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What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman? ( Archived) (148)

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Jun 10, 2015 4:13 PM CSTWhat do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
bluewave33
bluewave33bluewave33Jesolo Lido, Veneto, Italy4 Threads 4 Polls 49 Posts
bluewave33OPJesolo Lido, Veneto, Italy49 posts

What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?(Vote Below)

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He has some mental disease.
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17%
He is a good for nothing.
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51%
He is trying to take advantages.
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31%
Total Votes
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My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.
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#1
Jun 10, 2015 4:52 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA1,055 posts
LoL, you left out the choice of,

He is much smarter than the woman who allows this.

rolling on the floor laughing
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#2
Jun 10, 2015 4:58 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
galradsDublin, Ohio USA36,283 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.


What's wrong with a man being maintained by a woman if she is agreeable to it? Whatever trips your trigger.




wave
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#3
Jun 10, 2015 5:04 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
bluewave33
bluewave33bluewave33Jesolo Lido, Veneto Italy4 Threads 4 Polls 49 Posts
bluewave33OPJesolo Lido, Veneto Italy49 posts
I am asking myself where this man's dignity is.
Do you want to say that on this big and strange world the dignity is practically = 0 ?
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#4
Jun 10, 2015 5:07 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
_mojorisin_
_mojorisin__mojorisin_burlington, Ontario Canada6 Posts
_mojorisin_burlington, Ontario Canada6 posts
wei waglio che sei ricca? dammi i tuoi soldi io me la prendo!tongue
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#5
Jun 10, 2015 5:10 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
galradsDublin, Ohio USA36,283 posts
bluewave33: I am asking myself where this man's dignity is.
Do you want to say that on this big and strange world the dignity is practically = 0 ?


No capito... dunno
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#6
Jun 10, 2015 5:11 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland23,608 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.



I would think the same about him as I would a woman who insists on being maintained by a man.....avoid at all costs
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#7
Jun 10, 2015 5:11 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
bluewave33
bluewave33bluewave33Jesolo Lido, Veneto Italy4 Threads 4 Polls 49 Posts
bluewave33OPJesolo Lido, Veneto Italy49 posts
Bravo. A very wise answer.handshake
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#8
Jun 10, 2015 5:15 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
jac_the_gripperonline today!
jac_the_gripperonline today!jac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
jac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5,363 posts
Without knowing the man in question, how do you expect anyone to have any idea whatsoever about what his situation is? confused

Perhaps you'd find it more functional in your life to try and understand yourself and why you've created this thread.
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#9
Jun 10, 2015 5:22 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
rohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA10,510 posts
galrads: What's wrong with a man being maintained by a woman if she is agreeable to it? Whatever trips your trigger.
thumbs up There is a couple living here with two small children. She is an educator; makes well above average for that job. He stays at home with the toddlers as a full-time home maker. (She pays him a good salary, btw...) It works for them, and each has found their personal "niche", as they like the roles they are in and so succeed. I'm all for it, if that is what the family decides on and wants. Why not?
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#10
Jun 10, 2015 5:26 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland23,608 posts
rohaan: There is a couple living here with two small children. She is an educator; makes well above average for that job. He stays at home with the toddlers as a full-time home maker. (She pays him a good salary, btw...) It works for them, and each has found their personal "niche", as they like the roles they are in and so succeed. I'm all for it, if that is what the family decides on and wants. Why not?



But that is a different situation.

He does have a job. He is childminding and homemaking.

That is different to just being a leech and living off somebody.

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#11
Jun 10, 2015 5:32 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
rohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA10,510 posts
mollybaby: But that is a different situation.

He does have a job. He is childminding and homemaking.

That is different to just being a leech and living off somebody.
Yes, you are right. I have known people who live off others while waiting for "the right job". Tons of excuses, usually along the lines of "I'll screw up my portfolio if I settle for mediocre jobs". I really don't know if that has merit; it may, in some instances. If I were an employer, I would look at someone more favorably if they had accepted work of any kind, instead of sitting around waiting. Sometimes we have to take a job we don't at all want. I have had to more than once, and it IS difficult, but far more constructive than not taking a job at all.
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#12
Jun 10, 2015 5:33 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
heatherhuntsman
heatherhuntsmanheatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1 Threads 1,351 Posts
heatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1,351 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.

He is good for something. Like for real, the mental illness, see he has to know better to do better. These guys, how can I put this, well they really have issues. I am sure they would really get it together with the right help. They have to want it on their own.
The behavior you speak of, gets old. So old I say do not deal with it.
A man who lives off a woman. PLEASE. No thx. PEACE HH
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#13
Jun 10, 2015 5:42 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
heatherhuntsman
heatherhuntsmanheatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1 Threads 1,351 Posts
heatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1,351 posts
Totally not even funny. So many woman have so much maturing to do. It is no joke. Men who would live off a woman are not smarter. For real, especially if she is honest, totally down, for example is a single mother, or a woman of substantial means. That woman get taken or believes lie after lie. No the woman is not less smart. She is human with a heart. Very maybe innocent, kind, vulnerable. So many cons out there. To joke that it is funny. So wrong. Please respect woman. We are so hard working and have so much love to share. Totally not funny. Like for real, check your self.
Ken_19: LoL, you left out the choice of,

He is much smarter than the woman who allows this.
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#14
Jun 10, 2015 5:52 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece15,811 posts
Isn't he, the one selected, to be the first immigrant,in another planet??
The man is not lazy.grin grin
Simply he is waiting for his flight.
laugh laugh laugh
bluewave33: I am asking myself where this man's dignity is.
Do you want to say that on this big and strange world the dignity is practically = 0 ?
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#15
Jun 10, 2015 5:52 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
48jojo
48jojo48jojosomewhere, Minnesota USA18 Posts
48jojosomewhere, Minnesota USA18 posts
Speaks for itself and also for the women who lets him get away with it.
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#16
Jun 10, 2015 5:59 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
heatherhuntsman
heatherhuntsmanheatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1 Threads 1,351 Posts
heatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1,351 posts
48jojo: Speaks for itself and also for the women who lets him get away with it.

What does it say about the woman? She is kind, beautiful, wealthy, she just took a while to realize. I get your point. I am not sure what it says about the woman. Hmmm ??? Many woman give people chances. Then realize, the man was lying.
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#17
Jun 10, 2015 6:10 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
guysimple
guysimpleguysimpledelhi, Delhi India21 Threads 12 Polls 1,509 Posts
guysimpledelhi, Delhi India1,509 posts
Ken_19: LoL, you left out the choice of,

He is much smarter than the woman who allows this.


No doubt. Well said!!grin rolling on the floor laughing
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#18
Jun 10, 2015 6:11 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
CcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA20,535 posts
How do you know that he wants to be maintained by this woman?
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#19
Jun 10, 2015 6:21 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
epirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand7,379 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.
Plenty of a double standard floating around .
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#20
Jun 10, 2015 6:23 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.


I think if he can have babies he should get equal pay for equal work.
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#21
Jun 10, 2015 7:07 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
HexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand3,829 posts
I think that 'What I think' has a much bearing on the situation as what you think.

In short it's absolutely none of my business, just as it's absolutely none of yours either.

He may be many things, and it's not really your place to judge him (or anyone else eh?)

Keep thinking tis way and very soon you'll be mouring the loss of your best school friend ... and OF COURSE if that happens YOU will be BLAMING HIM for that loss!
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#22
Jun 10, 2015 7:25 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK689 posts
I think that said chap who doesnt work will probably have lovely smooth hands,his nails wont be chipped,broken and worn away by the rigours of manual toil and that said chap enjoys living on easy street. But being serious i wouldnt be overly concerned. If this guy and youre friend are happy and she doesnt mind supporting him then i dont see the problem. There could be many reasons for theyre situation. If it becomes apparent that youre friend is making a mistake with this guy then she will learn from it,,or they may live happily ever after ...Maybe.conversing banana
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#23
Jun 10, 2015 7:29 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada6,600 posts
raphael119: I think if he can have babies he should get equal pay for equal work.
And (in case of divorce)since he squeezed his legs for her even though he didn't have to he should be granted minimum 50%of all holdings and she should have to pay a permanent maintenance fee. Something like $400.00 as a detterent.(its not a fine. cheers wink hole
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#24
Jun 10, 2015 7:58 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada18,576 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.


In all fairness, given that we don't know his specific circumstances, I can't give an opinion. wine
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#25
Jun 10, 2015 8:38 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
A rational mind is very refreshing at times .......


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2intrigued: In all fairness, given that we don't know his specific circumstances, I can't give an opinion.
thumbs up
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#26
Jun 10, 2015 8:43 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada8,017 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.


is she happy?
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#27
Jun 10, 2015 9:59 PM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
heatherhuntsman
heatherhuntsmanheatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1 Threads 1,351 Posts
heatherhuntsmanwa, Washington USA1,351 posts
HexagonKeySet: I think that 'What I think' has a much bearing on the situation as what you think.

In short it's absolutely none of my business, just as it's absolutely none of yours either.

He may be many things, and it's not really your place to judge him (or anyone else eh?)

Keep thinking tis way and very soon you'll be mouring the loss of your best school friend ... and OF COURSE if that happens YOU will be BLAMING HIM for that loss!

I do not agree. This hits home for me. b
Being a great friend is one of the blessings, we cherish the most. PEACE HH
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#28
Jun 11, 2015 2:52 AM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
KNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland11,160 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.


I would think the same of him as I would of any woman who living of a guy because she is to lazy too work.

I wouldn't go near them.
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#29
Jun 11, 2015 3:13 AM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
KremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 posts
There are so many women who don't want to work and expect to be looked after by the man, so why not the opposite?!
If the woman is fine with that, it is her personal choice...wine
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#30
Jun 11, 2015 3:18 AM CST What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
bluewave33: My best school friend is in love with a man who is refusing all the jobs the firms are offering to him. I think he is a lazy and a good for nothing fellow.


Is she supporting him? If not, then it's his business.

If he is living off of her while he is waiting for someone to offer him a job as CEO of a multinational company, then she will grow tired of the little prince soon enough. Don't try to talk her out of him. You'll lose her as a friend. Let her figure it out herself.

(same goes for women who aren't raising kids).
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