The grease that makes the dating wheels go round? Or would you settle for a smile and not commit yourself to a (gasp) lie. I'm not talking whoppers. Just - telling lies, telling sweet little lies.
For example, my friend has learned not to ask her husband if she looks alright AFTER they left home. Not since the time she did and he said her rear end looked gigantic. She spent the whole party standing against a wall. Now, that wasn't nice!
allthegoodnamest: Jac. A little mystery is good for a relationship. It keeps us thinking of our partner.
I don't need games when authenticity provides so much more material for focussing on people, including myself.
The thing about 'mysteries' is we get stuck thinking about a few little things which don't make sense and leave us confused. It can be uncomfortable, frustrating and very, very boring after a while.
Authenticity can throw up new insights and inspirations all the time.
jac_the_gripper: It can be uncomfortable, frustrating and very, very boring after a while.Authenticity can throw up new insights and inspirations all the time.
jac_the_gripper: I don't need games when authenticity provides so much more material for focussing on people, including myself.
The thing about 'mysteries' is we get stuck thinking about a few little things which don't make sense and leave us confused. It can be uncomfortable, frustrating and very, very boring after a while.
Authenticity can throw up new insights and inspirations all the time.
VivianLee: For example, my friend has learned not to ask her husband if she looks alright AFTER they left home. Not since the time she did and he said her rear end looked gigantic. She spent the whole party standing against a wall. Now, that wasn't nice!
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