Ive been messaging then skyping a guy for a while, last weekend was the big one, the first meet. LDR, so he would be staying in my house, there would be sex. I like him, Im looking forward to this. Obviously.
So this guy shuffles through Customs and up to me and Im who the hell are YOU. This is a stranger. Shorter than I expected. Little pot belly. Theres no click, but hes already got his tongue down my throat and theres a microphone in his pocket.
girlonaswingOPReading, Berkshire, England UK17 posts
uptall: How could this be when you've been skyping him? You've obviously seen him!! Give me your Skype address and let's see if we can make up for your disappointment
On skype you are sitting down
Now I know I would make you stand up, turn round, walk around.
mollybaby: Bite on his tongue, and turn off his microphone.
Molly, I love you. Just sayin'
Girl, yup, always a shock when you see the guy for the first time, all the skype in the world can't prepare you. I've had one LDR, seeing him at the airport was like seeing an old friend after a 10 year gap, a few seconds to download the new image and overwrite the old.
Enough of a jolt, though, realising I don't know this person at all, to make me realize I will NEVER risk doing that again!
girlonaswingOPReading, Berkshire, England UK17 posts
serene56: No way!
It's simply a moving picture rather than a static one.
Reality doesn't kick in until you can touch, taste and feel and that can be sensational or irrevocably disappointing
Co-habitation is another thing, that's often when the truth comes out lol.
At least with skype you have a better idea and you know the person is real not a scammer much younger or older than you thought, that sort of thing. The reality was a shock but. Could of been bad news
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So this guy shuffles through Customs and up to me and Im who the hell are YOU. This is a stranger. Shorter than I expected. Little pot belly. Theres no click, but hes already got his tongue down my throat and theres a microphone in his pocket.
What would you do?