Not particularly interested in being in control but then I don't want to be 'controlled' either.....
I'm not interested in a competition of dominance. That said, the man who can step back from the machismo malarkey at times is, in fact, the bigger man....
xxDandelionxx: Not particularly interested in being in control but then I don't want to be 'controlled' either.....
I'm not interested in a competition of dominance. That said, the man who can step back from the machismo malarkey at times is, in fact, the bigger man....
Control as in taking charge or control as in being possessive? The two are chalk and cheese: One is a strength and the other is an insecurity. And put it this way you don't see many couples where the woman is in charge and the man is needy and possessive without the woman absolutely despising him for it.
Obstinance_Works: Control as in taking charge or control as in being possessive? The two are chalk and cheese: One is a strength and the other is an insecurity. And put it this way you don't see many couples where the woman is in charge and the man is needy and possessive without the woman absolutely despising him for it.
There should be no control of each other. That is just unhealthy and generally ends in tears! Whether they want to be controlled or not (man or woman). Control of a situation is different, and it should be whoever has the knowledge of the situation at the time, with discussion and consultation of course, major or minor. So a good balance is best, I think.
Hello Ali, there's being in control and then there's being controlling. She'll like him to take the lead and come up with the ideas whilst she plays the supporting role, but she will resist a man who tries to police everything she does.
Obstinance_Works: Hello Ali, there's being in control and then there's being controlling. She'll like him to take the lead and come up with the ideas whilst she plays the supporting role, but she will resist a man who tries to police everything she does.
Resist? No.
She'll have him out the door so fast it'll make his head spin
each one should ,suggest......and if it is ,a better idea then mine...then I would go along with it......I think ,that's fair to say........hi all.......
truheart1941: each one should ,suggest......and if it is ,a better idea then mine...then I would go along with it......I think ,that's fair to say........hi all.......
She'll have him out the door so fast it'll make his head spin
There should never be control or controlling in a relationship, it never leads to anything positive or long lasting for that matter. The outcome is always some one being oppressed. I would hope and want there to be equality in everything, isn't that what being partners in life means.
RomancingSting: There should never be control or controlling in a relationship, it never leads to anything positive or long lasting for that matter. The outcome is always some one being oppressed. I would hope and want there to be equality in everything, isn't that what being partners in life means.
minnieme2: There should be no control of each other. That is just unhealthy and generally ends in tears! Whether they want to be controlled or not (man or woman). Control of a situation is different, and it should be whoever has the knowledge of the situation at the time, with discussion and consultation of course, major or minor. So a good balance is best, I think.
truheart1941: each one should ,suggest......and if it is ,a better idea then mine...then I would go along with it......I think ,that's fair to say........hi all.......
hi true ,unlao seems enough attracted to u ....dont miss that chance
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