You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ? ( Archived) (51)

Jan 19, 2014 7:38 PM CSTYou found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica, Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts

You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?(Vote Below)

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Get mad
3
4%
Get jealous
5
7%
Never say anything to him\her
19
26%
Discuss it with him\her
35
47%
Other
12
16%
Total Votes
74
Wht you would do if you found out that your bf\gf hides a photo of his\her ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)
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Jan 19, 2014 7:44 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
you are more than likely a rebound
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Jan 19, 2014 7:51 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
what do you mean ?
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Jan 19, 2014 7:55 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
discuss it and gauge the reaction from said partner,if its early in a relationship then as the lady already said its quite likely a"rebound"....if its further down the line in the relationship then thats not good either.......in my opinion there is no need whatsoever to hide pictures of an ex...not healthy....tiz only my humble view though my friend.....au revoir..elephant
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Jan 19, 2014 7:55 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
geoabcd1234: what do you mean ?


Rebound = she is more likely trying to have relationship with you only to heal herself.

btw, what is it called in Greek ???peace
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Jan 19, 2014 8:00 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
Cyn_Real: Rebound = she is more likely trying to have relationship with you only to heal herself.

btw, what is it called in Greek ???



thank you for explaining in greek doesnt mean that its more close to the meaning of second option
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Jan 19, 2014 8:01 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
geoabcd1234: Wht you would do if you found out that your bf\gf hides a photo of his\her ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)

If it's hidden, how would one find it?

People are entitled to their privacy, their memories and their past lives.

To think otherwise is a little control freaky, to say the least.
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Jan 19, 2014 8:01 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
twazzle70: discuss it and gauge the reaction from said partner,if its early in a relationship then as the lady already said its quite likely a"rebound"....if its further down the line in the relationship then thats not good either.......in my opinion there is no need whatsoever to hide pictures of an ex...not healthy....tiz only my humble view though my friend.....au revoir..



respect opinion :)
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Jan 19, 2014 8:03 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
jac379: If it's hidden, how would one find it?

People are entitled to their privacy, their memories and their past lives.

To think otherwise is a little control freaky, to say the least.



well suppose you find it by accident ,things like that happen
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Jan 19, 2014 8:06 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
geoabcd1234: well suppose you find it by accident ,things like that happen

How does that happen, then?

Accidentally rummaging through their stuff? laugh
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Jan 19, 2014 8:09 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
no accidentally they may have left them somewhere and forget to hide them again
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Jan 19, 2014 8:11 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
geoabcd1234: no accidentally they may have left them somewhere and forget to hide them again

Then it's not a hidden photo, you wally. laugh
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Jan 19, 2014 8:15 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i would expect folks to have photos from their past, which would include photos of previous partners.

and re: hidden...
having it somewhere where it's not displayed might be done out of consideration, doesn't mean it's hidden.

and...laugh:
as for the 'finding it by mistake'...that would depend on where one found it. and if it was discovered...suggests to me it wasn't all that hidden.

now if it was well hidden...and you found it...
bigger question to me is..'what were ya doing..snooping though someone else's stuff?
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Jan 19, 2014 8:20 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
jac379: Then it's not a hidden photo, you wally.



well then excuse me for the wrong wording my lady yay
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Jan 19, 2014 8:20 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
I dated a fellow for a long time that never told me about his past loves. He always lied and said there was no one before me.

Which we both knew was a lie, and he was right. There were women he dated before me, however, there was no one sharing a place in his heart but me. I did not care, nor did I ever ask again and it was never important.

Some times too much sharing of your past life becomes a burden in a relationship. Of course, for some it is difficult to explain the children from previous marriages....
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Jan 19, 2014 8:29 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
JeanKimberley: I dated a fellow for a long time that never told me about his past loves. He always lied and said there was no one before me.

Which we both knew was a lie, and he was right. There were women he dated before me, however, there was no one sharing a place in his heart but me. I did not care, nor did I ever ask again and it was never important.

Some times too much sharing of your past life becomes a burden in a relationship. Of course, for some it is difficult to explain the children from previous marriages....



yeah you are right sometimes talking about past doesnt help :)
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Jan 19, 2014 8:30 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Mauss
MaussMaussKilkenny, Ireland1 Threads 196 Posts
JeanKimberley: I dated a fellow for a long time that never told me about his past loves. He always lied and said there was no one before me.

Which we both knew was a lie, and he was right. There were women he dated before me, however, there was no one sharing a place in his heart but me. I did not care, nor did I ever ask again and it was never important.

Some times too much sharing of your past life becomes a burden in a relationship. Of course, for some it is difficult to explain the children from previous marriages....

Just dropping them off at a far away motorway service stations solves that.
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Jan 19, 2014 8:40 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
It happened to me in 1958 when my to-be-husband and I were dating.

I don't remember why he asked me to get money out of his wallet. When I did that I saw a picture of a Japanese woman in his wallet.

He said he forgot that the picture was there. He was home from Korea for two years at that point.

I showed him how upset I was that he was still carrying her picture and he tore it up at that point. He said she was his girlfriend when he was in Korea.

I was upset and questioned him. He responded and that was the end of it.
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Jan 19, 2014 9:17 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Squeezie1958
Squeezie1958Squeezie1958inglis, Florida USA4 Threads 484 Posts
people have their past... I would not want to ask someone to give up totally on their past... That is how they got to where they are now... it is life...
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Jan 19, 2014 9:39 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
I'd dump her.
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Jan 19, 2014 9:58 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,367 Posts
If the picture is out and discovered through honest, accidental means; it only makes sense to be open and ask about it. Doesn't take an online poll or forum for that(it shouldn't at least).

If it was discovered through less open and less accidental means, you need to come clean and leave that person alone because it's only going to get worse....for them. Seek counseling or something because that is wrong.
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Jan 20, 2014 1:19 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
present is most important past are only memories, u can't erase all memories , but love only can fill the emptiness and regrets .
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Jan 20, 2014 1:30 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
twinself
twinselftwinself..., Majjistral Malta36 Threads 1,347 Posts
geoabcd1234: Wht you would do if you found out that your bf\gf hides a photo of his\her ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)


I think that if they still hang on to a t-shirt or jewellery or material things, it doesn't really mean anything. They could just love it for its own sake. BUT, holding on to a photo (to me) means: the person is still still somewhat emotionally tied and hoping that something will happen for them to get back together. If the photo is a group photo, they might keep it, because of the other people in it.

Just my two cents.
dunno
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Jan 20, 2014 1:40 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
enock007: present is most important past are only memories, u can't erase all memories , but love only can fill the emptiness and regrets .



What she did pre me is really her business. As long as she didn't make it into a shrine, it's really partly what has made her the woman I love. No possessiveness from me.
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Jan 20, 2014 1:46 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
tomcatwarne: What she did pre me is really her business. As long as she didn't make it into a shrine, it's really partly what has made her the woman I love. No possessiveness from me.
Absolutely, If I Spent Many Years with a Woman, and Possibly had Children with Her, Who in a month or two will make any difference if I have Pic of my past life or Not, It seems Then they have a jealousy problem, It Would Make me Probably RUN!dunno
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Jan 20, 2014 3:54 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
geoabcd1234: thank you for explaining in greek doesnt mean that its more close to the meaning of second option


Second option is another matter.

IMO, a little bit jealousy is OK. That would be a big question if you are not jealous at all during your relationship with any woman. Once we have exclusivity, we will automatically lose our freedom in certain extent. That's why we all need to respect each other feelings.

I am wondering if there is any guy that has never been jealous at all to his lady and vice versa rolling on the floor laughing then I can freely go to the club with any guy anytime I want because he gives me 100% freedom (no exclusivity)rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 20, 2014 11:36 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In order to find that out would mean I would have had to been snooping in his private belongings.
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Jan 20, 2014 11:47 AM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
geoabcd1234: Wht you would do if you found out that your bfgf hides a photo of hisher ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)

Depends on ,is his willy is bigger than mine ...uh oh
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Jan 20, 2014 12:18 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
geoabcd1234: Wht you would do if you found out that your bf\gf hides a photo of his\her ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)


Someone a long time ago told me "Never let anything occupy your mind rent free."
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Jan 20, 2014 12:24 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
geoabcd1234: Wht you would do if you found out that your bf\gf hides a photo of his\her ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)

You'll have to excuse the social misfits here but the way I understand it is that the partner keeps a photo in a private setting like a purse or a handbag or someone close to him/her. Yes that might be a little disconcerting.
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Jan 20, 2014 6:48 PM CST You found out that your bf\gf still keeping a photo of his\her ex.How you would react ?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
geoabcd1234: Wht you would do if you found out that your bf\gf hides a photo of his\her ex and havent told you about it ? post more reactions :)




Frankly, you raise a very interesting topic.... Because it is very contradictive with numbers of threads related to "jealousy is unhealthy feeling-topic" or "what do you think if your partner still keeps in touch with his/her ex?-topic" or any kind of "respect bla bla bla-topics"

I bet you are still a normal guy that would not let your lady to get drunk with aother guy in the club...thumbs up
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