I have created this Poll to see if arrogance is normal on here, if i was sent a message or flower i would at the very least reply back, even if there was no further contact.
Maybe those that ignore peoples messages and flowers doing others a favour.
Data63: I have created this Poll to see if arrogance is normal on here, if i was sent a message or flower i would at the very least reply back, even if there was no further contact.
Maybe those that ignore peoples messages and flowers doing others a favour.
Some women get messages from all kinds of people and a lot are weirdo's so if they see they have a message they see the persons face and decide if they would like to chat, its nothing personal they just dont have to reply or they would be doing it all the time. I suppose its what the site is all about dating and not just saying hello to random people who send you messages, i like yourself will always reply to a message or flower but its like i say different for women they have these weirdo's to put up with. I have sent messages and not had a reply but its how you deal with it, i just accept that i am not what the woman is looking for. Happy hunting :)
StedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK1,780 posts
When I receive messages which are few and far between now...I used to write lines like I have this flower and now am pulling the petals off one by one asking if you love me.. or love me not...this usually ends all correspondence post haste......
I'm usually polite and say Thank You, but messages that just contain 2 letters "Hi" I totally ignore.....if no one can string a few words together then they don't deserve a reply.
Data63: I have created this Poll to see if arrogance is normal on here, if i was sent a message or flower i would at the very least reply back, even if there was no further contact.
Maybe those that ignore peoples messages and flowers doing others a favour.
I generally send a short reply to messages, unless they do not deserve a reply
Sometimes this backfires too. For example, I got one this week from somebody living locally, giving his phone number in the first email, and asking me if I would meet him for coffee that evening.
I sent back a polite message thanking him, but that I was not available, and wished him well on CS.
I then got back a message in his own language which, to put it mildly, did Not wish me well...
Data63: I have created this Poll to see if arrogance is normal on here, if i was sent a message or flower i would at the very least reply back, even if there was no further contact.
Maybe those that ignore peoples messages and flowers doing others a favour.
I find it very bad Manners and show's you the people what there about We are here for the same reason to find friends a partner Total Arrogance
chickie777: I find it very bad Manners and show's you the people what there about We are here for the same reason to find friends a partner Total Arrogance
Whet is even more arrogant or contemptuous is that the creator who did the deed has disappeared !!
Theres two sides to this its not on here that it happens is on another forum that I wont reply to 9 out of 10 letters or emails I get because I know most are scammers and they have not read my profile that says im not interested in men , well do they have the time to read what I have written ...NOPE...so I don't answer them .
What I understand is some other women on here wont accept emails from myself because of the scammers or flowers and would be lovely to talk with them as friends and a few I have done and that's been nice to do Im open so if any women ((( real ))) would like to that would be lovely ,
Jun 12, 2015 9:04 AM CST Is it ignorant to ignore messages or flowers ? myself i would not ignore anyone, respect
DeefernBridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK7 Posts
DeefernBridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK7 posts
bugzee: Some women get messages from all kinds of people and a lot are weirdo's so if they see they have a message they see the persons face and decide if they would like to chat, its nothing personal they just dont have to reply or they would be doing it all the time. I suppose its what the site is all about dating and not just saying hello to random people who send you messages, i like yourself will always reply to a message or flower but its like i say different for women they have these weirdo's to put up with. I have sent messages and not had a reply but its how you deal with it, i just accept that i am not what the woman is looking for. Happy hunting :)
Jun 12, 2015 9:25 AM CST Is it ignorant to ignore messages or flowers ? myself i would not ignore anyone, respect
DeefernBridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK7 Posts
DeefernBridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK7 posts
Data63: I have created this Poll to see if arrogance is normal on here, if i was sent a message or flower i would at the very least reply back, even if there was no further contact.
Maybe those that ignore peoples messages and flowers doing others a favour.
re: Bugzee I.O.M.
well said that Lady from I.O.M.!
you have answered for my self & I feel for the majority of most Ladies on here! we do indeed have put up with many things & I agree it is an individual thing to decide to respond to ALL messages & Cards etc! not possible OR practical!..
In my experience (short as it is!) some guys on here are chatting to you by mail each day as you do all nicey nicey small talk etc. then all of a sudden for no apparent reason they don't have the good manners TO SAY thanks but no thanks! I do have manners & reply to genuine messages & cards..but then I was brought up to have good manners!....sadly these days rather the exception than the rule!
About the only flowers or messages I receive are usually women in their 30's and you can tell from the wording in the message it's spam, so I delete them.
chemistrymajor: About the only flowers or messages I receive are usually women in their 30's and you can tell from the wording in the message it's spam, so I delete them.
Funnily enough I get similar - The message has no punctuation, the english is poor and if I answer, they want money to come to the UK to claim a dead relatives inheritance The figures 419 come to mind
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Is it ignorant to ignore messages or flowers ? myself i would not ignore anyone, respect(Vote Below)
Maybe those that ignore peoples messages and flowers doing others a favour.