Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages ( Archived) (44)

Jan 30, 2015 4:24 PM CSTWhy do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess
matureduchessmatureduchessTreherne, Manitoba Canada4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts

Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages(Vote Below)

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They are bored and have nothing better to do
11
20%
They are shy and socially awkward
15
28%
They get off viewing the same profiles
7
13%
Amneshia
12
22%
Wishful thinking
9
17%
Total Votes
54
In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....
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Jan 30, 2015 4:33 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland10 Threads 11,796 Posts
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....


Just send him a mail and ask him. wave
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Jan 30, 2015 4:34 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan119 Threads 17 Polls 4,286 Posts
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....
ladies do the same.may be they think men always should make a first move.dunno
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Jan 30, 2015 4:36 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
men don't for the same reason women don't. do women respond rite off the bat to every guy that may interest them. of course not. besides its not a guy/gals respondibility. if someone interest you. then u send them a message and hopefully get a response
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Jan 31, 2015 7:38 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess
matureduchessmatureduchessTreherne, Manitoba Canada4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
KNenagh: Just send him a mail and ask him.


I did no response but continues to look and there are a number of men doing the same even guys I have said no to....
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Jan 31, 2015 7:43 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess
matureduchessmatureduchessTreherne, Manitoba Canada4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
Leo_7: ladies do the same.may be they think men always should make a first move.


Thanks for your comment, it is helpful.
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Jan 31, 2015 7:43 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess
matureduchessmatureduchessTreherne, Manitoba Canada4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
Leo_7: ladies do the same.may be they think men always should make a first move.


Thanks for your comment, it is helpful.
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Jan 31, 2015 7:52 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain17 Threads 2,943 Posts
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....


If someone clicks on your photo at the top of the page then until you delete it from your who viewed me you will not see that person click again but e may have clicked a thousand times, then if there is another look after deletion it means maybe that the person is just clicking each time on the list of photos as it changes.

Keeping the mouse pointer on one photo, clicking and then clicking again when the photo changes, it is also a way to get more people looking at your profile.
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Jan 31, 2015 8:02 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada36 Threads 1 Polls 10,634 Posts
If someone is viewing your profile on a public bulletin board,
it is not the same as staring at someone in a restaurant. You put
your profile up for public display. He is just looking, and you are
reading more into that, than what is really there. imo.wave
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Jan 31, 2015 9:09 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada47 Threads 28 Polls 1,307 Posts
Are you paying too much for your car insurance?
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Jan 31, 2015 9:24 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
Borja22
Borja22Borja22Picardie, France20 Threads 1 Polls 132 Posts
This is a sexist poll! scold
Women do the exact same thing ya know?
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Jan 31, 2015 9:40 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
jeejaw27
jeejaw27jeejaw27whitby, North Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 5 Posts
I think it's just something I tend to do by accident- I'm sure women must do it too. I think, as with most thingss about the whole online dating thing, it's best not to read too much into it, or you'll drive yourself crazy.
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Jan 31, 2015 11:59 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
johnjjm
johnjjmjohnjjmco westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland1 Threads 784 Posts
KNenagh: Just send him a mail and ask him.
does not happen mores the pity I suppose its in hope we have a look .sure is that not the reason we have a pic on id say most are just having a look with no other plans or motives ..the only other mail I get mostly ar fro m young americans looking for your email address just delete
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Jan 31, 2015 12:01 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA297 Threads 14 Polls 5,615 Posts
maybe those men looking for massages and not messagesconfused
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Jan 31, 2015 12:06 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 1,930 Posts
johnjjm: does not happen mores the pity I suppose its in hope we have a look .sure is that not the reason we have a pic on id say most are just having a look with no other plans or motives ..the only other mail I get mostly ar fro m young americans looking for your email address just delete


yes agreed they send you mail telling you how interested they are and asking you to get in touch (usually with a yahoo email )
these are so obviously scammers its annoying
handshake cheers
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Jan 31, 2015 12:41 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
Sometimes, I view a profile strictly because, I am hoping to one day "meet that special one". Sometimes, they are on my froend's list, so I just click on their picture/name.
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Jan 31, 2015 2:19 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland10 Threads 11,796 Posts
johnjjm: does not happen mores the pity I suppose its in hope we have a look .sure is that not the reason we have a pic on id say most are just having a look with no other plans or motives ..the only other mail I get mostly ar fro m young americans looking for your email address just delete


That's just part of internet dating that you have people looking at your photos. I do find it sometimes strange if someone doesn't get the picture because they send me mail, but it doesn't bother me.

The only way I can communicate with someone is if I write first as I have incoming mail blocked. wave
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Jan 31, 2015 2:36 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
johnjjm
johnjjmjohnjjmco westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland1 Threads 784 Posts
KNenagh: That's just part of internet dating that you have people looking at your photos. I do find it sometimes strange if someone doesn't get the picture because they send me mail, but it doesn't bother me.

The only way I can communicate with someone is if I write first as I have incoming mail blocked.
trust the germans whaaaa
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Jan 31, 2015 2:39 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland10 Threads 11,796 Posts
johnjjm: trust the germans whaaaa


They know what they're doing. wink
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Jan 31, 2015 2:42 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
johnjjm
johnjjmjohnjjmco westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland1 Threads 784 Posts
KNenagh: They know what they're doing.
yep they dio its not as simple when you reach my age believe me
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Jan 31, 2015 2:46 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland10 Threads 11,796 Posts
johnjjm: yep they dio its not as simple when you reach my age believe me


I notice that the older I get, less people to choose from are out. Just guessing that this is not going to get better. wave
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Jan 31, 2015 2:49 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....
The profiles are there for anyone and everyone to look at/read whenever they want and however many times they want. (I do it. Often just to remember what someone looks like, what their job is, etc...) You know, I must say that your post causes me to reflect on all the complaints for (some) members being annoyed that someone actually writes (which I believe is just as rude, if not more so, than thinking he/she is rude for writing (!). It's like the brat who can't decide which toy to play with, or which stick of candy to eat. Don't want people to write/annoyed if they do. Want people to write/annoyed if they don't. Put up a profile and picture/get mad at folks for lookin'. Just what the rusty phuck do people want??
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Jan 31, 2015 6:19 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess: I did no response but continues to look and there are a number of men doing the same even guys I have said no to....
I must have a peep.....
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Feb 2, 2015 5:03 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, Alberta Canada32 Threads 24,548 Posts
rohaan: The profiles are there for anyone and everyone to look at/read whenever they want and however many times they want. (I do it. Often just to remember what someone looks like, what their job is, etc...) You know, I must say that your post causes me to reflect on all the complaints for (some) members being annoyed that someone actually writes (which I believe is just as rude, if not more so, than thinking he/she is rude for writing (!). It's like the brat who can't decide which toy to play with, or which stick of candy to eat. Don't want people to write/annoyed if they do. Want people to write/annoyed if they don't. Put up a profile and picture/get mad at folks for lookin'. Just what the rusty phuck do people want??


Some people are just simply looking for a reason to complain. laugh
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Feb 8, 2015 10:10 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia58 Threads 5 Polls 2,342 Posts
Until you get a mail, it means nothing, imo.

I look at profiles all the time just because I'm curious who's behind the picture and what they wrote. So what, you know. dunno
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Feb 8, 2015 10:16 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
I just look at the (women) profiles 30 times, just so I can look at the kitty! rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 9, 2015 5:00 AM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia23 Threads 2 Polls 3,984 Posts
bungallow55: maybe those men looking for massages and not messages
rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 9, 2015 3:21 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
singhi
singhisinghiHavelock north, Hawkes Bay New Zealand11 Posts
I am often attracted by a nice face then wonder, why is she not "taken". Then I read the profile (again) and remember : She smokes
or some other things that put me off..................
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Feb 9, 2015 3:23 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA297 Threads 14 Polls 5,615 Posts
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....


they are unsureconfused
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Feb 9, 2015 3:26 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....


Are you saying that a man viewed your profile over 30 times and you sent him an email that he didn't respond to? confused
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Feb 9, 2015 3:33 PM CST Why do men view the same profile 30+ times and not respond to messages
matureduchess: In social settings starring is impolite so why do people do its equivalent on dating sites....
30+ times ???? i do 300+ times but im blocked to most of members hug
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