jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Does the article give any indication as to why half of black men's marriages end?
If half the marriages involving black men also involve people with a terminal illness, then being black and male isn't the cause of the marriage ending, it's death of the spouse.
I realise it's a slightly silly example, but it demonstrates the difference between a correlation (black men and marriages ending) and cause (terminal illness of the spouse leading to death).
Besides that, even if half of black men's marriages end, it doesn't mean the other half are 'bad husbands'. The other half whose marriages don't end might be the best husbands in the world.
Sometimes articles are written in a misleading way to make the research sound more exciting, interesting, or even in this case possibly to incite racial disharmony.
I guess I'll not be getting married again anytime soon if it's true that "When you get married you immediately give your wife all the power over your money (something tangible)." and your children.
That kind of empowerment would require "trust" and since Love (something intangible) is not a reason for getting married anymore, Trust can't exist... imo
Yes, well they're rather impulsive and obsessed with their own behaviour. Hypothetically speaking I wouldn't want the gamble of being married to a Black man or of having a Black Father.
Having said that, Western society's de-civilisation process is gifting to most a similar sense of insane and unrestrained savage individualism. From the baby boomer onwards the White man has about as strong a sense of the civilisational good as the tribal Zimbabwean. In our natural, default and lazy state of today our self-control is only fractionally above that of the Black man. White divorce is not far behind Black divorce.
Doesn't say anything about the colour of their skin.
yes and the pooch doesn't look too happy about the festive season - is he going to put .... a little something-something in your stocking hung by the fire???
Tally93Johannesberg, Gauteng South Africa106 posts
By guess black marriage takes from ancestrol..Poligamy vise versa 2 modern blacks society a lady wont take a 2nd wife under the same roof and thz results to marriage break up
Tally93: By guess black marriage takes from ancestrol..Poligamy vise versa 2 modern blacks society a lady wont take a 2nd wife under the same roof and thz results to marriage break up
poligamy is in all mankind not only in one race... poligamy is an acquisition of our biology... and there is nothing wrong with ending a marriage that has turned crappy
jac379: Does the article give any indication as to why half of black men's marriages end?
If half the marriages involving black men also involve people with a terminal illness, then being black and male isn't the cause of the marriage ending, it's death of the spouse.
I realise it's a slightly silly example, but it demonstrates the difference between a correlation (black men and marriages ending) and cause (terminal illness of the spouse leading to death).
Besides that, even if half of black men's marriages end, it doesn't mean the other half are 'bad husbands'. The other half whose marriages don't end might be the best husbands in the world.
Sometimes articles are written in a misleading way to make the research sound more exciting, interesting, or even in this case possibly to incite racial disharmony.
Can you post a link to the article that you read?
God what a lot of crock seriously. It’s good to be logical if you actually present something logical but that my dear is the biggest nonsense I have read in ages.
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
Here the marraige lasts! Once your husband has paid labola for you (sometimes up to 100 cows!) You become his property! No walking away from that or you disgrace your whole family
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
AgentAjax: God what a lot of crock seriously. It’s good to be logical if you actually present something logical but that my dear is the biggest nonsense I have read in ages.
Can you explain why, rather than merely criticising with no argument to back it up?
jac379: Does the article give any indication as to why half of black men's marriages end?
If half the marriages involving black men also involve people with a terminal illness, then being black and male isn't the cause of the marriage ending, it's death of the spouse.
I realise it's a slightly silly example, but it demonstrates the difference between a correlation (black men and marriages ending) and cause (terminal illness of the spouse leading to death).
Besides that, even if half of black men's marriages end, it doesn't mean the other half are 'bad husbands'. The other half whose marriages don't end might be the best husbands in the world.
Sometimes articles are written in a misleading way to make the research sound more exciting, interesting, or even in this case possibly to incite racial disharmony.
Can you post a link to the article that you read?
I wouldn't get too worked up about it. In the US the divorce rate is about 50% across the board. the divorce rate among couples is most likely similar regardless of race. I don't know that they sorted by race and doubt it. I really don't see a lot of white males marrying black women. On the other hand I see a lot of white women with black males for some reason. I haven't made a study of it though, but it seems just by observation to disprove the OP. There are quite a few white women with black men and I doubt that would occur if they were bad husbands. generalizations are seldom true anyway.
felixis99: I wouldn't get too worked up about it. In the US the divorce rate is about 50% across the board. the divorce rate among couples is most likely similar regardless of race. I don't know that they sorted by race and doubt it. I really don't see a lot of white males marrying black women. On the other hand I see a lot of white women with black males for some reason. I haven't made a study of it though, but it seems just by observation to disprove the OP. There are quite a few white women with black men and I doubt that would occur if they were bad husbands. generalizations are seldom true anyway.
lol yeah... I'm pretty sure I can demonstrate the exact opposite is true on the numbers. Do you actually live in the US?
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do black men make the worst husbands? i read an article thats says 1/2 of marriages to blk men ends(Vote Below)