LDR question ( Archived) (25)

Oct 17, 2015 7:38 AM CSTLDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England, UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts

LDR question(Vote Below)

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couldn't go through with it
11
48%
grin and bear it
5
22%
find it an unexpected turnon
7
30%
Total Votes
23
Ive been messaging then skyping a guy for a while, last weekend was the big one, the first meet. LDR, so he would be staying in my house, there would be sex. I like him, Im looking forward to this. Obviously.

So this guy shuffles through Customs and up to me and Im who the hell are YOU. This is a stranger. Shorter than I expected. Little pot belly. Theres no click, but hes already got his tongue down my throat and theres a microphone in his pocket.

What would you do?
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Oct 17, 2015 7:47 AM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
I knew I liked him remember. I would never have looked at him twice if we had met the usual way.

Turns out it was a giant kick to get into bed with a strange man like a half hour after meeting him, never done that before.

After that everything was good. Cyber friend turned into real lover. Hes back next month. yay
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Oct 17, 2015 7:47 AM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
mollybaby: Bite on his tongue, and turn off his microphone.


rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Oct 17, 2015 7:49 AM CST LDR question
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
girlonaswing: I knew I liked him remember. I would never have looked at him twice if we had met the usual way.

Turns out it was a giant kick to get into bed with a strange man like a half hour after meeting him, never done that before.

After that everything was good. Cyber friend turned into real lover. Hes back next month.



Everybody's boat gets rocked a different way!laugh
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Oct 17, 2015 7:49 AM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
uptall: How could this be when you've been skyping him? You've obviously seen him!! Give me your Skype address and let's see if we can make up for your disappointment


On skype you are sitting down rolling on the floor laughing

Now I know I would make you stand up, turn round, walk around. heart beating
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Oct 17, 2015 7:52 AM CST LDR question
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
girlonaswing: On skype you are sitting down

Now I know I would make you stand up, turn round, walk around.



I didn't know sitting down was a requirement for Skype. I must have been doing it wrong!!giggle
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Oct 17, 2015 7:53 AM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
mollybaby: Everybody's boat gets rocked a different way!


But not ever doing that again laugh hes a good guy. I just took what I could see and added what I wanted to see. grin
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Oct 17, 2015 7:54 AM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
uptall: I didn't know sitting down was a requirement for Skype. I must have been doing it wrong!!


what do you do on skype? wow and dont say you will show me. Tell me first!
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Oct 17, 2015 7:56 AM CST LDR question
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
girlonaswing: what do you do on skype? and dont say you will show me. Tell me first!



scold No, that will take all the surprise out of itwink
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Oct 17, 2015 8:01 AM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
uptall: No, that will take all the surprise out of it


Enough surprises already.

Anyway, think Im sorted now rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 17, 2015 1:16 PM CST LDR question
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
mollybaby: Bite on his tongue, and turn off his microphone.


Molly, I love you. Just sayin'

Girl, yup, always a shock when you see the guy for the first time, all the skype in the world can't prepare you. I've had one LDR, seeing him at the airport was like seeing an old friend after a 10 year gap, a few seconds to download the new image and overwrite the old.

Enough of a jolt, though, realising I don't know this person at all, to make me realize I will NEVER risk doing that again! rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 17, 2015 1:21 PM CST LDR question
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Skype is pretty much the same as sittinG accross from someone ??..should give You an idea of whether you're compatible or not dunno
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Oct 17, 2015 2:44 PM CST LDR question
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
uptall: No, that will take all the surprise out of it


Do Little surprises really count though laugh
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Oct 17, 2015 2:46 PM CST LDR question
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
WittyandWise: Do Little surprises really count though


Should be good for a laugh at a minimum. laugh

wave
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Oct 17, 2015 2:49 PM CST LDR question
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
kidatheart: Should be good for a laugh at a minimum.


Hi Kid, wave are you talking from experience writing
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Oct 17, 2015 2:50 PM CST LDR question
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Your profile says you design leather swings for adults.

Did you get that idea from 50 Shades ?
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Oct 17, 2015 3:04 PM CST LDR question
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
WittyandWise: Hi Kid, are you talking from experience


Ummmm...innocent
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Oct 21, 2015 12:47 AM CST LDR question
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
serena123: Skype is pretty much the same as sittinG accross from someone ??..should give You an idea of whether you're compatible or not



No way!

It's simply a moving picture rather than a static one.

Reality doesn't kick in until you can touch, taste and feel and that can be sensational or irrevocably disappointing conversing

Co-habitation is another thing, that's often when the truth comes out lol.
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Oct 21, 2015 12:59 AM CST LDR question
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
serene56: No way!

It's simply a moving picture rather than a static one.

Reality doesn't kick in until you can touch, taste and feel and that can be sensational or irrevocably disappointing

Co-habitation is another thing, that's often when the truth comes out lol.


Wallpaper a small odd shape bathroom together.. wink

wine
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Oct 21, 2015 1:03 AM CST LDR question
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
bohemianjack: Wallpaper a small odd shape bathroom together..



Pass tongue
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Oct 21, 2015 1:06 AM CST LDR question
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 22, 2015 5:06 AM CST LDR question
Solamente
SolamenteSolamenteAdeje, Tenerife, Canary Islands Spain28 Threads 21 Polls 215 Posts
girlonaswing: I knew I liked him remember. I would never have looked at him twice if we had met the usual way.

Turns out it was a giant kick to get into bed with a strange man like a half hour after meeting him, never done that before.

After that everything was good. Cyber friend turned into real lover. Hes back next month.


Pleased it worked out for you.
Have you tried him in one of your swings yet?
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Oct 23, 2015 2:10 PM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
secretagent09: Your profile says you design leather swings for adults.

Did you get that idea from 50 Shades ?


No and she didnt get the idea from me theyve been around a long time!

50 shades and the new interest helps sales for sure.
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Oct 23, 2015 2:15 PM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
serene56: No way!

It's simply a moving picture rather than a static one.

Reality doesn't kick in until you can touch, taste and feel and that can be sensational or irrevocably disappointing

Co-habitation is another thing, that's often when the truth comes out lol.


At least with skype you have a better idea and you know the person is real not a scammer much younger or older than you thought, that sort of thing. The reality was a shock but. Could of been bad news wow
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Oct 23, 2015 2:16 PM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
bohemianjack: Wallpaper a small odd shape bathroom together..


Thats like stage 10 of a relationship when you can do that your good for gold rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 23, 2015 2:17 PM CST LDR question
girlonaswing
girlonaswinggirlonaswingReading, Berkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 17 Posts
Solamente: Pleased it worked out for you.
Have you tried him in one of your swings yet?


Funny men say thats the first thing they want to try. Just being polite, I guess, showing an interst in my work. rolling on the floor laughing
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