Open Relationships ( Archived) (81)

yea i agree with what u say but thats ok when both party,s are honest...

normally players are not so honest and pretend to be what the other person is looking for until they get what they want and then you never hear from them again.

hence one person normally gets hurt and feels used

Yes of course the player is very clever at this and making moves on vunerable souls, but if one keeps seeing the player thinking he going to change because he or she is the exception to his rule its only kidding oneself,

I think most people can tell if a person is a player after awhile and sometimes people don't want to see the sighns because they might just be delighted to have his or her company at any cost,,..

I suppose it's about each person experiencing things for themselves and hopefully choosing what they feel is right for them in the future,

I wouldn't be taken in by a man that comes across all sweet like too good to be true and gushing and charming the birds out of the treetops, ..

Does that mean there is hope for men like me?

Haha think you may use plenty butter and sugar... ...

Actually pheonix you use plenty butter when you want to layer it on that is ..

Don't think your a sweety guy tho.

before divorce and pre acceptance of people separating in this country..

we too had that european continental view of open relationships...when the love died they sought others.

they just never admitted it to anyone...mostly

If in a relationship and the partner suggest an open relationship, The writing is on the wall,

Something is not working like it used to with the two of you,, or simply he or she is suddenly getting fancy ideas in their head,,could be they felt trapped before and suddenly want to experience what it's like to feel free.,

I think when something is dead it's dead and sometimes people try to make it better but it's like whipping a dead horse,

Maybe some people with open relationships say it makes them stronger as a couple,

Each to their own,,personally I'd hate an open relationship,.And it must be tough on a partner when the other suggests it,

If your single and the guy or woman says they want to see others also,,it could mean they just not into you but your a handy person to have around but they aren't putting all their eggs in the basket,,till they meet the one,

They want to spend their life with,


Some just dont want to settle with just one person they don't want to feel tied down ,don't want the responsibility and commitment.
Each to their own.

I never wanted an open relationship and I'm just laughing to myself here because if I ever suggested that to my ex hubby I don't know whether he would have, .

Out the front door or window.

If he had of ever suggested it I would have thrown him out on the street and all his belongings would have been thrown out too in broken pieces. .

It could have (if he suggested it) opened the door for you to meet a Russian or other...

Haha Wouldn't happen to have had an open relationship, .

You'd have met the Russian on the sly behind his back.. Good girl..

Yea maybe it's just as well we divorced then because maube one of us or both of us would be dead or in prison today. ..


Lol.

So you have an 'enemy' too like me.. Join the club (I think I helped make the t-shirt)

Haha to suggest he was an enemy would be saying he has some kind of hold over me,,.

No not at all I wish him well.

Haha no he married now I doubt if I cast him a thought ..I'm indifferent to to be thinking of him in that regard, .



Gonna listen to your video post now,,,neighbours is on but I'm waiting for home and away. ,,,cheers here's to saints and sinners and those that try to be both.. ,lol

An ex of mine suggested it once i took the 5th didnt comment an hour later she said no way could she share ,but i was bought up with the motto that sharing is caring maybe im wrong ,but personally i think if you really like someone you should treasure them