If You Were In Love With Your Best Friend Would You Tell Her/Him And Risk Your Friendship ? (50)
listen the song Don't speak ..there is an answer
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geoabcd1234: would you risk it and why
Is there a particular story you want to tell? people do not operate in a vacuum, missing specific information is important. The question is, really would you?
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geoabcd1234: would you risk it and why
I did...look how ugly I turned
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JeanKimberley: Is there a particular story you want to tell? people do not operate in a vacuum, missing specific information is important. The question is, really would you?
no explanation needed/look what ive become
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JeanKimberley: Is there a particular story you want to tell? people do not operate in a vacuum, missing specific information is important. The question is, really would you?
yeah me and my best friend for years became a couple and after 6 months she cheated on me and now we lost our friendship too ..thats why
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Yes because they may feel the same way but afraid to say anything also and therefore you both could both be missing out on the greatest love of your lives. 
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bungallow55: I did...look how ugly I turned
I really did tell her/wasted my time
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geoabcd1234: yeah me and my best friend for years became a couple and after 6 months she cheated on me and now we lost our friendship too ..thats why
Is it a case where she thought of you as a friend with benefits and you wanted exclusivity?
Too bad that you lost your friendship with her.
Let me ask, if I may, if your friend had been a male and he betrayed you in some manner (like told someone else a secret about you).... would that break a long time friendship or are you like to forgive him? (I am talking about non romantic guy friendship)
So if you would and have forgiven other of your friends, could you take a leap of faith and forgive your ex-girlfriend and turn her back into a good friend?
just kinda curious - there is no right or wrong answer just all about who we are as people?
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bungallow55: I really did tell her/wasted my time
and a broken heart
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bungallow55: I really did tell her/wasted my time
How is time with invested in a friendship wasted?
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JeanKimberley: How is time with invested in a friendship wasted?
I'm only human I fell for her
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bungallow55: I'm only human I fell for her
she had other ideas
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bungallow55: I'm only human I fell for her
and sorry, it happens..... love can bloom 
Our capacity to love as humans, is amazing, and confusing, and happy, and sad and all varieties in between. Did Shakespeare have it right? Is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all?
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geoabcd1234: yeah me and my best friend for years became a couple and after 6 months she cheated on me and now we lost our friendship too ..thats why
Sounds like she felt obligated into giving it a try with you, but you can't obligate a woman into loving you.. Most women at some time or other get it into their heads that being with a certain man or certain type of man would be a good idea or the right thing to do, but the heart always wins in the end.
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JeanKimberley: and sorry, it happens..... love can bloom
Our capacity to love as humans, is amazing, and confusing, and happy, and sad and all varieties in between. Did Shakespeare have it right? Is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all?
Our capacity to love as humans, is amazing, and confusing, and happy, and sad and all varieties in between. Did Shakespeare have it right? Is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all?
thanks
yes like my peach tree is bloomingwith flowers now
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Obstinance_Works: Sounds like she felt obligated into giving it a try with you, but you can't obligate a woman into loving you.. Most women at some time or other get it into their heads that being with a certain man or certain type of man would be a good idea or the right thing to do, but the heart always wins in the end.
i dont really know cause she was the one who said she loves me first and then did wht she did so i just dont understand .. !
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JeanKimberley: Is it a case where she thought of you as a friend with benefits and you wanted exclusivity?
Too bad that you lost your friendship with her.
Let me ask, if I may, if your friend had been a male and he betrayed you in some manner (like told someone else a secret about you).... would that break a long time friendship or are you like to forgive him? (I am talking about non romantic guy friendship)So if you would and have forgiven other of your friends, could you take a leap of faith and forgive your ex-girlfriend and turn her back into a good friend?
just kinda curious - there is no right or wrong answer just all about who we are as people?
Too bad that you lost your friendship with her.
Let me ask, if I may, if your friend had been a male and he betrayed you in some manner (like told someone else a secret about you).... would that break a long time friendship or are you like to forgive him? (I am talking about non romantic guy friendship)So if you would and have forgiven other of your friends, could you take a leap of faith and forgive your ex-girlfriend and turn her back into a good friend?
just kinda curious - there is no right or wrong answer just all about who we are as people?
well depends how serious was my secret i guess..
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geoabcd1234: would you risk it and why
I did it & lost her
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geoabcd1234: would you risk it and why
yes because I would be honest...
I believe in honesty and also if this were a true BBF what is there to lose ... if its not mutual then so be it...
friends come and go
love comes and goes
eventually somethings gotta stick, but if you are true to yourself and are honest you risk it ...
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geoabcd1234: well depends how serious was my secret i guess..
and that's the whole thing - it is a truly individual decision.
I am, I think, a very loyal person, however, I have learned over my life that if it is a big betrayal of a friend - I do not forgive - some other people do - they forgive but not forget or they forget...
I also have some lovely friends that were so destructive, that I avoided them and excluded them from my life. They have grown up and changed, so I have become on friendly terms again.
How does she feel now about returning to a friendship with you? Does she feel awkward?
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geoabcd1234: i dont really know cause she was the one who said she loves me first and then did wht she did so i just dont understand .. !
Oh. So she had said to you before you had said anything at all to her?
This doesn't have to make a difference. I'm wondering what her ex was like before you? Women coming off the back of getting hurt can go do silly things. They can tell themselves that what they want is somebody nothing like their ex. In the midst of pain they can crave comfort and safety, but sooner or later she returns to what she always wanted.
Maybe not even this. She may have looked at you as a good friend a good person and genuinely wished that she could love you.
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limay123: yes because I would be honest...
I believe in honesty and also if this were a true BBF what is there to lose ... if its not mutual then so be it...
friends come and go
love comes and goes
eventually somethings gotta stick, but if you are true to yourself and are honest you risk it ...
I believe in honesty and also if this were a true BBF what is there to lose ... if its not mutual then so be it...
friends come and go
love comes and goes
eventually somethings gotta stick, but if you are true to yourself and are honest you risk it ...
you got being honest/and lose
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JeanKimberley: and that's the whole thing - it is a truly individual decision.
I am, I think, a very loyal person, however, I have learned over my life that if it is a big betrayal of a friend - I do not forgive - some other people do - they forgive but not forget or they forget...
I also have some lovely friends that were so destructive, that I avoided them and excluded them from my life. They have grown up and changed, so I have become on friendly terms again.
How does she feel now about returning to a friendship with you? Does she feel awkward?
I am, I think, a very loyal person, however, I have learned over my life that if it is a big betrayal of a friend - I do not forgive - some other people do - they forgive but not forget or they forget...
I also have some lovely friends that were so destructive, that I avoided them and excluded them from my life. They have grown up and changed, so I have become on friendly terms again.
How does she feel now about returning to a friendship with you? Does she feel awkward?
she feels sorry .. she had been texting but thats all .. its quite recently so needs some time and see wht will happen
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Oh. So she had said to you before you had said anything at all to her?
This doesn't have to make a difference. I'm wondering what her ex was like before you? Women coming off the back of getting hurt can go do silly things. They can tell themselves that what they want is somebody nothing like their ex. In the midst of pain they can crave comfort and safety, but sooner or later she returns to what she always wanted.
Maybe not even this. She may have looked at you as a good friend a good person and genuinely wished that she could love you.[/qu
well her ex wasnt the best as far as i know ..
This doesn't have to make a difference. I'm wondering what her ex was like before you? Women coming off the back of getting hurt can go do silly things. They can tell themselves that what they want is somebody nothing like their ex. In the midst of pain they can crave comfort and safety, but sooner or later she returns to what she always wanted.
Maybe not even this. She may have looked at you as a good friend a good person and genuinely wished that she could love you.[/qu
well her ex wasnt the best as far as i know ..
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bungallow55: you too brutus
Are you drunk?
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KNenagh: Are you drunk?
Lady...I don't smoke nor alcohol
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bungallow55: Lady...I don't smoke nor alcohol
If you don't like my new look
not a reason to call me drunk
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Yes I would tell them. It may be a positive response. If not, and she didn't wish to have a friendship with me after me being honest, then I would accept that, and hopefully as adults, we can deal with it in a mature way.
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I was referring to the "context" of your post and not your photo bung.
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Your best friend is a man or a woman,you are in love with.????Or you fantasize,you are in love????
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