hug lips
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Dec 11, 2013 1:38 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
rohaan: No amount of childhood upbringing, no amount of college education, no number of years and experience in my career can hold a candle to the enlightenment and exciting awe and wonder of the world and universe I gained from my terminal illness. In fact, terminal illness saved my life, in every way.

(if you understand, you understand. If you don't, you don't). I want to add this, just for the heck of it: The members on CS are as important to me as any friends, and I am grateful for so many. CS is a real resource for me, and I find that there are so, so many loving and caring people. Yes, it's a little weird that we do not actually "know" one another, yet I feel a kindred spirit with so many. Thank you.


What a fantastic post, Ro. I get it, a different experience but...yep.
You have such a lovely way with words, a pleasure to read. More strength to you, friend teddybear bouquet hug
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Dec 11, 2013 1:44 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
Fast_Rich: It's really a question of quality of life rather than whether or not the disease is incurable. You can live for many years with an incurable disease but once you loose the quality of life then its time to check out and that decision should be recognized as a fundamental human right.

I agree with you Fast_Rich, in the abstract. But it's impossible to predict what I would do in such a situation. The will to live is strong and the hope of a miracle is hard to extinguish.
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Dec 11, 2013 1:51 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Depends on the disease. You can have diabetes, crohn's, HIV(or all three!)and lead a normal life these days.

What's sad to see is when people allow manageable conditions to consume who they are by the self-obsession that often comes about when people regard themselves in a noble struggle against sickness. They fail to see that the treatment is there to grant you freedom from sickness, not to sustain you whilst you wallow in your condition.

The best thing is to make light of it, like isn't it funny how the words we use for a successful relationship(serious/longterm)are the same ones we use for terminal illnesses.
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Dec 11, 2013 2:39 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
mitsos
mitsosmitsoslarnaca,famagusta, Nicosia Cyprus17 Threads 801 Posts
Dec 11, 2013 2:41 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
If you have an incurable disease unfortunately the choice is taken away from you.blues
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Dec 11, 2013 2:51 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
justjim63: If you have an incurable disease unfortunately the choice is taken away from you.


You're right and we don't really know how we'll react if/when it happens.wave hug bouquet
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Dec 11, 2013 2:54 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
unlaoised: You're right and we don't really know how we'll react if/when it happens.


Good evening Saffer How was your day. wave teddybear hug
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Dec 11, 2013 2:56 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
justjim63: Good evening Saffer How was your day.


laugh Good morning Oz, good thanks, did you sleep well? hug teddybear


mumbling time zonesmumbling
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Dec 11, 2013 2:57 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
justjim63: If you have an incurable disease unfortunately the choice is taken away from you.


Many, if not most, incurable diseases are not a death sentence. A third of the world's population carry the incurable TB germ.

And the prime causes of stigma are the misplaced sympathy of onlookers who don't know what the facts are, and worse than this, people who have a manageable condition that they pretend is terminal(or worse than it is)for the sake of attention, sympathy and some perverted sense of purpose in life. And believe me there are many that do this.
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Dec 11, 2013 3:03 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Many, if not most, incurable diseases are not a death sentence. A third of the world's population carry the incurable TB germ.

And the prime causes of stigma are the misplaced sympathy of onlookers who don't know what the facts are, and worse than this, people who have a manageable condition that they pretend is terminal(or worse than it is)for the sake of attention, sympathy and some perverted sense of purpose in life. And believe me there are many that do this.


Good point Obs I didn't think of that.doh My ex mother in law keeps telling everyone who'll listen that she's constantly dying, she's a drama queen of the highest order and thrives on sympathy from others.
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Dec 11, 2013 3:05 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
unlaoised: Good morning Oz, good thanks, did you sleep well? time zones


Yep, slept like a baby, woke up crying and covered in poo ! laugh teddybear bouquet
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Dec 11, 2013 4:10 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I would prefer just to die.
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Dec 11, 2013 4:11 PM CST Would you prefer toLive or Die when you got incurable disease?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
justjim63: Yep, slept like a baby, woke up crying and covered in poo !


wow Ew! barf laugh bouquet teddybear
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