"Men are like bank accounts....Without a lot of money, they don't generate a lot of interest." ...Saw this on another site and sadly I have to agree with it. What do you think?
NecaRob: "Men are like bank accounts....Without a lot of money, they don't generate a lot of interest." ...Saw this on another site and sadly I have to agree with it. What do you think?
Well, that's very sad. You seem to have a very jaded and cynical view of women, my friend. Whatever your past experiences, I doubt you have familiarity with all or nearly all women on the planet and yet, strangely, we seem to be different...!!
Don't put your lack of selectivity regarding your women tarnish your view of women you can't possibly have a taken on yet, yeah?
Interesting to see that at this point you have 3 disagrees, most likely from us three women
And 6 anonymous agrees...
I've never looked for a man with money, as long as we are on a level playing field, ie. he's able to go on a vacation, out for dinner now and then, etc. that's sufficient for me
I totally disagree. I earn my own money and dont need a man to support me. However, should he wish to spoil me...I won't mind lol. Besisdes, I raised my 2 girls totally on my own and did not even want child support as the girls did not want to see him ever. So we had an understanding that he stays away and I wont accept a cent and it worked perfectly.
I dated a guy who went back studying and didn't have a lot of money.
I could have lived with that for a certain amount of time, and wouldn't have minded to pay for some things, but it's just no fun to only sit at home and do nothing because someone just can't afford anything.
Limited time with someone who is trying to get back on track, yes, a lazy looser, no way.
I've noticed on a lot of women's profiles that they list travel, weekend getaways, going to the casino as things they look for in a guy. That eliminates us poor blokes right there who are doing good just to make the mortgage payment and insurance, utility bills,gasoline, car repairs, food etc. But I can't blame a girl for trying to find a guy with some wealth though.
NecaRob: "Men are like bank accounts....Without a lot of money, they don't generate a lot of interest." ...Saw this on another site and sadly I have to agree with it. What do you think?
Disagree in part - there is something to be said about a man employed - he doesn't have to make a lot of money. He does have to make enough to take care of himself and his family.
It is the unemployed layabouts that are not doing anything to make their life better that are very uninteresting to me.
I posted in my profile that I'm not a rich man (it's true!) & too I posted that I'm looking for love, but not for a "leasing"- relationship! So does'nt matter ;) On this way I do'nt have to waste my time with money-orientated girls Have I fell like a looser? Hahaha... for sure not
NecaRob: "Men are like bank accounts....Without a lot of money, they don't generate a lot of interest." ...Saw this on another site and sadly I have to agree with it. What do you think?
Even though there really are several women out there who are looking for that kind of security or lifestyle it does not mean women are all the same.
Sadly there are men and women out there that think the same. Money should not be an issue when being with someone you love. It seems today that money is important, and thankfully I was not brought up to be like that.
It seems that so far Men with bank Accounts is in the favor. I personally don't agree. If men and women just look for a partner with assets like money, then they will fail. I go for intelligence over money. Being wealthy is for "Losers."
JeanKimberley: Disagree in part - there is something to be said about a man employed - he doesn't have to make a lot of money. He does have to make enough to take care of himself and his family.
It is the unemployed layabouts that are not doing anything to make their life better that are very uninteresting to me.
agree completely..I don;t care if he's wealthy .... just that I won;t have to support him
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felixis99: agree completely..I don;t care if he's wealthy .... just that I won;t have to support him
That to me , is the right attitude, most men would give their love the world if they could, but the expectation of being showered in cash is a real turn off. JMO.
NecaRob: "Men are like bank accounts....Without a lot of money, they don't generate a lot of interest." ...Saw this on another site and sadly I have to agree with it. What do you think?
women see financial security too but its not necessary to have big bank balance. answer is simple and short
JeanKimberley: Disagree in part - there is something to be said about a man employed - he doesn't have to make a lot of money. He does have to make enough to take care of himself and his family.
It is the unemployed layabouts that are not doing anything to make their life better that are very uninteresting to me.
I'm a retired layabout...so we are no longer friends?
It's been very interesting seeing the comments. I understand about not wanting a lazy bum...gotcha. But that is not my main thought... I have a job, fairly good job. I pay all y bills, own my own house, vehicle, etc... I take good care of myself and my two kids. For the last year, all the "ladies" I've dated have all decided that I wasn't "enough" for them monetarily-wise. And I've met them in churches, through friends, online...etc. If you look at the voting breakdown of this poll, you will see that 40+ ladies don't agree mostly, but most men of any age agree completely. So I'm not the only man seeing this trend out in our world. God bless all of you. May you find peace and happiness!
Man, if you've already paid off your mortgage on your house, you're doing great! Dave Ramsey says "the paid off home mortgage has taken the place of the BMW as the status symbol of choice". Eventually, you'll meet that awesome lady who will be right for you.
"For the last year, all the "ladies" I've dated have all decided that I wasn't "enough" for them monetarily-wise. And I've met them in churches, through friends, online...etc." I'm puzzled. How do they make it known to you that you don't make enough? Might it have something to do with you having to support two kids that aren't theirs.
mzetoile: "For the last year, all the "ladies" I've dated have all decided that I wasn't "enough" for them monetarily-wise. And I've met them in churches, through friends, online...etc." I'm puzzled. How do they make it known to you that you don't make enough? Might it have something to do with you having to support two kids that aren't theirs.
Why are you judging him he sounds more responsible than most losers on this site. Besides women who pushed out kids from another man expect their new love interest to take them and their kids who are not his.
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