Women always complain of looking for the right man to be in love with, well the phrase "right man" may have different interpretations, it appears to me that love is always a blind game, that most always end in a regret. Well, but let's try to understand from our polls, what make our dynamic women to fall in love? It may take a woman less that a few seconds to fall in love, as well as it may take a longer time or it may never happen, depending on the women's individualistic criteria.Women are different! Some women live on a dream land, while others are realist, but all have their weaknesses.
the poll was difficult, as more than one category plays into it. For me, not only character and expression, but the personality is important, but looks and expression gets my attention first. But a little bit of everything on that list is important, to one degree or another. Money is not high on the list; just want a guy who works. Family and friends advice is not even too high on the list; I look at his character and outlook on life as being very important. Sports professional is not on my list, not even car.....And somebody "too religious" is a deal breaker for me, along with men who have addictions of any kind, rudeness, negativity of any kind, or mentally unbalanced. I'm very positive and upbeat, so I need someone who is balanced and healthy in every way.
The women will just follow you home like a starving dog following the trail of a fresh steak dragged behind you on a rope. Buy a case. Give some to friends. Always use enough so the smell will carry for blocks.
Didier15: Women always complain of looking for the right man to be in love with, well the phrase "right man" may have different interpretations, it appears to me that love is always a blind game, that most always end in a regret. Well, but let's try to understand from our polls, what make our dynamic women to fall in love? It may take a woman less that a few seconds to fall in love, as well as it may take a longer time or it may never happen, depending on the women's individualistic criteria.Women are different! Some women live on a dream land, while others are realist, but all have their weaknesses.
Attraction, infactuation. These things disguise themselves as love. I don't think that many women fall in love easily. They are more inclined to think things through and evaluate. Men just want to "jump" on a woman and a little flesh is enough to hook him.
Okay, these are generalisations, but they are also true in a majority of cases.
Do these things constitute love? They may be elements of it, but they are not the substance of love.
I think that women don't fall in love with a man easily at all. Many men have to work really hard courting, impressing women just to get a date.
Yep, every human being has their faults, their weaknesses. It is part of being human.
I don't think that you will get your answers from this poll. I think that love is something that is not easily definable from person to person. I know some couples that I look at them together and think "how on earth did you two get together?"
My wife and I are also one of these cases. She is Chinese and I Australian.
But one thing I learnt from my journey in life, is that there is truth in astrology sign compatibility. I didn't think so, but when I began to apply it, I was amazed just how my dating, friendships and courting became so much more successful.
I married someone with a very compatible star sign. I think this has helped in our marriage as we get on, despite our unique faults and little quirks.
I think that this should have been part of the poll as well. Astrology and star sign compatibility.
Halv0: Attraction, infactuation. These things disguise themselves as love. I don't think that many women fall in love easily. They are more inclined to think things through and evaluate. Men just want to "jump" on a woman and a little flesh is enough to hook him.
Okay, these are generalisations, but they are also true in a majority of cases.
Do these things constitute love? They may be elements of it, but they are not the substance of love.
I think that women don't fall in love with a man easily at all. Many men have to work really hard courting, impressing women just to get a date.
Yep, every human being has their faults, their weaknesses. It is part of being human.
I don't think that you will get your answers from this poll. I think that love is something that is not easily definable from person to person. I know some couples that I look at them together and think "how on earth did you two get together?"
My wife and I are also one of these cases. She is Chinese and I Australian.
But one thing I learnt from my journey in life, is that there is truth in astrology sign compatibility. I didn't think so, but when I began to apply it, I was amazed just how my dating, friendships and courting became so much more successful.
I married someone with a very compatible star sign. I think this has helped in our marriage as we get on, despite our unique faults and little quirks.
I think that this should have been part of the poll as well. Astrology and star sign compatibility.
Well if I were to go by star sighns ,,where do I look I'm Virgo 24 th but on cup of Leo,
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
Stedan..
I only smoke because I once read on a packet that " smoking makes you important" only to realise, after sobering up it actually read " smoking makes you impotent" !!!
Here are a couple of the plethora of sites that you can research. I found that some are better than others, but I also found the chart pretty accurate....
Good luck. Read a lot, and don't use is solely to choose your partner, but there is definite truth in the compatibilities.....
I only smoke because I once read on a packet that " smoking makes you important" only to realise, after sobering up it actually read " smoking makes you impotent" !!!
My marriage now is with a Sagittarius. Much more compatible and easy to be in relationship with....
Just saying that it definitely worked for me....
Well actually Virgo and tauras are both earth sighns and my ex hubby was a tauras we were together since teens till I was 36 so yea we were very compatible,
But I'm earth with fire cos I'm on the cusp so it's a bit more complex ,,I'm fire and earth,
Congrats on you and your wife Your lover and soulmate,
Halv0: Attraction, infactuation. These things disguise themselves as love. I don't think that many women fall in love easily. They are more inclined to think things through and evaluate. Men just want to "jump" on a woman and a little flesh is enough to hook him.
Okay, these are generalisations, but they are also true in a majority of cases.
Do these things constitute love? They may be elements of it, but they are not the substance of love.
I think that women don't fall in love with a man easily at all. Many men have to work really hard courting, impressing women just to get a date.
Yep, every human being has their faults, their weaknesses. It is part of being human.
I don't think that you will get your answers from this poll. I think that love is something that is not easily definable from person to person. I know some couples that I look at them together and think "how on earth did you two get together?"
My wife and I are also one of these cases. She is Chinese and I Australian.
But one thing I learnt from my journey in life, is that there is truth in astrology sign compatibility. I didn't think so, but when I began to apply it, I was amazed just how my dating, friendships and courting became so much more successful.
I married someone with a very compatible star sign. I think this has helped in our marriage as we get on, despite our unique faults and little quirks.
I think that this should have been part of the poll as well. Astrology and star sign compatibility.
U may be right to think that some women don't fall in love as easily as some men.Each is individual. True love is when u marry someone when u can't explain why u love them.True love is achieved by men and women who are not living in dreamland and by people who are realistic.Love based on Astrology is dreamland and non realistic combined.
peachmelba: Well actually Virgo and tauras are both earth sighns and my ex hubby was a tauras we were together since teens till I was 36 so yea we were very compatible,
But I'm earth with fire cos I'm on the cusp so it's a bit more complex ,,I'm fire and earth,
Congrats on you and your wife Your lover and soulmate,
Yeah it is. I found both the Chinese astrology and the western/Eastern astrology together were very useful. In both of these my wife and I are very compatible. This doesn't mean we don't have our differences, but we are far more compatible than my friendships with other star signs / chinese horoscope signs.
I used both together and this helped to minimise compatibility problems. Being an Aries and a horse, I found both of the descriptions of me to be very accurate. I didn't like what I was like, but I had to admit it that there was a lot of truth in it. I have to keep mindful of these traits because I don't like being this way all the time. But there is definite truth in it that helped me to find a very compatible partner.
funke3: U may be right to think that some women don't fall in love as easily as some men.Each is individual. True love is when u marry someone when u can't explain why u love them.True love is achieved by men and women who are not living in dreamland and by people who are realistic.Love based on Astrology is dreamland and non realistic combined.
Yeah I used to think that way as well. I'm not advocating that everyone should take this into account, just recounting how it actually worked for me. It was one of the changes I made when looking for my soul-mate. I actually decided to research the existing widsom to improve my chances of a 'forever' relationship.
Of course there were and are far more factors that come to play. It would be unwise to make such a life-changing choice based solely on stuff like this, but I'm saying that there is truth in using it as an information tool in helping to choose a partner.
Previously I never even considered it, but now I have living proof in friendships with women that are deeper and closer than previous ones. It seems more than coincidence that each one is with a 'compatible' star sign. I never considered it before but now through observations with my friendships with women and with my wife. I think that there is something to it.
Didier15: Women always complain of looking for the right man to be in love with, well the phrase "right man" may have different interpretations, it appears to me that love is always a blind game, that most always end in a regret. Well, but let's try to understand from our polls, what make our dynamic women to fall in love? It may take a woman less that a few seconds to fall in love, as well as it may take a longer time or it may never happen, depending on the women's individualistic criteria.Women are different! Some women live on a dream land, while others are realist, but all have their weaknesses.
The "right man" for me is someone I have things in common with - similar background, interests, values etc.
It's important to "hit it off" with someone, that there is an attraction and the ability to communicate easily. I can "like" a guy very much, but these days I do put my head in gear before things go further to cut down on headaches.
Things have to be mutual for me, otherwise I don't see any point.
If your work does not make you famous or incredibly wealthy then barely mention it. She does not care about your job.
Women are different in the details but same in their core natures.
Universal advice:
Statement-statement-question 75% - 25%
Make two statements followed by one question and allow her to speak three words to your every one. You need to come up with the content yourself, but this is the template you should roughly follow. It's not so much what you say, but how you say it and how much you say it.
You may think this sounds silly but you need to appreciate how predictable women are, and appreciate that women are not really interested in you as a person, but only interested in you as a role; the role of how you make her feel. So be attentive.
Here are a couple of the plethora of sites that you can research. I found that some are better than others, but I also found the chart pretty accurate....
Good luck. Read a lot, and don't use is solely to choose your partner, but there is definite truth in the compatibilities.....
If your work does not make you famous or incredibly wealthy then barely mention it. She does not care about your job.
Women are different in the details but same in their core natures.
Universal advice:
Statement-statement-question 75% - 25%
Make two statements followed by one question and allow her to speak three words to your every one. You need to come up with the content yourself, but this is the template you should roughly follow. It's not so much what you say, but how you say it and how much you say it.
You may think this sounds silly but you need to appreciate how predictable women are, and appreciate that women are not really interested in you as a person, but only interested in you as a role; the role of how you make her feel. So be attentive.
This is why women adore the strong, silent type despite being attracted to confidence and an outgoing nature. In fact if you're the manlier man stay true and proud to be the strong, silent type.
Me and my older Brother are about equal in looks, money, intelligence and yet he's the talkative social butterfly who women do fancy yet I beat him with women through not making that much effort to be nice and chatty. Men who talk too much spoil the vibe.
StedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK1,780 posts
mollybaby: Aaah...memories of a windy day in Edinburgh
Pity that day you were there most wore Trews......
And anyway majority of youngsters have legs like butchers pencils all lean and no meat.....no exercise like in the good old days...unless you pay for subscription steroids.
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WHAT MAKE WOMEN TO EASILY FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN?(Vote Below)
Well, but let's try to understand from our polls, what make our dynamic women to fall in love?
It may take a woman less that a few seconds to fall in love, as well as it may take a longer time or it may never happen, depending on the women's individualistic criteria.Women are different!
Some women live on a dream land, while others are realist, but all have their weaknesses.