Is Sex Important in a relationship?

YES!
93
52%
NO!
5
3%
VERY MUCH!
19
11%
NOT SO MUCH!
5
3%
DEPENDS!
16
9%
IT'S ON THE COUPLE!
15
8%
NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT!
9
5%
THE MOST IMPORTANT!
7
4%
OTHER THINGS ARE MORE IMPORTANT!
10
6%
Total Votes
179
HOW MUCH IMPORTANT IS SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP?

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Comments (47)

uptall


It's important. But it's not everything!! If you go into a relationship just because of that, then you're doomed.. There's gotta be much more!!

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goldengloss
Sometimes if sex is really good, it can be negative in so much as, it can make couples hang in together when other things have died, like respect, and they've grown apart, or one has stopped really trying, so I think for s*xual people of course it is important. For those who are less physical, less s*xual, a loving, close relationship can be fulfilling. Each to their own.

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Cocheta
Communication
Mutual respect
Trust
Humour







Sex

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unlaoised
Very important in an otherwise bad relationship, not so much in a good one

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KNenagh
It is part of a relationship for me - a part I enjoy very much.

How important it is depends on the people involved - some place a higher importance on sex in their relationships than others. conversing

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uptall


I'll communicate mutual respect and trust your humour is good.. And then I'll sex you all over the housegiggle

How's that?batting

laugh

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Cocheta

Only you! laugh

sounds good kiss

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Well I know having a wank seems pretty important if you're not in a relationship.

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uptall


laugh humour is good for starting the engine hug


kiss

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TheRedSquirrel87


Extremely important. The relationship is on shaky ground when one or both don't want to have sex with the other. It's never just sex when a woman is involved.

Men are different. As horndogs sex is maybe more important in and of itself, but in a relationship? No. Two gay men would happily indulge in some emotionless dead relationship bumming as sex barely reflects on the relationship at all. It's just sex.

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Extremely important. The relationship is on shaky ground when one or both don't want to have sex with the other. It's never just sex when a woman is involved.

Men are different. As horndogs sex is maybe more important in and of itself, but in a relationship? No. Two gay men would happily indulge in some emotionless dead relationship bumming as sex barely reflects on the relationship at all. It's just sex.

Nah I dont think so. The one copping it would start whingeing about salad and curtains and shit like that, I would imagine.

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TheRedSquirrel87


If sex wasn't more important to a woman in a relationship then they wouldn't have such a problem with him f*ck other girls. Love is selfish and that's why women aren't laid back about sex outside the relationship and it is why sex means so much more in a relationship.

Divorce the connection between love and sex(like the gays)and commitment, fidelity and monogamy become meaningless; enjoying sex with someone does not imply love or affection - it's just a human body to be used.

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KremaP
Sex is just a physical need and therefore different people have different needs...
You don't have to love someone to have great sex with him/her...
But if one is in a relationship and their needs don't meet, well, a problem is guarantied...

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TheRedSquirrel87


The good news for civilisation and dignity is that straight men learn the value of love and commitment through women. We too don't want them playing away from home just as they don't want us shagging their sister.

Yet left to our own devices men wouldn't pair-bond. If women thought, felt and acted like men then the world would be an orgy.

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tomcatwarne
If two people are attracted t o each other there comes a time when normal arousal brings the shall we or shan't we question.

A man usually keeps trying until she says yes, so it's the woman who decides when.

Of course you can love someone without having sex a relative or friend.

But for others it's much more fun to do it.



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KremaP








For God's sake Tom, where do you dig these creepy images from... laugh hug

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TheRedSquirrel87


And if you observe you will find that the few gay men who are big on commitment are absolute mummy's boys. Even they've picked up the idea of commitment from a woman only not in a healthy way that will apply to them.

Gay marriage is a farce as it is nothing more than gays trying to impersonate straights. It isn't true to who they are, it's them pretending to be straight again. Gay marriage is the institutionalised living of a lie.

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allthegoodnamest


Personally , I don't really think or expect it until the electricity is unbearable.
If you overthink the situation, you can become nervous & "if the mind gets iffy, you can't get a stiffy"banana laugh

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tomcatwarne


From the very depths pf cyber space.



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KremaP








Daydreaming again, eh... please giggle

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tomcatwarne


Every time I fly over Sophia, at 36,000 ft I think of you looking up from the ground.



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Christianlatin

I´d say it is important yes or course since s*xual intercourse is about sharing about giving about having a communication soul-soul, body-body...more than just a s*xual intercourse. But it´s not vital. Many of us have survived without having sex no matter how strong our s*xual temper can be!
We could get along in s*xual terms and being not that compatible in some other point of views...so is not the most important thing!comfort That´s my humble opinion! handshake

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KremaP
You liar... roll eyes
Next time start thinking when near Varna, but I doubt the airplane to Cyprus flies anywhere near...because I do remember going above the Greek islands... grin

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tomcatwarne


Varna is a beautiful city, but to the left of the outgoing flight path, although the flight path from London does go over Sophia, from 36000 ft you migt just be able to see Varna.grin

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uptall


You come out with more pork pies than the average butchergiggle

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KremaP







I see, you've been to specsavers...






beer

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The simple answer is ....
By nature men and women,they've got to have sex, for continuation
of the human species.
Therefore,
Yes, sex is important.


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In straight flight line,from London to Cyprus,
doesn't go over Bulgaria at all,unless there is a stop over.

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rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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tomcatwarne


It certainly does google "flight path maps from london to cyprus" left hand flight map.

I fly there four times a yeargrin

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