i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
it quite complicated ..., I think i agree Pedal reply, just avoid that girl, and also give a warning to your friend abt his not good girl when you think it is a suitable time !!!
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
If she can mess him around, she could do the same to you.. So yes, stay away.. And tell him..
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
You ARE betraying him but not telling him what she is doing.
Turn it around and ask yourself if you would want him to tell you that your girlfriend was hitting on him.
Well, ain't she the "player"! So? If the going get's tough and involves your friend you would consider running away? Look, the woman in my life IS my friend,....and I have other friends,....and friends are just as important (almost) as family? I hate to be crass,...but just by stating that this is a dilemma to you suggests you are thinking about crawling into bed with her.....or am I wrong? If not,...then your path is clear!
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
This has been my observation since high school, and I am nearing 60: After I settled in suburban Portland, and began working in my profession, I met a lady and we hit it off, very much so. Now, I had not been particularly popular, but did have a few friends. My romantic life had been sketchy, almost non-existent. Many good looking women around Beaverton and Hillsboro knew me and liked me, but that was where it ended. Well let me tell you - once it got around that I had fallen in love with this gal, (and she was quite nice, and for the first time in my life I felt a part of it all and I loved her dearly, too,) I couldn't keep ladies OFF me. I am not kidding. The interest was so keen it caused a few problems with my relationship. I was never so popular as when I became unavailable. Women are intensely competitive; they want what they shouldn't want and what it seems like they can't have. Many lives have been shattered by this. This is not something I "think"; this is a fact I have experienced and observed.
rohaan: This has been my observation since high school, and I am nearing 60: After I settled in suburban Portland, and began working in my profession, I met a lady and we hit it off, very much so. Now, I had not been particularly popular, but did have a few friends. My romantic life had been sketchy, almost non-existent. Many good looking women around Beaverton and Hillsboro knew me and liked me, but that was where it ended. Well let me tell you - once it got around that I had fallen in love with this gal, (and she was quite nice, and for the first time in my life I felt a part of it all and I loved her dearly, too,) I couldn't keep ladies OFF me. I am not kidding. The interest was so keen it caused a few problems with my relationship. I was never so popular as when I became unavailable. Women are intensely competitive; they want what they shouldn't want and what it seems like they can't have. Many lives have been shattered by this. This is not something I "think"; this is a fact I have experienced and observed.
Was she actually hitting on him or just being honest?
It reminds me of a scene from Love Actually where the best friend was in love with the girl. She found out, but neither wanted to do anything about it. It just was.
mollybaby: Was she actually hitting on him or just being honest?
It reminds me of a scene from Love Actually where the best friend was in love with the girl. She found out, but neither wanted to do anything about it. It just was.
Ifshe is being honest wit him she should be honest with the other...
Da_Moose: Ifshe is being honest wit him she should be honest with the other...
Surely you jest. If she is cornered, she will LIE. There is no fixing a problem when any of the parties are game-playing, and she is already doing that by vexing and hexing someone else's boyfriend.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
If you were a good friend, you will tell your mate & it's his choice what to do with the situation, then you won't jeopardise your friendship .
rohaan: Surely you jest. If she is cornered, she will LIE. There is no fixing a problem when any of the parties are game-playing, and she is already doing that by vexing and hexing someone else's boyfriend.
Of course I jest! The OP should KNOW the answer,....unless he too wishes to "play"
allthegoodnamest: If you were a good friend, you will tell your mate & it's his choice what to do with the situation, then you won't jeopardise your friendship .
sorry but i dont love you no more......because your daughter loves me more....sorry.....
mollybaby: Maybe she knows it's just a phase, and she will grow out of it. And doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend
(just being the devil's advocate here)
A phase? Nah,...she's being a player and she should either be tossed to the curb,...or,...walk off into the sunset with the other player (if that is what the OP wants to be,....but if I remember correctly,...he says he has been down this road many times before,...so....what did he do in the previous realms?
Giacomino: i have had this incident many times, any time i am around with my friend his girl friend always give me different love signs and i just keep ignoring it thinking that she was joking not until she open her mouth to tell me that she is badly in love with me and i can not betray my friend nor do what will hurt him no matter what and this girl keep pestling me and worst of all my friend love this girl so bad. i can off confuse whether to let my friend know about it or just run away.
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