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Oct 7, 2015 11:27 PM CSTMen Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts

Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?(Vote Below)

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A widow
27
59%
A spinster
19
41%
Total Votes
46
Men if you're a single or a widower and will marry soon, which kind of woman you prefer?
and why?

or if you have any experince share pls.. thanks. :)

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* A widow is a woman whose spouse has died, while a widower is a man in that situation. The state of having lost one's spouse to death is termed widowhood. These terms are not applied to a person after he or she becomes divorced from their former spouse, though they may sometimes be used after the former spouse has died.

* A spinster is an unmarried woman who is past the usual age for marrying and is considered unlikely to marry. An 18-year-old single woman would not be considered a spinster in contemporary language, but a single, 40-year-old woman may be considered a spinster.
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Oct 8, 2015 12:41 AM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Spinster for sure. Especially if she wears glasses, works at the library, knits, and wears short skirts.
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Oct 8, 2015 3:01 AM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Men if you're a single or a widower and will marry soon, which kind of woman you prefer?
and why? or if you have any experince share pls.. thanks. :)


There are positives and negatives to all states that a person may be in, or find themselves being in.

Spinster (over 30)
Positives? Single, maybe wanting a relationship, maybe self-sufficient
Negatives? Maybe set in her ways, maybe selfish, maybe not able to relate and share?

Widow (over 30)
Positives? Knows what is involved in a relationship, maybe just wants friendship, maybe self-sufficient, maybe family orientated
Negatives? Maybe Kids (lots of them), maybe debts, maybe hurt and broken from the marriage?

I really think that "Divorced" should have been an option as well.

Divorced (over 30)
Positives? Knows what she doesn't want in her next partner, maybe just want friendship, maybe has grown from the experience, maybe is settled
Negatives? Maybe debts, maybe family pressures, maybe baggage from the divorce?

I understand that religion frowns on divorce, and I can understand that from a certain perspective, but it is unfair for the person abandoned by their partner to be denied another relationship through no fault of their own.

There is no definitive, to your poll.

It really depends if the person is stable, or a psycho, if they have a mental illness (thus never married) or still trying to cope with the grief and loss of their partner.

There are many reasons that one finds oneself in a certain situation. I think that for me my preference is for those women who try to better their attitude, and grow through their experience of life, who persevere and don't give up, who see the good things around them.

I think that those qualities are more important than if a person has never married, is divorced, or is a widow.

Cheers.
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Oct 8, 2015 3:18 AM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Dear god, a lot of women will have to kill their Ex to qualify for this lucky lotterylaugh
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Oct 8, 2015 3:24 AM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
I don't care which, just as long as she's a good cook, got a good SoH, healthy, is empathetic towards my interests and understands my SoH wink bouquet
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Oct 8, 2015 4:28 AM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Sorry but spinster is a horrible, outdated word. Not pc anymore. Single is just fine and nothing wrong with being single and over 60 even, imo!
grin
I don't want to be chosen either thanks! Just fine as I am.
I'll just sit back and see how many get 'chosen' (tee hee)
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Oct 8, 2015 8:19 AM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Men if you're a single or a widower and will marry soon, which kind of woman you prefer?
and why?

or if you have any experince share pls.. thanks. :)

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* A widow is a woman whose spouse has died, while a widower is a man in that situation. The state of having lost one's spouse to death is termed widowhood. These terms are not applied to a person after he or she becomes divorced from their former spouse, though they may sometimes be used after the former spouse has died.



* A spinster is an unmarried woman who is past the usual age for marrying and is considered unlikely to marry. An 18-year-old single woman would not be considered a spinster in contemporary language, but a single, 40-year-old woman may be considered a spinster.


I would have to go for the widow, chances are, he late husband left her a nice " nest egg"wow professor rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 8, 2015 12:01 PM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
did she kill her late husband?
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Oct 8, 2015 12:05 PM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
Who cares the past is past it's about who you are

handshake thumbs up
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Oct 8, 2015 12:06 PM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada57 Threads 1,839 Posts
mollybaby: Dear god, a lot of women will have to kill their Ex to qualify for this lucky lottery


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Or their present (who will then be an -ex)
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Oct 8, 2015 2:06 PM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?



The one I like.
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Oct 8, 2015 2:27 PM CST Men Please Answer this : Women after 30 years old, which one is better?
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
Len05: did she kill her late husband?


Excellent question.
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