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Apr 26, 2014 1:58 PM CSTWho wants to take the Control in Relation

Who wants to take the Control in Relation(Vote Below)

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Men
4
9%
women
15
35%
both
5
12%
None of them
4
9%
depends on the person
15
35%
Aunties decieve them
0
0%
Other
0
0%
Total Votes
43
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Apr 26, 2014 3:59 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
I don't watch TV, so she can have the TV remote controller laugh
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Apr 26, 2014 5:11 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
2girlsnocup: I don't watch TV, so she can have the TV remote controller
laugh laugh
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Apr 26, 2014 5:14 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
Men the women told me i could say that!head banger cheers laugh
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Apr 26, 2014 5:15 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
Not particularly interested in being in control but then I don't want to be 'controlled' either.....

I'm not interested in a competition of dominance. That said, the man who can step back from the machismo malarkey at times is, in fact, the bigger man....
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Apr 26, 2014 5:17 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Both
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Apr 26, 2014 5:28 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Scott1812: Men the women told me i could say that!
hi scott wave
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Apr 26, 2014 5:30 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
xxDandelionxx: Not particularly interested in being in control but then I don't want to be 'controlled' either.....

I'm not interested in a competition of dominance. That said, the man who can step back from the machismo malarkey at times is, in fact, the bigger man....
thumbs up
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Apr 26, 2014 5:54 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Control as in taking charge or control as in being possessive? The two are chalk and cheese: One is a strength and the other is an insecurity. And put it this way you don't see many couples where the woman is in charge and the man is needy and possessive without the woman absolutely despising him for it.
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Apr 26, 2014 6:03 PM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Obstinance_Works: Control as in taking charge or control as in being possessive? The two are chalk and cheese: One is a strength and the other is an insecurity. And put it this way you don't see many couples where the woman is in charge and the man is needy and possessive without the woman absolutely despising him for it.
control on each other wave
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Apr 27, 2014 7:11 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
There should be no control of each other. That is just unhealthy and generally ends in tears! Whether they want to be controlled or not (man or woman).
Control of a situation is different, and it should be whoever has the knowledge of the situation at the time, with discussion and consultation of course, major or minor.
So a good balance is best, I think.
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Apr 27, 2014 8:02 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Are you telling me that there are any women in control in your neck of the woods? confused
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Apr 27, 2014 9:56 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
ali110: control on each other


Hello Ali, there's being in control and then there's being controlling. She'll like him to take the lead and come up with the ideas whilst she plays the supporting role, but she will resist a man who tries to police everything she does.
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Apr 27, 2014 9:57 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
PrincessKristy
PrincessKristyPrincessKristybremerton, Washington USA8 Threads 1 Polls 54 Posts
both
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Apr 27, 2014 9:58 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
2girlsnocup: I don't watch TV, so she can have the TV remote controller
u had to bring that up low blow,lol.
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Apr 27, 2014 11:15 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
Squeezie1958
Squeezie1958Squeezie1958inglis, Florida USA4 Threads 484 Posts
I think it should be both but not really a controlled thing.. Just letting things flow evenly... perfect harmony...
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Apr 27, 2014 11:19 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Hello Ali, there's being in control and then there's being controlling. She'll like him to take the lead and come up with the ideas whilst she plays the supporting role, but she will resist a man who tries to police everything she does.


Resist? No.

She'll have him out the door so fast it'll make his head spin
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Apr 27, 2014 11:30 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
each one should ,suggest......and if it is ,a better idea then mine...then I would go along with it......I think ,that's fair to say........hi all.......wave
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Apr 27, 2014 11:31 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
truheart1941: each one should ,suggest......and if it is ,a better idea then mine...then I would go along with it......I think ,that's fair to say........hi all.......


Hey Pete wave hug
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Apr 27, 2014 11:32 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised: Hey Pete
.....hi LOU......hug hug
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Apr 27, 2014 11:33 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Take control = taking turns on top??



popcorn
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Apr 27, 2014 11:33 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
truheart1941: .....hi LOU......


Your mate is leading me astray on the other thread wow smitten
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Apr 27, 2014 11:36 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised: Your mate is leading me astray on the other thread
and who would that be......???????
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Apr 27, 2014 11:37 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
truheart1941: and who would that be......???????


Uppie...who else?
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Apr 27, 2014 11:37 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
RomancingSting
RomancingStingRomancingStingFort Saskatchewan, Alberta Canada5 Threads 562 Posts
unlaoised: Resist? No.

She'll have him out the door so fast it'll make his head spin


There should never be control or controlling in a relationship, it never leads to anything positive or long lasting for that matter. The outcome is always some one being oppressed. I would hope and want there to be equality in everything, isn't that what being partners in life means.
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Apr 27, 2014 11:37 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
RomancingSting: There should never be control or controlling in a relationship, it never leads to anything positive or long lasting for that matter. The outcome is always some one being oppressed. I would hope and want there to be equality in everything, isn't that what being partners in life means.


I concur thumbs up
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Apr 27, 2014 11:39 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
minnieme2: There should be no control of each other. That is just unhealthy and generally ends in tears! Whether they want to be controlled or not (man or woman).
Control of a situation is different, and it should be whoever has the knowledge of the situation at the time, with discussion and consultation of course, major or minor.
So a good balance is best, I think.
Good post hug
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Apr 27, 2014 11:39 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
PrincessKristy: both
Hello princesswave
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Apr 27, 2014 11:40 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
unlaoised: Uppie...who else?
oh uptall...naaaa. he,s alright..........he,s a funny devil......but armless......I think you can handle him.......laugh
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Apr 27, 2014 11:42 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
mollybaby: Take control = taking turns on top??
take Control ilove hug
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Apr 27, 2014 11:44 AM CST Who wants to take the Control in Relation
truheart1941: each one should ,suggest......and if it is ,a better idea then mine...then I would go along with it......I think ,that's fair to say........hi all.......
hi true ,unlao seems enough attracted to u ....dont miss that chance grin wave

shoory unlao laugh
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