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Oct 18, 2015 8:00 AM CSTwhat will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Giacomino
GiacominoGiacominoSpanga, Stockholm, Sweden8 Threads 7 Polls 9 Posts

what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?(Vote Below)

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tell the truth to your friend
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let her know that you can not do it
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i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
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Oct 18, 2015 10:09 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Stay away from that onewink
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Oct 18, 2015 10:14 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Freshkidbob
FreshkidbobFreshkidbobMálaga, Andalusia Spain21 Posts
woodenjc: a brilliant initiative

Why thank you kind ladyhandshake
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Oct 18, 2015 10:16 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
Freshkidbob: Why thank you kind lady


it is ok Fresh, your reply make me laugh grin wave
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Oct 18, 2015 10:22 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.


it quite complicated ..., I think i agree Pedal reply, just avoid that girl, and also give a warning to your friend abt his not good girl when you think it is a suitable time !!!
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Oct 18, 2015 10:27 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
grin u are sense of humourgrin
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Oct 18, 2015 10:29 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Freshkidbob: I don´t ignore the signals, which is why my vision is impaired.

yep, curly hair,blisters,eye sight not what it used to be ...uh oh
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Oct 18, 2015 11:23 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
I'd say - hoy you, stop that. It's a no go!!scold
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Oct 18, 2015 11:37 AM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.


If she can mess him around, she could do the same to you.. So yes, stay away.. And tell him..
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Oct 18, 2015 12:25 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
what can you do?
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Oct 18, 2015 12:39 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.




You ARE betraying him but not telling him what she is doing.

Turn it around and ask yourself if you would want him to tell you that your girlfriend was hitting on him.
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Oct 18, 2015 12:51 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada57 Threads 1,839 Posts
Well, ain't she the "player"! rolling on the floor laughing So? If the going get's tough and involves your friend you would consider running away? Look, the woman in my life IS my friend,....and I have other friends,....and friends are just as important (almost) as family? I hate to be crass,...but just by stating that this is a dilemma to you suggests you are thinking about crawling into bed with her.....or am I wrong? If not,...then your path is clear!
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Oct 18, 2015 1:14 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
This has been my observation since high school, and I am nearing 60: After I settled in suburban Portland, and began working in my profession, I met a lady and we hit it off, very much so. Now, I had not been particularly popular, but did have a few friends. My romantic life had been sketchy, almost non-existent. Many good looking women around Beaverton and Hillsboro knew me and liked me, but that was where it ended. Well let me tell you - once it got around that I had fallen in love with this gal, (and she was quite nice, and for the first time in my life I felt a part of it all and I loved her dearly, too,) I couldn't keep ladies OFF me. I am not kidding. The interest was so keen it caused a few problems with my relationship. I was never so popular as when I became unavailable. Women are intensely competitive; they want what they shouldn't want and what it seems like they can't have. Many lives have been shattered by this. This is not something I "think"; this is a fact I have experienced and observed.
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Oct 18, 2015 1:14 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If he's any kind of a friend at all the guy should tell his friend that his girlfriend is hitting on him.
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Oct 18, 2015 1:20 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Freshkidbob
FreshkidbobFreshkidbobMálaga, Andalusia Spain21 Posts
rohaan: This has been my observation since high school, and I am nearing 60: After I settled in suburban Portland, and began working in my profession, I met a lady and we hit it off, very much so. Now, I had not been particularly popular, but did have a few friends. My romantic life had been sketchy, almost non-existent. Many good looking women around Beaverton and Hillsboro knew me and liked me, but that was where it ended. Well let me tell you - once it got around that I had fallen in love with this gal, (and she was quite nice, and for the first time in my life I felt a part of it all and I loved her dearly, too,) I couldn't keep ladies OFF me. I am not kidding. The interest was so keen it caused a few problems with my relationship. I was never so popular as when I became unavailable. Women are intensely competitive; they want what they shouldn't want and what it seems like they can't have. Many lives have been shattered by this. This is not something I "think"; this is a fact I have experienced and observed.

So at what point did it all go downhill for you?laugh
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Oct 18, 2015 1:25 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Was she actually hitting on him or just being honest?

It reminds me of a scene from Love Actually where the best friend was in love with the girl. She found out, but neither wanted to do anything about it. It just was.
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Oct 18, 2015 1:33 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Freshkidbob: You remind me of Jackie Collins
Is that good? Please tell me what this is about--(so far I like you, so don't booger it up...wink )
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Oct 18, 2015 1:34 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada57 Threads 1,839 Posts
mollybaby: Was she actually hitting on him or just being honest?

It reminds me of a scene from Love Actually where the best friend was in love with the girl. She found out, but neither wanted to do anything about it. It just was.


Ifshe is being honest wit him she should be honest with the other...
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Oct 18, 2015 1:38 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Da_Moose: Ifshe is being honest wit him she should be honest with the other...
Surely you jest. If she is cornered, she will LIE. There is no fixing a problem when any of the parties are game-playing, and she is already doing that by vexing and hexing someone else's boyfriend.
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Oct 18, 2015 1:42 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Da_Moose: Ifshe is being honest wit him she should be honest with the other...


Maybe she knows it's just a phase, and she will grow out of it. And doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend




(just being the devil's advocate here)
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Oct 18, 2015 1:45 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.


If you were a good friend, you will tell your mate & it's his choice what to do with the situation, then you won't jeopardise your friendship .
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Oct 18, 2015 1:45 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Freshkidbob
FreshkidbobFreshkidbobMálaga, Andalusia Spain21 Posts
rohaan: Is that anything like the groom and the father-in-law having a thing for each other? (someday there'll be a movie about this. I just know it!)

No coz Joan´s a woman and I´m a man
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Oct 18, 2015 1:46 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
mollybaby: Maybe she knows it's just a phase, and she will grow out of it. And doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend

(just being the devil's advocate here)
thumbs up better to err on this side rather than rake up a firestorm. JMO
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Oct 18, 2015 1:48 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada57 Threads 1,839 Posts
rohaan: Surely you jest. If she is cornered, she will LIE. There is no fixing a problem when any of the parties are game-playing, and she is already doing that by vexing and hexing someone else's boyfriend.


Of course I jest! The OP should KNOW the answer,....unless he too wishes to "play"
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Oct 18, 2015 1:48 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Freshkidbob: No coz Joan´s a woman and I´m a man
I guess you're right, but it gave me a tiny little spark to write it all out. I gets some fun when I can...
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Oct 18, 2015 1:50 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
allthegoodnamest: If you were a good friend, you will tell your mate & it's his choice what to do with the situation, then you won't jeopardise your friendship .
sorry but i dont love you no more......because your daughter loves me more....sorry.....moping moping moping giggle giggle giggle
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Oct 18, 2015 1:53 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada57 Threads 1,839 Posts
mollybaby: Maybe she knows it's just a phase, and she will grow out of it. And doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend

(just being the devil's advocate here)


A phase? Nah,...she's being a player and she should either be tossed to the curb,...or,...walk off into the sunset with the other player (if that is what the OP wants to be,....but if I remember correctly,...he says he has been down this road many times before,...so....what did he do in the previous realms? rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 18, 2015 1:55 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
truheart1941: sorry but i dont love you no more......because your daughter loves me more....sorry.....


Hey, what happened to " bros before ho" ... Errrr , I mean, my daughter. rolling on the floor laughing doh
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Oct 18, 2015 1:56 PM CST what will you do as a guy if your friend's girl friend is badly in love with you?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.


How many times has this happened to you?
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