ekselfOnehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa261 posts
Sometimes bothers me as well as not all state their status on their profiles. You think you get to know them on the blogs and forums so you send them mail just to find out, after a couple of mails, they are married or in a relationship. Makes you feel kind of stupid.
Rogerzoekt: I see sooooo many comments of people that are not single(anymore) and or not looking. What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??
It should be a site for people who want a serious relationship, possibly leading to marriage. Some people in here aren't actually hoping for something along that line. I find that some people don't even bother to answer their e-mails, are rude as well. If you just want to talk to people there are probably other sites that offer that only...why do you think it's called Connecting Singles, it's to connect singles with other singles.
Just wish the non single, non looking people tried to get a life somehow on a site thats more suited for them. Virtualfriends.com, nolifewhatsoever/World or something like that.
It prevents us (people who are really looking for a partner and for who the site was originally meant to be) writing to them and finding out they're not available.
Old fart's habbits die hard, I know and they probably feel the need to teach the singles on here or to see how they go or fail.
Anyway, I'm still here looking for a nice partner. No need for any old geiser cyberpolice to watch over me thanks.
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
Firstly.. We are not breaking ANY CS rules by stating in our profile that we are "in a relationship" as the site Gives us that option! And secondly.. How the h.ll do we (people who are not looking) hinder YOU in any way from finding a mate?? Free site, free choice.. I for one like logging onto the forums now and again, also the poetry section, and I stay for that .. Because I Can! ... Thank you
serena123: Firstly.. We are not breaking ANY CS rules by stating in our profile that we are "in a relationship" as the site Gives us that option! And secondly.. How the h.ll do we (people who are not looking) hinder YOU in any way from finding a mate?? Free site, free choice.. I for one like logging onto the forums now and again, also the poetry section, and I stay for that .. Because I Can! ... Thank you
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What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??