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Dec 19, 2013 6:02 PM CSTdo black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
pinkdiamond3
pinkdiamond3pinkdiamond3In your heart, Florida, USA28 Threads 28 Polls 71 Posts

do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends(Vote Below)

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yes
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no
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more than likely
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studies are full of bs
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Do blk men make the worse husbands? Explain answer
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Dec 19, 2013 6:17 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
pinkdiamond3: Do blk men make the worse husbands? Explain answer

Apparently one of our regular posters tells us that the most successful marriages are between African-American Woman and White men.
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Dec 19, 2013 6:22 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Does the article give any indication as to why half of black men's marriages end?

If half the marriages involving black men also involve people with a terminal illness, then being black and male isn't the cause of the marriage ending, it's death of the spouse.

I realise it's a slightly silly example, but it demonstrates the difference between a correlation (black men and marriages ending) and cause (terminal illness of the spouse leading to death).

Besides that, even if half of black men's marriages end, it doesn't mean the other half are 'bad husbands'. The other half whose marriages don't end might be the best husbands in the world.

Sometimes articles are written in a misleading way to make the research sound more exciting, interesting, or even in this case possibly to incite racial disharmony.

Can you post a link to the article that you read?
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Dec 19, 2013 6:29 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pinkdiamond3: Do blk men make the worse husbands? Explain answer


because the first (according to the bible) was kicked out of the garden of eden which is located somewhere in Africa? dunno
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Dec 19, 2013 6:29 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Latest statistics (published December 2012) estimate that 42% of marriages in England and Wales end in divorce.



Doesn't say anything about the colour of their skin.
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Dec 19, 2013 6:31 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
bodleing2: Latest statistics (published December 2012) estimate that 42% of marriages in England and Wales end in divorce.



Doesn't say anything about the colour of their skin.


the pooch is looking good there, bodleing wave
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Dec 19, 2013 6:36 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
galrads: the pooch is looking good there, bodleing


He's grumpy, I told him we're not doing Christmas this year, and I made him wear the Bah Humbug hat...laugh


wave
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Dec 19, 2013 6:46 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
I would suggest anyone looking to get married around my age to follow this fantastic guide.

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Dec 19, 2013 6:49 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
MADDOG69: I would suggest anyone looking to get married around my age to follow this fantastic guide.



Is there on on "how to pick the right husband"?? grin
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Dec 19, 2013 6:55 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
LoriJames20: Is there on on "how to pick the right husband"??

The Right Husband Picks the Right Wife. grin Not the other way around. grin grin
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Dec 19, 2013 7:07 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
MADDOG69: The Right Husband Picks the Right Wife. Not the other way around.


Somehow I figured you'd say that and I hate to admit I sort of agree with you................grin
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Dec 19, 2013 7:09 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
LoriJames20: Somehow I figured you'd say that and I hate to admit I sort of agree with you................

So you're supposed to shut mouth... and look pretty and smile. grin grin And just keep thinking what Mama says ' Dear you're sitting on a Gold Mine '
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Dec 19, 2013 7:19 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
MADDOG69: I would suggest anyone looking to get married around my age to follow this fantastic guide.



I guess I'll not be getting married again anytime soon if it's true that "When you get married you immediately give your wife all the power over your money (something tangible)." and your children.

That kind of empowerment would require "trust" and since Love (something intangible) is not a reason for getting married anymore, Trust can't exist... imo
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Dec 19, 2013 7:23 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Or for career/political reasons. grin laugh
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Dec 19, 2013 7:53 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
MADDOG69: So you're supposed to shut mouth... and look pretty and smile. And just keep thinking what Mama says ' Dear you're sitting on a Gold Mine '


Nope! I am supposed to take care of you; shower you with affection; love you unconditionally and then you'll keep thinking "I hit the jackpot"......grin wine
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Dec 20, 2013 7:14 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Yes, well they're rather impulsive and obsessed with their own behaviour. Hypothetically speaking I wouldn't want the gamble of being married to a Black man or of having a Black Father.

Having said that, Western society's de-civilisation process is gifting to most a similar sense of insane and unrestrained savage individualism. From the baby boomer onwards the White man has about as strong a sense of the civilisational good as the tribal Zimbabwean. In our natural, default and lazy state of today our self-control is only fractionally above that of the Black man. White divorce is not far behind Black divorce.
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Dec 20, 2013 7:44 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
bodleing2: Latest statistics (published December 2012) estimate that 42% of marriages in England and Wales end in divorce.



Doesn't say anything about the colour of their skin.


thumbs up yes and the pooch doesn't look too happy about the festive season - is he going to put .... a little something-something in your stocking hung by the fire??? christmas cool christmas sad
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Dec 20, 2013 8:13 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Kalpataruonline today!
Kalpataruonline today!Kalpatarusomewhere close to, Jakarta Indonesia1,083 Posts
pinkdiamond3: Do blk men make the worse husbands? Explain answer

I dont know about that.
All these times, what I heard was blackmail makes the worst marriages smoking
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Dec 20, 2013 8:19 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
pinkdiamond3: Do blk men make the worse husbands? Explain answer

I never had a "husband" ...and if I turn out to be a Woman in my next life, Im gonna be a lesbian
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Dec 20, 2013 10:39 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Tally93
Tally93Tally93Johannesberg, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 106 Posts
By guess black marriage takes from ancestrol..Poligamy vise versa 2 modern blacks society a lady wont take a 2nd wife under the same roof and thz results to marriage break up
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Dec 20, 2013 11:00 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Tally93: By guess black marriage takes from ancestrol..Poligamy vise versa 2 modern blacks society a lady wont take a 2nd wife under the same roof and thz results to marriage break up
poligamy is in all mankind not only in one race... poligamy is an acquisition of our biology... and there is nothing wrong with ending a marriage that has turned crappy
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Dec 21, 2013 3:12 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
jac379: Does the article give any indication as to why half of black men's marriages end?

If half the marriages involving black men also involve people with a terminal illness, then being black and male isn't the cause of the marriage ending, it's death of the spouse.

I realise it's a slightly silly example, but it demonstrates the difference between a correlation (black men and marriages ending) and cause (terminal illness of the spouse leading to death).

Besides that, even if half of black men's marriages end, it doesn't mean the other half are 'bad husbands'. The other half whose marriages don't end might be the best husbands in the world.

Sometimes articles are written in a misleading way to make the research sound more exciting, interesting, or even in this case possibly to incite racial disharmony.

Can you post a link to the article that you read?
God what a lot of crock seriously. It’s good to be logical if you actually present something logical but that my dear is the biggest nonsense I have read in ages. wine
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Dec 21, 2013 10:47 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Here the marraige lasts! Once your husband has paid labola for you (sometimes up to 100 cows!) You become his property! No walking away from that or you disgrace your whole family
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Dec 22, 2013 2:12 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Gentlejim
GentlejimGentlejimunknown, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 96 Posts
galrads: because the first (according to the bible) was kicked out of the garden of eden which is located somewhere in Africa?
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Dec 22, 2013 2:14 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
Gentlejim
GentlejimGentlejimunknown, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 96 Posts
galrads: because the first (according to the bible) was kicked out of the garden of eden which is located somewhere in Africa?


Sorry...The Garden of Eden was in the country of Iraq!beer
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Dec 22, 2013 2:25 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
AgentAjax: God what a lot of crock seriously. It’s good to be logical if you actually present something logical but that my dear is the biggest nonsense I have read in ages.

Can you explain why, rather than merely criticising with no argument to back it up?
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Dec 24, 2013 11:17 PM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
jac379: Does the article give any indication as to why half of black men's marriages end?

If half the marriages involving black men also involve people with a terminal illness, then being black and male isn't the cause of the marriage ending, it's death of the spouse.

I realise it's a slightly silly example, but it demonstrates the difference between a correlation (black men and marriages ending) and cause (terminal illness of the spouse leading to death).

Besides that, even if half of black men's marriages end, it doesn't mean the other half are 'bad husbands'. The other half whose marriages don't end might be the best husbands in the world.

Sometimes articles are written in a misleading way to make the research sound more exciting, interesting, or even in this case possibly to incite racial disharmony.

Can you post a link to the article that you read?


I wouldn't get too worked up about it. In the US the divorce rate is about 50% across the board. the divorce rate among couples is most likely similar regardless of race. I don't know that they sorted by race and doubt it. I really don't see a lot of white males marrying black women. On the other hand I see a lot of white women with black males for some reason. I haven't made a study of it though, but it seems just by observation to disprove the OP. There are quite a few white women with black men and I doubt that would occur if they were bad husbands. generalizations are seldom true anyway.
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Dec 25, 2013 4:10 AM CST do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends
felixis99: I wouldn't get too worked up about it. In the US the divorce rate is about 50% across the board. the divorce rate among couples is most likely similar regardless of race. I don't know that they sorted by race and doubt it. I really don't see a lot of white males marrying black women. On the other hand I see a lot of white women with black males for some reason. I haven't made a study of it though, but it seems just by observation to disprove the OP. There are quite a few white women with black men and I doubt that would occur if they were bad husbands. generalizations are seldom true anyway.

lol yeah... I'm pretty sure I can demonstrate the exact opposite is true on the numbers. Do you actually live in the US?



It goes on to show that White male/Black Female have half the divorce rate of Black Male/White Female pairings after 10 years.
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