Well... The last time for me, I had "looking to date but nothing serious" and she had "looking for serious long term only"... I think the reality was much closer to the opposite for both of us. Opened my eyes how I could kid myself without realising it like that.
pat8lanips: Well... The last time for me, I had "looking to date but nothing serious" and she had "looking for serious long term only"... I think the reality was much closer to the opposite for both of us. Opened my eyes how I could kid myself without realising it like that.
Fascinating when you see people drifting together here, to look up their relevant profiles *stalker alert* especially when one or both have an established history directly opposite to their profiles!
We're a funny lot when we start kidding ourselves.
pat8lanips: Well... The last time for me, I had "looking to date but nothing serious" and she had "looking for serious long term only"... I think the reality was much closer to the opposite for both of us. Opened my eyes how I could kid myself without realising it like that.
Maybe it takes a while for us to figure out what we want.
And sometimes, it just depends on the person we meet.
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