What prevents you from living the life you truly desire? (78)
I can't pm you because of that bloody age gate you have 
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Hello gorgeous 
what a lovely surprise to see your goodself here!
I will help out in anyway I can....you can email me more stuff if you like!
big hugs to you
what a lovely surprise to see your goodself here!
I will help out in anyway I can....you can email me more stuff if you like!
big hugs to you
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Age range has been changed
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I put down financial constraints, I think truthfully there is alot of fear about leaving the safety zone.
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Hey Lara
None of the options really apply to me but I'll try to help out anyway.
Great to see you again
None of the options really apply to me but I'll try to help out anyway.
Great to see you again
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Glengirl: Hey Lara
None of the options really apply to me but I'll try to help out anyway.
Great to see you again
None of the options really apply to me but I'll try to help out anyway.
Great to see you again
Hey GG
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goldengloss: I put down financial constraints, I think truthfully there is alot of fear about leaving the safety zone.
Hi GoldenGloss. Nice to meet you.
Thanks for your honesty. I think the fear of the unknown is a big one for all of us. Better the devil you know & all that!------ This poll is Archived ------
Being the age I am but still wanting a change... it gets harder as you get abit older. I want to up and move sticks, there are practicalities am I making excuses? maybe
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Laralou: Hi all!
Haven't been on here in a long time but still recognise some familiar lurkers faces! ;-)
Doing a course at the moment where I have to research/study modern-day fears/stressors leading to procrastination and/or self-sabotage. These fears may be self-imposed or inflicted upon us by society, family, friends ,peers etc...
I would be grateful if you would choose which of the ten options you feel has had the most bearing on your life; preventing you from living the life you would like to create for yourself.
Feel free to leave comments below, or PM me if you would like to expand on your choice in private. I promise that nothing shared in confidence will be made public here or elsewhere. Many thanks in advance...
Fear fear of rejection failure humiliation etc etc well I suppose people get comfy in their protective existing so basically their not living a prosperous life.Haven't been on here in a long time but still recognise some familiar lurkers faces! ;-)
Doing a course at the moment where I have to research/study modern-day fears/stressors leading to procrastination and/or self-sabotage. These fears may be self-imposed or inflicted upon us by society, family, friends ,peers etc...
I would be grateful if you would choose which of the ten options you feel has had the most bearing on your life; preventing you from living the life you would like to create for yourself.
Feel free to leave comments below, or PM me if you would like to expand on your choice in private. I promise that nothing shared in confidence will be made public here or elsewhere. Many thanks in advance...
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jamiethekid: Fear fear of rejection failure humiliation etc etc well I suppose people get comfy in their protective existing so basically their not living a prosperous life.
is that your own reason? or what you think stop most people?
fear of rejection never ever ever stopped me
and a dating site is the very place to get over that fear
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jamiethekid: Fear fear of rejection failure humiliation etc etc well I suppose people get comfy in their protective existing so basically their not living a prosperous life.
and if you check out the replies finance is the most popular at the moment!
fear of rejection has no votes yet!
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jamiethekid: Fear fear of rejection failure humiliation etc etc well I suppose people get comfy in their protective existing so basically their not living a prosperous life.
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laziness
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goldengloss: Being the age I am but still wanting a change... it gets harder as you get abit older. I want to up and move sticks, there are practicalities am I making excuses? maybe
Feeling that age is preventing you from making a change may be an excuse
but I think the current recession has curbed our desire to take risks or a leap of faith. 
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benni2: laziness
that is not on the list
but I reckon it is a main one too
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benni2: laziness
Lovely honest answer. Thanks!
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goldengloss: Being the age I am but still wanting a change... it gets harder as you get abit older. I want to up and move sticks, there are practicalities am I making excuses? maybe
I am only slightly younger than you and this year I have massive changes coming into my life (actually it begins the end of this month) and I embrace these changes!
I lived abroad in my 20's and would love the chance to do so again....who knows maybe that will happen too
Feel the fear and do it anyway!
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jamiethekid: Thank you so much for your vote of confidence but I do feel panicky and nervous for interviews and tell myself face the fear or run forever .Life is a beautiful challenge , hope you are well here's some flowers for you
Thanks I just love flowers!
And I love your words "life is a beautiful challenge"
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the age filter is still up
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They say when people get old the thing they most regret is not taking more chances, there should be more chancers in the world.
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modermen: They say when people get old the thing they most regret is not taking more chances, there should be more chancers in the world.
do you regret that? or is it another open ended "what everyone thinks" comment? what do you think has held you back? if anything!
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modermen: They say when people get old the thing they most regret is not taking more chances, there should be more chancers in the world.
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Couldn't be arsed, lazy at times, life is for living, not spending it in work 24/7 which is what is required if you want to be very successful, screw that,i work to live, not live to work, fools! 
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there4u80: Couldn't be arsed, lazy at times, life is for living, not spending it in work 24/7 which is what is required if you want to be very successful, screw that,i work to live, not live to work, fools!
Thank for the honest answer. I don't equate success just with a job though. It can be if that's what you want out of life but what about hobbies, dreams, relationships, life experiences and so on?
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Love to follow a lot of my dreams and ambitions but im just so shy and dont have a good woman anymore to point me in the right direction 
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jamiethekid: Thank you so much for your vote of confidence but I do feel panicky and nervous for interviews and tell myself face the fear or run forever .Life is a beautiful challenge , hope you are well here's some flowers for you
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mjpd67: Love to follow a lot of my dreams and ambitions but im just so shy and dont have a good woman anymore to point me in the right direction
You don't need a woman to point you in the right direction, you got to get out there make your own luck ,do it do it then you'll have no regrets .------ This poll is Archived ------
Well started a new relationship before Christmas so that's going well, i play guitar, it tried, oh how i tried so so so very hard to get good enough to be a superstar but i now know, without doubt, that its something you are simply born with or without, yes anybody can learn to play guitar but only a lucky few have natural talent, the xfactor if you will, i aint half bad but no, will never be as good or even half as good as my idol, Mr. Saul Hudson, A.K.A. slash
Are you a life coach seeking new students? You look very professional looking.
Are you a life coach seeking new students? You look very professional looking.
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jamiethekid: You don't need a woman to point you in the right direction, you got to get out there make your own luck ,do it do it then you'll have no regrets .
ah i know that but like a lot of men on here who wont admit it im probably still lost and lonely deep down ,but have started doing new stuff and hoping to travel abroad shortly ------ This poll is Archived ------
modermen: They say when people get old the thing they most regret is not taking more chances, there should be more chancers in the world.
I had a think about that and considered how I would feel now if I hadn't taken a particular chance a some years back. In the same position now at the age I am I'd definately do it again.
In answer to Laralou's question I believe fear is a big obstacle, fear of the unknown, rejection, looking foolish, getting it wrong etc.
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What prevents you from living the life you truly desire?(Vote Below)
Haven't been on here in a long time but still recognise some familiar
lurkersfaces! ;-)Doing a course at the moment where I have to research/study modern-day fears/stressors leading to procrastination and/or self-sabotage. These fears may be self-imposed or inflicted upon us by society, family, friends ,peers etc...
I would be grateful if you would choose which of the ten options you feel has had the most bearing on your life; preventing you from living the life you would like to create for yourself.
Feel free to leave comments below, or PM me if you would like to expand on your choice in private. I promise that nothing shared in confidence will be made public here or elsewhere. Many thanks in advance...