Some pieces of research shows that attitudes towards polyamory highly depends on how familiar with it we are, and the same happens again with the subject of polygamy.
This has traditionally been viewed as unnatural in the west, while in some other areas of the world, natural and normal.
The most fascinating thing about this is found in conversations with real women from parts of the world where some claim it to be degrading to women and victimizing the second wives, who on the other side of the coin has an equally if not better reasoned out why the benefits of polygamy while victimizing the western woman for other reasons, like high degree of mental problems.
A hypothesis can be formed to suggest it is mostly a matter of opinion and prejudice, which leaves the subject open and a matter of personal preference, not closed one way or the other.
A hypothesis can be formed to suggest it is mostly a matter of opinion and prejudice, which leaves the subject open and a matter of personal preference, not closed one way or the other.
Would you have had two?
It works very successfully in some cultures but nah, one husband was more than enough for me
sundered: Interesting point of view. But do you think it would be less boring in an all male harem for women who is women on the inside and outside, if there was also women being male on the outside and males being women as well as males being males?
Perhaps. Most people are not born the wrong gender, however.
It's complicated imo because players and manginas are both more like women than the typical man, but in wholly different ways.
Players adopt the woman's caprice and sense of entitlement and when they seduce women they mirror the way that women seduce men - players beat women at their own game.
Manginas attempt to copy a woman's softer side and usually do a poor job.
Average men do "guy stuff" like going fishing and communicating poorly.
Brannigan70: So good that I'm seeing double (posts)
Time to slip into something more comfortable
I dunno what's going on, I had this double posting yesterday and today.
I'm already in a big, comfy fleece, the heating blanked on, showered, moisterised and fed, completely sore and tired and not going to move other then getting up for chocolate or something.
Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland2,339 posts
KNenagh: I dunno what's going on, I had this double posting yesterday and today.
I'm already in a big, comfy fleece, the heating blanked on, showered, moisterised and fed, completely sore and tired and not going to move other then getting up for chocolate or something.
Comfy yourself?
Oh , time then for a gentle back/shoulder rub and I'll get another straw for my Bulmers pint bottle or indeed another bottle should ye prefer
Obstinance_Works: Perhaps. Most people are not born the wrong gender, however.
It's complicated imo because players and manginas are both more like women than the typical man, but in wholly different ways.
Players adopt the woman's caprice and sense of entitlement and when they seduce women they mirror the way that women seduce men - players beat women at their own game.
Manginas attempt to copy a woman's softer side and usually do a poor job.
Average men do "guy stuff" like going fishing and communicating poorly.
Hmm ok, well I agree with the two first proposition, while I'm probably below the average guy in understanding this.
Probably what you say about the average guy is true too, but I think there must be a fourth class that is neither, rather of a much higher intelligence or of better cultivation, who have realized that hardness is hardness and softness is softness for what it is, rather than who is like that.
Dalai Lama for instance, say that love and wisdom is the two wings of a bird, leading to insight and peace. And we are in peace with those we feel united with, and in adversity of those of who we are separated from. If you remember the other thread about the existence is one, and to believe in reality, it implies that Dalai Lama is intelligent, well cultivated or probably both. And he stresses communication too, and modes of understanding that leads to a less ignorant outcome. It is not solipsism but the opposite, there is no self. The truth.
John McCain, on the other hand, communicates poorly and is ready to invade 7 or 8 countries.
Two different men, and if one of them is womanish, well..
On the other hand, if you had your own harem of all gender combinations represented, who also had their opinion of you, would you have a boring time?
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Some pieces of research shows that attitudes towards polyamory highly depends on how familiar with it we are, and the same happens again with the subject of polygamy.
This has traditionally been viewed as unnatural in the west, while in some other areas of the world, natural and normal.
The most fascinating thing about this is found in conversations with real women from parts of the world where some claim it to be degrading to women and victimizing the second wives, who on the other side of the coin has an equally if not better reasoned out why the benefits of polygamy while victimizing the western woman for other reasons, like high degree of mental problems.