Polygami ( Archived) (84)

Feb 20, 2015 11:07 AM CSTPolygami
sundered
sunderedsunderedBø, Telemark, Norway7 Threads 2 Polls 75 Posts

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Do you think polygamy is right?

Some pieces of research shows that attitudes towards polyamory highly depends on how familiar with it we are, and the same happens again with the subject of polygamy.

This has traditionally been viewed as unnatural in the west, while in some other areas of the world, natural and normal.

The most fascinating thing about this is found in conversations with real women from parts of the world where some claim it to be degrading to women and victimizing the second wives, who on the other side of the coin has an equally if not better reasoned out why the benefits of polygamy while victimizing the western woman for other reasons, like high degree of mental problems.
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Feb 20, 2015 11:11 AM CST Polygami
sundered
sunderedsunderedBø, Telemark Norway7 Threads 2 Polls 75 Posts
Premature button accident but continue

A hypothesis can be formed to suggest it is mostly a matter of opinion and prejudice, which leaves the subject open and a matter of personal preference, not closed one way or the other.

Would you have had two?
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Feb 20, 2015 11:17 AM CST Polygami
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
sundered: Premature button accident but continue

A hypothesis can be formed to suggest it is mostly a matter of opinion and prejudice, which leaves the subject open and a matter of personal preference, not closed one way or the other.

Would you have had two?


It works very successfully in some cultures but nah, one husband was more than enough for me
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Feb 20, 2015 12:06 PM CST Polygami
sundered
sunderedsunderedBø, Telemark Norway7 Threads 2 Polls 75 Posts
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Is this a type of Origami?, l clicked yes because l like paper folding, especially in the toilet...........


Good for you buddy

I'm into Yoga and Qi-Gong at the moment

handshake
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Feb 20, 2015 1:31 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
sundered: Good for you buddy

I'm into Yoga and Qi-Gong at the moment


You would need to be flexible from yoga and qigong to be my 2nd husband cool
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Feb 20, 2015 1:33 PM CST Polygami
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: You would need to be flexible from yoga and qigong to be my 2nd husband




I'm working on that as we speakflex pointing


smitten

Hello lovelyhug
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Feb 20, 2015 1:36 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: I'm working on that as we speak

Hello lovely


Hi handsome hug
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Feb 20, 2015 1:39 PM CST Polygami
sundered
sunderedsunderedBø, Telemark Norway7 Threads 2 Polls 75 Posts
mollybaby: You would need to be flexible from yoga and qigong to be my 2nd husband


I'd be husband number 1.

Number 2 does many services.
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Feb 20, 2015 1:45 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
sundered: I'd be husband number 1.

Number 2 does many services.




That wouldn't be your decisionscold


grin
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Feb 20, 2015 1:58 PM CST Polygami
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: That wouldn't be your decision



Looks like I'm favourite, oh joy cartwheel cartwheel cartwheel joy


laugh
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Feb 20, 2015 2:01 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: Looks like I'm favourite, oh joy



You look light on your feet with those somersaults alright writing



grin
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Feb 20, 2015 2:04 PM CST Polygami
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: You look light on your feet with those somersaults alright



I'll pirouette you until you can't take no morewink

I very continental you knowlaugh
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Feb 20, 2015 2:07 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: I'll pirouette you until you can't take no more

I very continental you know



I am very impressed at your command of the language of love kiss



grin
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Feb 20, 2015 2:09 PM CST Polygami
sundered
sunderedsunderedBø, Telemark Norway7 Threads 2 Polls 75 Posts
mollybaby: That wouldn't be your decision


I have a better idea. You can show me your husbands and I can show you my wives. Later. And we'll compare how they perform their tricks
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Feb 20, 2015 2:11 PM CST Polygami
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
sounds good to me

grin

he can have all the moaning ,complaining and nagging

dunno

I`ll take the hugs, cuddles and loving

teddybear heart wings lips bouquet wink
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Feb 20, 2015 2:15 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
sundered: I have a better idea. You can show me your husbands and I can show you my wives. Later. And we'll compare how they perform their tricks



A trick-off??


Woof!



laugh
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Feb 20, 2015 2:15 PM CST Polygami
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: I am very impressed at your command of the language of love



I have long traveled that road batting


hug
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Feb 20, 2015 2:23 PM CST Polygami
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: I have long traveled that road



And long may you continue on said road flirty



hug
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Feb 20, 2015 2:27 PM CST Polygami
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: And long may you continue on said road


They'd have to bleed me like a bull to stop mewink

hug
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Feb 20, 2015 2:46 PM CST Polygami
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
sundered: Interesting point of view. But do you think it would be less boring in an all male harem for women who is women on the inside and outside, if there was also women being male on the outside and males being women as well as males being males?


Perhaps. Most people are not born the wrong gender, however.

It's complicated imo because players and manginas are both more like women than the typical man, but in wholly different ways.

Players adopt the woman's caprice and sense of entitlement and when they seduce women they mirror the way that women seduce men - players beat women at their own game.

Manginas attempt to copy a woman's softer side and usually do a poor job.

Average men do "guy stuff" like going fishing and communicating poorly.
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Feb 20, 2015 2:57 PM CST Polygami
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
One guy is enough for me. wink
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Feb 20, 2015 3:05 PM CST Polygami
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
KNenagh: One guy is enough for me.
Good eve to ye K tip hat bouquet
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Feb 20, 2015 3:11 PM CST Polygami
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Brannigan70: Good eve to ye K


Hiya R reunion

Good evening and all is well with you. hug bouquet
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Feb 20, 2015 3:20 PM CST Polygami
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
KNenagh: Good.

I don't share
I wouldn't dream of being shared sharing either grin
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Feb 20, 2015 3:25 PM CST Polygami
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Brannigan70: I wouldn't dream of being shared sharing either


One of me is enough as well. laugh
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Feb 20, 2015 3:25 PM CST Polygami
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Brannigan70: I wouldn't dream of being shared sharing either


One of me is enough as well. laugh
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Feb 20, 2015 3:30 PM CST Polygami
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
KNenagh: One of me is enough as well.
So good that I'm seeing double (posts)
wow laugh

KNenagh: One of me is enough as well.
Time to slip into something more comfortable devil wink
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Feb 20, 2015 3:34 PM CST Polygami
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Brannigan70: So good that I'm seeing double (posts)


Time to slip into something more comfortable


I dunno what's going on, I had this double posting yesterday and today. confused

I'm already in a big, comfy fleece, the heating blanked on, showered, moisterised and fed, completely sore and tired and not going to move other then getting up for chocolate or something. conversing

Comfy yourself? popcorn
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Feb 20, 2015 3:43 PM CST Polygami
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
KNenagh: I dunno what's going on, I had this double posting yesterday and today.

I'm already in a big, comfy fleece, the heating blanked on, showered, moisterised and fed, completely sore and tired and not going to move other then getting up for chocolate or something.

Comfy yourself?
Oh , time then for a gentle back/shoulder rub and I'll get another straw for my Bulmers pint bottle or indeed another bottle should ye prefer wink

Your posts are such a joy to read anyway laugh
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Feb 20, 2015 3:58 PM CST Polygami
I say Do the right thing. In this case, what aperson believes to be right for them, then it is right for them.. For me... NO THANK YOU : )
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Feb 20, 2015 4:42 PM CST Polygami
sundered
sunderedsunderedBø, Telemark Norway7 Threads 2 Polls 75 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Perhaps. Most people are not born the wrong gender, however.

It's complicated imo because players and manginas are both more like women than the typical man, but in wholly different ways.

Players adopt the woman's caprice and sense of entitlement and when they seduce women they mirror the way that women seduce men - players beat women at their own game.

Manginas attempt to copy a woman's softer side and usually do a poor job.

Average men do "guy stuff" like going fishing and communicating poorly.


Hmm ok, well I agree with the two first proposition, while I'm probably below the average guy in understanding this.

Probably what you say about the average guy is true too, but I think there must be a fourth class that is neither, rather of a much higher intelligence or of better cultivation, who have realized that hardness is hardness and softness is softness for what it is, rather than who is like that.

Dalai Lama for instance, say that love and wisdom is the two wings of a bird, leading to insight and peace. And we are in peace with those we feel united with, and in adversity of those of who we are separated from. If you remember the other thread about the existence is one, and to believe in reality, it implies that Dalai Lama is intelligent, well cultivated or probably both. And he stresses communication too, and modes of understanding that leads to a less ignorant outcome. It is not solipsism but the opposite, there is no self. The truth.

John McCain, on the other hand, communicates poorly and is ready to invade 7 or 8 countries.

Two different men, and if one of them is womanish, well..

On the other hand, if you had your own harem of all gender combinations represented, who also had their opinion of you, would you have a boring time?

I think I would get my extacy without philosophy

peace
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