I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
Is someone's skill at estimating human weight a trait you look for in a partner?
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
It would be difficult not to perceive you.
Have to say you might be a little bit too big for me. But what's the prize if we guess correctly?
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
From your picture I only can say your overweight like in my picture. But that's it.
unlaoised: Honestly? What does it matter what you weigh?
I know it's not right but it does matter Louise. Any guy that looks at her pic will be turned off right away unless he really likes big girls.
She knows this already or she wouldn't be asking the question. I feel bad for her because I also deal with weight issues.
A couple years ago on this site I had a picture of me in 2006 when I lost 126 pounds. I was talking to a guy and one day I put another pic up showing that I had gained some weight since the first pic.
He asked me if I gained weight when he saw the current pic and I told him yes. When he asked that question I knew it was a problem for him so I ended our conversations.
Weight is even a problem for women who don't want an obese man yet obese men want a thin woman.
It's often said that people are the same inside even when they are overweight. They are not the same because they have insecurities, their self esteem goes out the window and they don't feel confident to pursue a relationship.
My last boyfriend tried to convince me that when I gained weight it didn't matter to him. I didn't believe him because it matters to every man.
She's a nice girl but the best thing she could do is lose 50 pounds and stop trying to find love. She might think that men aren't interested because she is overweight and that won't help her confidence.
secretagent09: I know it's not right but it does matter Louise. Any guy that looks at her pic will be turned off right away unless he really likes big girls.
She knows this already or she wouldn't be asking the question. I feel bad for her because I also deal with weight issues.
A couple years ago on this site I had a picture of me in 2006 when I lost 126 pounds. I was talking to a guy and one day I put another pic up showing that I had gained some weight since the first pic.
He asked me if I gained weight when he saw the current pic and I told him yes. When he asked that question I knew it was a problem for him so I ended our conversations.
Weight is even a problem for women who don't want an obese man yet obese men want a thin woman.
It's often said that people are the same inside even when they are overweight. They are not the same because they have insecurities, their self esteem goes out the window and they don't feel confident to pursue a relationship.
My last boyfriend tried to convince me that when I gained weight it didn't matter to him. I didn't believe him because it matters to every man.
She's a nice girl but the best thing she could do is lose 50 pounds and stop trying to find love. She might think that men aren't interested because she is overweight and that won't help her confidence.
My guess is she is 300 pounds.
Good luck to you Miss401
And then there's the trifling matter that it'll kill you...
Kudos to you for not joining in the kind to be cruel chorus of misinformation from the CS cult of death.
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
You are overweight. If it's an issue for YOU, deal with it, if not, don't let it bother you. Just do yourself a favour and don't give out about it without doing anything to change it (not saying you do this here).
I lost a lot of weight and I do watch what I eat and I do sports. It is easier to meet someone when you are thin in my experience, but it's not all about that. I did have nice boyfriends when I was heavier. I don't like skinny men tbh, and how healthy someone is / his lifestyle would be more important to me and that can be the same for a man - you probably know how plentiful they are.
Soul_Whisperer101Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa40 posts
True that pics don't always tell the whole story ,,, & also depends on the pic (Is it just of the face / or does is clearly show the entire body!!).
In answer to your question - you are obviously not under 195lbs and not over 400lbs,,,(re the indicated options) - so anywhere in between!
As long as you are comfortable and happy with yourself - The number on the scale does indicate weight/ size - small/medium/larger/very large etc...but it only does that!
It doesn't indicate how clever, caring, devoted, great friend, mother, sister, wonderful personality, very talented etc. etc. etc.
PS: Care to reveal what you do weigh ?? Be Blessed! Enjoy!
missapt401: I have found in dating recently that pictures don't always tell the whole story, or people aren't perceiving the whole picture. Either way it has made me curious as to how they view my pictures. Feel free to be completely honest. Don't try to spare feelings, I need real perspective here. Thank you.
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Judging by my picture how much would you guess I weigh?(Vote Below)