What would somebody do if their spouse or loving partner gets ill after having a joyful life before

Be committed to the end.
38
73%
Seek professional help.
2
4%
Have affairs to satisfy your needs.
0
0%
Lie to other women/men to seduce them.
1
2%
Let God guide you to do the right thing.
3
6%
Forget about morals and get a divorce/leave.
1
2%
Engage with each other to understand limits.
3
6%
Encounter a third person in the relationship.
0
0%
Marriage is a Holly thing.
1
2%
Have patience to see what future holds.
3
6%
Total Votes
52
There are a lot of marriages out there that live together but are not having intimacy due to health issues. What really happens out of the home or in the home is important to manage and this poll is to see what people think and would do.

Comments (26)

Johnny5IA
When my spouse is ill I just make her wear warm clothes when she takes the rubbish out

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mollybaby
Health or being on medication may affect performance.
But there is often something that can be done if professional help is sought.
If is unfair on the partner, if the person with the problem refuses to get help even when it is available.
It is depriving them both of a sex life, which isn't a loving thing to do.

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southmiami4321

There are some marriages that lose their communication when this happens and get bitter with each other. It is very important that each other knows their love language to dissipate all these negative feelings. Showing love in their way can help these couples.As you said when the ill one doesn't want help it makes the other one very frustrated.
Intimacy is important in a relationship and just the touch is a warm feeling of love.

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serena123
I'd just deal with it.. Be there for them (that's what real love is all about)!hug

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Ocee102
I don't know what I'd do.

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allthegoodnamest
I'd do the most logical thing & take her to see a doctor.dunno

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truheart1941
.....shoot em.....put em out their suffering....professor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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truheart1941
why do that....it didnt do you much good didit.....professor rolling on the floor laughing

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allthegoodnamest


No, but I've been referred to a specialist sheep transport playball crazy laugh

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truheart1941
...who......MOLLY.......your fe/ doomed mate tell yer.grin laugh

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allthegoodnamest


I may give it a go.. Is she cheapdunno rolling on the floor laughing

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truheart1941
i dont know.....dunno must be resonable...theres always a long queue outside her door....so i,ve heard.grin

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allthegoodnamest


She must have two jobs.. Why else would she have a picture advertisement with a whip in her hand.dunno laugh

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tomcatwarne
She's very versatile, so I heargrin

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truheart1941
thats because ,she trains,,,bare back rider,s...grin

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allthegoodnamest


That sounds painful.. Not something I would attemptdoh laugh

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truheart1941
she trained TOM alright.....he must be thick skinneddunno rolling on the floor laughing

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southmiami4321
Thanks for the funny stuff written here but what would you comment to give folks out there some insight?

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Purini



Awesome sense of humour ??

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pat8lanips
I'd either leave or kick her out. I dont have the time or patience for that rubbish.

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truheart1941
an insight for people who may face this situation....after2/3 days...have a friend dress up as a vicar....sit by her bed..reading her...her last rites.....this is a wonderful way...of making her feel better...by next morning...having her tapping you on the shoulder to wake you....with a nice cup of tea....professor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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A joyful life before.
Means i'll stand by my partner,intimacy or NO intimacy.
JMO

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truheart1941
liar liar liar pointing grin

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Or. i'll ask permission for a "day or night stand",
or both.
grin

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rizlared


Why would a small table be useful in this situation?

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truheart1941
to put the bowl on...when she washes up the dishes.....its obviouse your still single......doh grin grin

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