Why Do People Get Divorced? (43)
No comments yet b/c people are at a loss as to why relationships end?
I think a lack of respect and tact in how to handle conflicts plays a huge role alot of times
I think a lack of respect and tact in how to handle conflicts plays a huge role alot of times
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There are millions of reasons,as to why,relationships break up.
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Yeah, where to start? and only 2 choices on the poll...
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Darkbrownskins: Gottman offers research to support two main reasons and times for divorce.
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
30-40 years.... cos theres gotta be a better life
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Darkbrownskins: Gottman offers research to support two main reasons and times for divorce.
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
Boredom. People in the world are not as entertaining as the stuff in it and so there will always be some other dashing and exciting option or at least the impression of such an option.
And the more technology there is the more boring and easily bored people are, and the more boring and easily bored they become the more they use technology. It's a vicious circle.
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Obstinance_Works: Boredom. People in the world are not as entertaining as the stuff in it and so there will always be some other dashing and exciting option or at least the impression of such an option.
And the more technology there is the more boring and easily bored people are, and the more boring and easily bored they become the more they use technology. It's a vicious circle.
And the more technology there is the more boring and easily bored people are, and the more boring and easily bored they become the more they use technology. It's a vicious circle.
And the time when people are more interesting than stuff is when people are still an unknown quantity. When you don't know them very well, when they're a mystery, the honeymoon phase. And when we've finished with this we dispose of them and replace them with another object or person as object in an endless repetition of monogamous recycling.
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Darkbrownskins: Gottman offers research to support two main reasons and times for divorce.
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
Because one or both of them cheated.
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Darkbrownskins: Gottman offers research to support two main reasons and times for divorce.
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
Fur funCan you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?
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because both were to busy with work, career, raising kids.... during that time they didnt have enough time for each other, grew in different persons that they were before, and when career is there (stable), kids grown....they realized that they became two strangers living under the same roof.
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The pressures of work, taking each other for granted, not spending quality time together, lack of communication , children, money issues.. Shall I go on?
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And sometimes, one heart will be free, one heart will cry.
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Lannna23: because both were to busy with work, career, raising kids.... during that time they didnt have enough time for each other, grew in different persons that they were before, and when career is there (stable), kids grown....they realized that they became two strangers living under the same roof.
^^^ Best answer so far.
Both grew into different people from who they were when they met and fell in love. They start asking themselves, What did I ever see in this person?
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In my opinion, people don't put any work into it any more. Also, it's too easy to get divorced. If someone's not happy, they just bail. Everyone who is married should ask themselves, " What have I done for my marriage today? ". But that's just me.
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ooby_dooby: ^^^ Best answer so far.
Both grew into different people from who they were when they met and fell in love. They start asking themselves, What did I ever see in this person?
Both grew into different people from who they were when they met and fell in love. They start asking themselves, What did I ever see in this person?
yep!
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CapNemo: In my opinion, people don't put any work into it any more. Also, it's too easy to get divorced. If someone's not happy, they just bail. Everyone who is married should ask themselves, " What have I done for my marriage today? ". But that's just me.
^ This, plus what Lanna23 said
People can grow apart yes, but they can also grow and change together. Often a person will grow and change, but when we fail to inform our partners of the path we're on, everyone just ends up confused
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felixis99: ^ This, plus what Lanna23 said
People can grow apart yes, but they can also grow and change together. Often a person will grow and change, but when we fail to inform our partners of the path we're on, everyone just ends up confused
People can grow apart yes, but they can also grow and change together. Often a person will grow and change, but when we fail to inform our partners of the path we're on, everyone just ends up confused
felixis99: ^ This, plus what Lanna23 said
People can grow apart yes, but they can also grow and change together. Often a person will grow and change, but when we fail to inform our partners of the path we're on, everyone just ends up confused
People can grow apart yes, but they can also grow and change together. Often a person will grow and change, but when we fail to inform our partners of the path we're on, everyone just ends up confused
Yes
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chris27292729: There are millions of reasons,as to why,relationships break up.
I dunno about millions but I think the main ones are:
1. They don't love each other anymore or one stops loving the other
2. Cheating involved (financial included)
3. One becomes dangerously abusive
4. They know they can and know they don't have to put up with what they did in the old days.
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Make that one or both become dangerously abusive
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minnieme2: I dunno about millions but I think the main ones are:
1. They don't love each other anymore or one stops loving the other
2. Cheating involved (financial included)
3. One becomes dangerously abusive
4. They know they can and know they don't have to put up with what they did in the old days.
1. They don't love each other anymore or one stops loving the other
2. Cheating involved (financial included)
3. One becomes dangerously abusive
4. They know they can and know they don't have to put up with what they did in the old days.
A confession from my ex to my son.
"Since you were born, your dad planned your upbringing,without me.-
And was very successful about it""".
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Because one of the two is brave enough to get out of his/her zone of comfort and is willing to restart . Staying in an unhappy relationship sends wrong messages even to the children who know better and teaches them that a the wrong marriage is how things are for everybody . Leaving an unhappy marriage on the other hand sets a good example that there is a choice to appreciate yourself and life moving on to a happier life .
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trustfulmale: Because one of the two is brave enough to get out of his/her zone of comfort and is willing to restart . Staying in an unhappy relationship sends wrong messages even to the children who know better and teaches them that a the wrong marriage is how things are for everybody . Leaving an unhappy marriage on the other hand sets a good example that there is a choice to appreciate yourself and life moving on to a happier life .
what about weak one?
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Lannna23: what about weak one?
Then, you wake up one day,saying to yourself.
I have been weak for so long,so now am going to be brave,
and break the chain/s.
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chris27292729: Then, you wake up one day,saying to yourself.
I have been weak for so long,so now am going to be brave,
and break the chain/s.
I have been weak for so long,so now am going to be brave,
and break the chain/s.
In my case I was a brave one
I left my ex
he was a week side - alone, not prepared for me to leave him, not prepared to get alone,....he was counting that I always will be in house waiting on him :)
i am just asking what about weak one? (I think I am not weak person at all)
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Lannna23: In my case I was a brave one
I left my ex
he was a week side - alone, not prepared for me to leave him, not prepared to get alone,....he was counting that I always will be in house waiting on him :)
i am just asking what about weak one? (I think I am not weak person at all)
I too was the ....brave ...one.I left my ex
he was a week side - alone, not prepared for me to leave him, not prepared to get alone,....he was counting that I always will be in house waiting on him :)
i am just asking what about weak one? (I think I am not weak person at all)
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truheart1941: I too was the ....brave ...one.
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pennining: If that is your view, why bother marrying in the first place?
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Lannna23: In my case I was a brave one
I left my ex
he was a week side - alone, not prepared for me to leave him, not prepared to get alone,....he was counting that I always will be in house waiting on him :)
i am just asking what about weak one? (I think I am not weak person at all)
I left my ex
he was a week side - alone, not prepared for me to leave him, not prepared to get alone,....he was counting that I always will be in house waiting on him :)
i am just asking what about weak one? (I think I am not weak person at all)
?Weak or no weak,brave or no brave,it does come the time,if a relatioship doesn't work,to say, had enough,good bye and good luck.
Of course some weak people,decide to stay, and suffer the consequences
of their decisions.
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Often for the same reasons they were attracted to each other, and got together in the first place.
That strong silent type
= cold uncommunicative man
That feisty female
= nagging woman
Etc. Etc.
That strong silent type
= cold uncommunicative man That feisty female
= nagging woman Etc. Etc.
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One of the main reason for divorce here is the greedness of man or woman.For example many men here ask for financial support to the lady parents after marriage and many woman wants the rich husband property to be converted to their name.But they dont know relations can not be build on money 
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Why Do People Get Divorced?(Vote Below)
Can you please tell us more specific.. why it happen..?