Toger1234: I would not marry for money because i do not think can make you happy maybe im wrong but for me having money does not guarnetee happiness people have won the lotto and ended up miserble i would imagine you should marry because you love the fella and want to be with them for the rest of your life. I think i would end miserble otherwise plus i think we live in an age where woman can be independent and have there own money and lives its just my opioion.
what a sencible woman you are....like a breath of fresh air......
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Lolette: That's a presumption Tom,, i'm not rich,, beautiful,,not sure,,i burned my back too just to assure myself of a better life, had my share of toils just to be decent, and life gave a return out of it, i was not dependent when i was on my own, i was just thankful of my learning capacity that made things much essier for me.
Oh damn,your not rich, well one out of two is good,
I do think..when guys reconize woman as a person...and not just their play things......the world may become a better place for all concerned....... to da looe....tar/tar....
I have not really given it much thought. I just automatically assumed a woman would marry me because I am wonderful no matter what my financial status was.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
rebel2: I have not really given it much thought. I just automatically assumed a woman would marry me because I am wonderful no matter what my financial status was.
DDawson59: Ever see the gal that's a '10' hanging with a guy who looks to be '2' or '5'?
I don't don't mean to be rude but is it just me ladies? Or is the OP just a little shallow and arrogant.
I wonder why so many of his threads are all related to women and the fact that they are all at fault for something? It's ironic that every thread of his can actually be flipped/reversed to a MAN being at fault for practically the similiar situation he claims about the women? Hmmm....??? I believe perhaps he is intimated by us?
I can say this much about the OP,you were a millionaire, and even IF you WERE a 7, which you are NOT, (I would count down a few from 7), I would rather be homeless and hungry than spend even a moment with you. You're attitude and negativity is so toxic. You turn me off and I prefer a humble, happy man any day! Money does not buy happiness and all the money in the world would NEVER compensate for your personality. I couldn't even retain an expensive meal you could offer me without vomitting and the thought of sharing my bed with you would be out of the question!
I am an independant and non-materialistic woman and I bring my fair share to the table. I have no problem working with my man as a team to earn our living together. THAT is true love!
You should really work on changing you attitude. No one, male OR female likes to surround themselves with negativity and bitternes if they can avoid it, right??
I dated once a millionaire, I had no idea that he is rich, after few months of just walks and talks he told me... Soon everything went down the hill, I couldn't bare his "new" lifestyle, the artificial people, the rules... He didn't like it too but that was his life...We stayed friends for 10 years, he proposed to me many times, I refused each time...I changed my phone number and address to put a stop on it... I don't regret it...
KremaP: I dated once a millionaire, I had no idea that he is rich, after few months of just walks and talks he told me... Soon everything went down the hill, I couldn't bare his "new" lifestyle, the artificial people, the rules... He didn't like it too but that was his life...We stayed friends for 10 years, he proposed to me many times, I refused each time...I changed my phone number and address to put a stop on it... I don't regret it...
It's a hard life to adapt to when it's not who you are, or how you were raised. It's true, I can't say EVERY rich person is fake or that they are bad people because that is simply inaccurate. Plenty of rich people are great humanitariums and are genuinely great people but it's the greed, power, selfishness and inability to be grateful, that really has a bad affect on rich people. I can't stand any of those traits in a person and it amazes me that no matter how much a person has, it's just NEVER ENOUGH for them!
DDawson59: Ever see the gal that's a '10' hanging with a guy who looks to be '2' or '5'?
Yep, there's a few around...some may actually be in love and others are in it for the money. Just the thought of someone taking advantage of someone for financial gain makes me ill.
Some people are actually attracted to more than society's standards for physical beauty. In fact I'd say most people mature as they get past the age of 17 and evolve to realize that although physical attraction may cause you to notice someone, it doesn't keep you together.
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