How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional? ( Archived) (28)

Apr 20, 2014 6:27 AM CSTHow a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht, Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts

How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?(Vote Below)

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Secretly they cry
3
11%
stay silent
9
33%
Go for a long walk
5
19%
I cannot deal with sad or emotions
1
4%
Want some one to hug
1
4%
Dont know did not have that situation
0
0%
Go to the bar and have shot
2
7%
I wrote it down
0
0%
I prefer my girl has a good ear to hear
6
22%
Total Votes
27
I know about my father and my brothers very well. My ex had a cold heart so I have no clue how he deal with that. I am willing to know from the men,, how do they deal with it?
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Apr 20, 2014 11:04 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
Well no vote no comment seems every men happy wauw I did not expect that... handshake
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Apr 20, 2014 11:06 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Interesting response you're getting here, Zeurich. laugh
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Apr 20, 2014 11:13 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
when Im sad ,watching adult movies usually cheers me up
I know what someone will say, its a temporarily solution escape from reality ...and that I should probably buy a bong ... grin
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Apr 20, 2014 11:14 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
Zeurich: Well no vote no comment seems every men happy wauw I did not expect that...

normally they will stay silent, when you look at his eyes , you will feel the sorrow inside his heart... I think this is also the same for women.
I hope you have a good day there,
thanks for yr contributing many threads in cs forum , I cannot think of any thread's content
bouquet wave grin
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Apr 20, 2014 11:31 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
jac379: Interesting response you're getting here, Zeurich.

yeah jac I am so happy men are not being sad seems he,,, have a good Sunday girl
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Apr 20, 2014 11:31 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
Dedovix: when Im sad ,watching adult movies usually cheers me up
I know what someone will say, its a temporarily solution escape from reality ...and that I should probably buy a bong ...


laugh laugh laugh you Ded
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Apr 20, 2014 11:33 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
woodenjc: normally they will stay silent, when you look at his eyes , you will feel the sorrow inside his heart... I think this is also the same for women.
I hope you have a good day there,
thanks for yr contributing many threads in cs forum , I cannot think of any thread's content

here going very well,, quite Sunday...what about you?
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Apr 20, 2014 11:37 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Zeurich: yeah jac I am so happy men are not being sad seems he,,, have a good Sunday girl

"Blood out of a stone" is the phrase which springs to mind. laugh
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Apr 20, 2014 11:43 AM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
joey987
joey987joey987Bowmanville, Ontario Canada1 Threads 1,417 Posts
Zeurich: I know about my father and my brothers very well. My ex had a cold heart so I have no clue how he deal with that. I am willing to know from the men,, how do they deal with it?
When I am sad it is usually because of a loss. I sometimes write it down and if necessary I talk to a good friend about it. I know it' s a process I may have to go through of letting it go and moving forward. The key is to not get stuck in it and have it lead to self pity which is a trait I don' t need to have. Have the happiest of Easter' s Zeurich!banana
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Apr 20, 2014 12:08 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
joey987: Yes believe it or not anything is possible, and the great thing is it really works. Happy Easter Jac!

Yes, I know it works.

That's part of my frustration.

Happy Easter to you too, Joey. wave
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Apr 20, 2014 1:23 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I've known some men who claimed that it wasn't right for a man to show any emotion because of the way they had been raised.
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Apr 20, 2014 3:13 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
jac379: "Blood out of a stone" is the phrase which springs to mind.


laugh laugh laugh
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Apr 20, 2014 3:15 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
joey987: When I am sad it is usually because of a loss. I sometimes write it down and if necessary I talk to a good friend about it. I know it' s a process I may have to go through of letting it go and moving forward. The key is to not get stuck in it and have it lead to self pity which is a trait I don' t need to have. Have the happiest of Easter' s Zeurich!

Have good Easter time pal see ya
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Apr 20, 2014 3:16 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
Ccincy: I've known some men who claimed that it wasn't right for a man to show any emotion because of the way they had been raised.


roll eyes I assume they were raised to be stones no idea let me think later,,conversing
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Apr 20, 2014 3:18 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Ccincy: I've known some men who claimed that it wasn't right for a man to show any emotion because of the way they had been raised.

Even if they don't say that, I think most men in Western societies are emotionally repressed.
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Apr 20, 2014 3:18 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Ccincy: I've known some men who claimed that it wasn't right for a man to show any emotion because of the way they had been raised.


Yep, the old "big boys don't cry" statement was prevalent back in the day and not sure if parents still say that to their little boys. I don't think it's healthy to keep the tears and emotions bottled up like that. wave
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Apr 20, 2014 3:34 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
I think most believe the silence. I know for sure men like to have a way to be in a trusting relationship and appreciate a person they can speak with. Love is love. When you love someone, communication is the key. Certain things, silence. Thus, who knows. I would want to know. If my love is hurt or silent. I respect that, eventually it would be an issue. So I blieeve speaking on it is the healthy way. Peace HH
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Apr 20, 2014 3:35 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
heatherhuntsman: I think most believe the silence. I know for sure men like to have a way to be in a trusting relationship and appreciate a person they can speak with. Love is love. When you love someone, communication is the key. Certain things, silence. Thus, who knows. I would want to know. If my love is hurt or silent. I respect that, eventually it would be an issue. So I blieeve speaking on it is the healthy way. Peace HH
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Apr 20, 2014 3:35 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
typo believe. My bad
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Apr 20, 2014 3:37 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
Most probably stay silent, or take time-out so to speak...we all have different ways to deal with things, some things take time as well hug
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Apr 20, 2014 3:43 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
skippyguy: Most probably stay silent, or take time-out so to speak...we all have different ways to deal with things, some things take time as well

So what would be the result if you had a partner who also withdrew?

How about if your partner preferred open communication of thoughts and feelings?
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Apr 20, 2014 3:54 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
jac379: So what would be the result if you had a partner who also withdrew?

How about if your partner preferred open communication of thoughts and feelings?


Now you are talking and adding circumstances !!!....lol
That was not how the post was stated, if i had a partner it's a different situation, because communication is first n formost, in current status its all on me ...per-see
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Apr 20, 2014 4:00 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
skippyguy: Now you are talking and adding circumstances !!!....lol
That was not how the post was stated, if i had a partner it's a different situation, because communication is first n formost, in current status its all on me ...per-see

Okay, thanks.
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Apr 20, 2014 4:04 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
jac379: Okay, thanks.

You're Welcome it was a good point :)
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Apr 20, 2014 5:08 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
crying crying crying crying
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Apr 20, 2014 6:08 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Keep my emotions to myself.
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Apr 20, 2014 6:58 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Zeurich: I assume they were raised to be stones no idea let me think later,,




I suppose so.dunno
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Apr 20, 2014 7:01 PM CST How a man express when he is sad, or way too emotional?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
2intrigued: Yep, the old "big boys don't cry" statement was prevalent back in the day and not sure if parents still say that to their little boys. I don't think it's healthy to keep the tears and emotions bottled up like that.





I never told my son not to show emotion.I can remember back to when he was very young and whenever he saw the Mighty Dog commercial he'd begin to cry and get upset cause he thought the dog was being hurt.
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