Dumping the relationship (98)
Is it in relation to the woman mentioned in your blog? 
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Hey Solamente,
Great blog(s) of yours, enjoyed reading them and spot on with it all.
Great blog(s) of yours, enjoyed reading them and spot on with it all.
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KNenagh: Is it in relation to the woman mentioned in your blog?
No, this is not in relation to my blog (which was fictious by the way), Ending a relationship is my theme of the week!
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YouCanCallMeAL: Hey Solamente,
Great blog(s) of yours, enjoyed reading them and spot on with it all.
Great blog(s) of yours, enjoyed reading them and spot on with it all.
Thank you for the compliment, pleased you enjoy what I write.
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
Ending a relationship will always leave a shadow of hurt. I doubt if there is a way to do it without the pain. It is unavoidable. Most people don't like hurting others, thus choosing to do it via whatsapp.
Having said that I think face to face is the right thing to do. She may be hurt and detest you at first but in the end respect lasts longer...
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Solamente: No, this is not in relation to my blog (which was fictious by the way), Ending a relationship is my theme of the week!
A good theme,, but as it is fiction, it can never be real.
Dumping the relationship, the person concerned could be the one in the best position to know how to.
For a long term relationship, that would be somewhat painful as it may seem and not easy, but when it's just a passing or a new one,, i think it's not really a problem, both sides understand, though dumping is a term not so adequate in a human relation, ending might be less painful but it's your choice of expression.
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
if a woman dump me believe or not I just walk away like the one I had about 2 years ago she said don't want to see you no more
she hasn't see me up today/I had an encounter with her daughter
she said I'll tell mom that I saw you and that was all
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DertyHarry44: if a woman dump me believe or not I just walk away like the one I had about 2 years ago she said don't want to see you no more
she hasn't see me up today/I had an encounter with her daughter
she said I'll tell mom that I saw you and that was all
she hasn't see me up today/I had an encounter with her daughter
she said I'll tell mom that I saw you and that was all
Yes,, if we are thrown away, what is there left to do, partings are always a sad thing in reality,, depending though how long the relationship lasts,, though there's no choice left but to live with it, and uplift your pride and move forward.
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Babettefr: Yes,, if we are thrown away, what is there left to do, partings are always a sad thing in reality,, depending though how long the relationship lasts,, though there's no choice left but to live with it, and uplift your pride and move forward.
Babettefr
and what an irony our break up was coz her daughter/she didn't want me around after all
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
IMO Just shrug it off and move on - Life is too short
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DertyHarry44: Babettefr
and what an irony our break up was coz her daughter/she didn't want me around after all
and what an irony our break up was coz her daughter/she didn't want me around after all
DH,,as i get it, the daughter now is no longer in competition with her mom's attention, she can have her mom alone, you're no longer around, so she could that be ironic or shall we say, diplomatic towards you,, she won after all ,,possesiveness & jealousy , this happens often to man or woman with kids.
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let your sister call to say you're dead?
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I moved
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
I don't really like the word Dumping.
But I would think it best to tell someone 'Face to Face'.
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
Face to face is the most respectful way to end a relationship.
Anything other method is cowardly imo.
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BerrySmoothie: Face to face is the most respectful way to end a relationship.
Anything other method is cowardly imo.
Anything other method is cowardly imo.
I agree. I moved after the face to face. He wasn't wearing his ears. I was moving anyway. I just did not tell him. As in my eyes (the ones that mattered at the time) he was no longer part of my life.
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BerrySmoothie: Face to face is the most respectful way to end a relationship.
Anything other method is cowardly imo.
Anything other method is cowardly imo.
Well said...if one cannot confront the reasons why you are wishing to terminate a relationship then by running away and hiding behind another method is just that cowardly....
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
Be so needy and cloying that she cannot help losing interest in you and your relationship dies in the cold. Don't pull away, push on, push on to Moscow.
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Hi Felix and Stedan
Other than being respectful, it gives one a sense of closure: that it really is over. It may be the more painful way, at the time, but it's the kindest in the long run.
Other than being respectful, it gives one a sense of closure: that it really is over. It may be the more painful way, at the time, but it's the kindest in the long run.
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Obstinance_Works: Be so needy and cloying that she cannot help losing interest in you and your relationship dies in the cold. Don't pull away, push on, push on to Moscow.
Self-saboutage. Duplicitous as it sounds it is surprisingly painless. Quash every last shred of affection and desire she had for you before you split up and she will not be losing any sleep after she's gone.
Better this than the behaving like a complete arsehole in an ill-fated attempt to deliberately get dumped. Doing this destroys a woman's confidence, so don't do it.
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Face to face is the most respectful way to end a relationship. Anything other method is cowardly imo.[/quote]
Yes - In theory maybe but there is another view.
The discretion of complete silence is not cowardice.
IMO - It is often the best way to avoid any argument.
Yes - In theory maybe but there is another view.
The discretion of complete silence is not cowardice.
IMO - It is often the best way to avoid any argument.
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MikeD12: Face to face is the most respectful way to end a relationship. Anything other method is cowardly imo.
Yes - In theory maybe but there is another view.
The discretion of complete silence is not cowardice.
IMO - It is often the best way to avoid any argument.
Yes - In theory maybe but there is another view.
The discretion of complete silence is not cowardice.
IMO - It is often the best way to avoid any argument.
Nope. It's a cop-out in my view.
...speaking from my own experiences.
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MikeD12: Face to face is the most respectful way to end a relationship. Anything other method is cowardly imo.
Yes - In theory maybe but there is another view.
The discretion of complete silence is not cowardice.
IMO - It is often the best way to avoid any argument.
Yes - In theory maybe but there is another view.
The discretion of complete silence is not cowardice.
IMO - It is often the best way to avoid any argument.
Breaking up with someone by phone,text etc to me is a cowardly stuff to do.
If breaking up with someone causes an argument then so be it.I would just say my piece,walk a way and leave them staying there talking to themselves.
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
In the end honesty is the best policy..no beating around the bush
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I think I found a fairly unorthodox way. So far, so good. Watch this space 
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Elegsabiff: I think I found a fairly unorthodox way. So far, so good. Watch this space
Still waiting Legs.
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2intrigued: Still waiting Legs.
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YouMeUs: I think you found her fairly unorthodoxed way.
Which is? It's gone over my head...blonde moment perhaps.
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Solamente: What is the least painful (easiest) way of dumping a relationship?
Just tell them you're not happy in the realtionship, or you're interested in seeing other people, or you don't see a future together you'd enjoy.
Just tell them whatever's up for you, without blaming them or accusing them of stuff.
It's enough for people to with the rejection, and the loss they don't need to be trying to cope with a bunch reasons why we think they're not good enough to be with.
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