Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life. ( Archived) (18)

Mar 2, 2016 4:26 AM CSTSocial Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts

Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.(Vote Below)

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Yes. It's dagerous
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67%
No. It's not dangerous
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33%
Total Votes
91
I found that it's not easy to have a relationship with somebody who still active on social media, such as facebook, whatsapp, etc.

We don't know with whom our man or woman always keep in touch on facebook messages, whatsapp.. etc

Especially for a marriage life. I think it's dagerous too..

any experienced people who successfully handle this problem.. can you please share in here please..

thanks
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Mar 2, 2016 4:29 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts
any respons please.. :)
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Mar 2, 2016 4:40 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Darkbrownskins: I found that it's not easy to have a relationship with somebody who still active on social media, such as facebook, whatsapp, etc.

We don't know with whom our man or woman always keep in touch on facebook messages, whatsapp.. etc

Especially for a marriage life. I think it's dagerous too..

any experienced people who successfully handle this problem.. can you please share in here please..

thanks


If the relationship is a good one and there is trust between the two parties, social media should not be an issue.
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Mar 2, 2016 4:47 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
It is in a relationship with me. Must she take a photograph of what we had for breakfast this morning and post it on facebook? the answer is not.

And every time she does this a little part of me forgets why I ever liked her and I don't believe it will ever remember.
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Mar 2, 2016 5:08 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I don't get this. confused

Methinks if someone wants to stray, they will. Social media or not.

Simply find someone with the same values as your own, someone that regards monogamy as an important part of your relationship.

Never had an issue with this and if I thought it could be an issue with someone, I would be so out of there. super
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Mar 2, 2016 5:46 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
SoulToSoul7
SoulToSoul7SoulToSoul7Sofiya, Sofia Province Bulgaria12 Posts
Hi!wave
I think that if someone is a liar, he is like this not only in social media, etc., he is the same in the real life too. But the most funny thing is that usually this kind of people get what they give :)
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Mar 2, 2016 6:43 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
KNenagh: I don't get this.

Methinks if someone wants to stray, they will. Social media or not.

Simply find someone with the same values as your own, someone that regards monogamy as an important part of your relationship.

Never had an issue with this and if I thought it could be an issue with someone, I would be so out of there.



social media makes it "easier" for straying and having an emotional affair.
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Mar 2, 2016 6:48 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Darkbrownskins: I found that it's not easy to have a relationship with somebody who still active on social media, such as facebook, whatsapp, etc.

We don't know with whom our man or woman always keep in touch on facebook messages, whatsapp.. etc

Especially for a marriage life. I think it's dagerous too..

any experienced people who successfully handle this problem.. can you please share in here please..

thanks
If you just dating someone,you have no control of what's going on and only affections your giving each day to each other can speak for itself but if people living together,it would be more than annoying to see partner giving more time to media or whatsapp than spending quality time with you.It's not media in question,it's partner mentality of addiction to media.It be best to communicate openly with person in questionwine
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Mar 2, 2016 6:52 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
purr4mance: social media makes it "easier" for straying and having an emotional affair.


Easier or not, straying is straying - there are people who are monogamous and not interested in straying of any kind, and that's the type of person I would want to be with.

I think it's easy enough (in most cases) to figure out who has rowing eyes or is into sleeping around.
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Mar 2, 2016 6:56 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Darkbrownskins: I found that it's not easy to have a relationship with somebody who still active on social media, such as facebook, whatsapp, etc.

We don't know with whom our man or woman always keep in touch on facebook messages, whatsapp.. etc

Especially for a marriage life. I think it's dagerous too..

any experienced people who successfully handle this problem.. can you please share in here please..

thanks
I don't think so , we can find love on social media ,it isn't harmful for relationship
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Mar 2, 2016 7:06 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Darkbrownskins: I found that it's not easy to have a relationship with somebody who still active on social media, such as facebook, whatsapp, etc.

We don't know with whom our man or woman always keep in touch on facebook messages, whatsapp.. etc

Especially for a marriage life. I think it's dagerous too..

any experienced people who successfully handle this problem.. can you please share in here please..

thanks
By the way,this addiction to media includes both gender,not just women ! I know men that couldn't last long with any dating because he took more priority to be 'popular' on CS forums,and eventually he was kicked out of CS to come back again under false ID and I bat he still doesn't have no women.laugh
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Mar 3, 2016 9:02 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
I blame Zuckerberg!
People never used to stray before FaceBook!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing devil
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Mar 3, 2016 1:01 PM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Jamie_
Jamie_Jamie_Morehead, Kentucky USA1 Threads 12 Posts
Dangerous? Not really, people have been cheating since before all these social media sites existed, and they will continue to do so.

If you can't trust your partner, maybe its time to end things and move on.
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Mar 3, 2016 6:52 PM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Hoplite
HopliteHopliteLyon, Rhone-Alpes France18 Posts
Well social media only ease to make people closer. It is not dangerous in itself no. It's on the person use of it. Your question look a bit insecure so may I tell you it's not necessary to use FB or snapchat to cheat on someone. If a man or a woman wants to cheat they will just end by doing it. The human free will, nothing can go against it.
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Mar 3, 2016 7:15 PM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Social media is rarely the problem, but it often reveals problems.
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Mar 4, 2016 2:51 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Why is it that some couples happily and openly share and view each other’s social media statuses, while others find this very difficult?
An earlier study by Elphinston & Noller (2011), which examined Facebook use by people in relationships, found that Facebook surveillance behaviour by either partner was related to relationship dissatisfaction.
Furthermore, Tokunaga (2011) noted that online surveillance strategies are more likely to be used by younger individuals, who may have been in shorter relationships. While it could be argued that Facebook surveillance may be used to get to know a new partner better, it can equally be possible that Facebook surveillance might provoke feelings of romantic jealousy.
There are definitely other factors to consider, which other CS member already observed on this subject...
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Mar 4, 2016 3:12 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
Social media is not the problem and my opinion is that Facebook, and Twitter are for people who use it to broadcast every trivial happening in their lives.
As they generate self seeking attention they can also generate and in some cases exacerbate their own problems.
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Mar 4, 2016 8:15 AM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Hoplite
HopliteHopliteLyon, Rhone-Alpes France18 Posts
The man or woman constantly search the best genitor and this uncounsiously, it's in every human if she or he has any doubt about the genes his kids could have with his/her partner, he or she will look for a better partner as long he or she has not find the perfect partner he/she will continue looking, but what we know is that perfection doesn't excist, so it's an endless quest.

Nowaday social medias are like a catalogue of possibility of partners so it means "genitors". It's only a trampoline to reach a goal but only one among the others...
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Mar 12, 2016 4:19 PM CST Social Media are dangerous for a relationship or marriage life.
Elizabeth6891
Elizabeth6891Elizabeth6891Naples, Campania Italy1 Posts
I totally agree..
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