Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating? ( Archived) (32)

Apr 28, 2016 9:15 PM CSTIs it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
nowuknowme
nowuknowmenowuknowmeSt. Paul, Minnesota, USA3 Threads 1 Polls 10 Posts

Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?(Vote Below)

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Most definately
22
31%
Yes
17
24%
Sometimes
16
23%
Not at all
9
13%
Unknown
6
9%
Total Votes
70
Please note that I did not say all men. handshake
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Apr 28, 2016 9:25 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
Woadan
WoadanWoadanPittsburg, Kansas USA6 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
I understand what your getting at but has anyone anywhere dated enough men online to even be close to "most" of them to be able to give an honest answer?comfort
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Apr 29, 2016 1:01 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
I'm not sure what you mean confused


In terms of getting into your pants, sure, they'll come on strong but most probably would be a no-show if a date was fixed.


As far as a budding relationship or getting-to-know you meet-up, the sooner the better I say.

Anyone can do endless emails and messages, get real and meet asap thumbs up
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Apr 29, 2016 1:11 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
nowuknowme: Please note that I did not say all men.


I don't rush anything.. wink

popcorn
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Apr 29, 2016 1:34 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Hi,

depends on the meaning intended so I,ll take it as men who wont to know you and have other intensions say scammers like over 300 on a few different forums / sites how many would I trust not a one 99% and then men posing as women quite a few ,

Most of their profiles seem to be at odds with in what they I doubt they do write then say one thing and then some thing different ,and they say little just a hello or hi then nothing and others straight in with you can email me no thanks had 8 this week , and if I do write a nice letter they ,its sorry I wont be here I have to go some........ yea right....

I,v written to some 10 people here as a friend would do and that's okay and if we need to write each other no issue

As for dating nothing comes of it so I'm off the hook waste of time really .

...noeleena...
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Apr 29, 2016 1:51 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Some real people needs more time to build up self confidence even just to come on Skype Web camera.
Patience can be fruitful or waist of time...
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Apr 30, 2016 11:11 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
lemonsieur
lemonsieurlemonsieursamos, North Aegean Greece3 Threads 1 Polls 76 Posts
nowuknowme: Please note that I did not say all men.
and i thought you women are trying to delay the inevitable to feel ok about your dads :D
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Apr 30, 2016 11:12 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
HotHail
HotHailHotHailTemperley, Buenos Aires Argentina47 Posts
lemonsieur: and i thought you women are trying to delay the inevitable to feel ok about your dads :D




???????
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Apr 30, 2016 11:15 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
lemonsieur
lemonsieurlemonsieursamos, North Aegean Greece3 Threads 1 Polls 76 Posts
HotHail: ???????

what? you didn't like my burn?
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Apr 30, 2016 11:16 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
HotHail
HotHailHotHailTemperley, Buenos Aires Argentina47 Posts
lemonsieur: what? you didn't like my burn?


When did i see it?
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Apr 30, 2016 11:17 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
HotHail
HotHailHotHailTemperley, Buenos Aires Argentina47 Posts
Was it hairy?
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Apr 30, 2016 11:18 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
lemonsieur
lemonsieurlemonsieursamos, North Aegean Greece3 Threads 1 Polls 76 Posts
HotHail: Was it hairy?

communication breakdown, ok nonetheless. :)
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Apr 30, 2016 11:20 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
HotHail
HotHailHotHailTemperley, Buenos Aires Argentina47 Posts
lemonsieur: communication breakdown, ok nonetheless. :)


Mayday mayday.
Houston we got us a langolier here.
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Apr 30, 2016 9:54 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
You have to rush, because chances are she's talking to 15 other men, and like so many things in life- first in best dressed.
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Apr 30, 2016 10:04 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
lemonsieur
lemonsieurlemonsieursamos, North Aegean Greece3 Threads 1 Polls 76 Posts
pat8lanips: You have to rush, because chances are she's talking to 15 other men, and like so many things in life- first in best dressed.


hahahaha AWSOME!!! and true! cheers
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Apr 30, 2016 11:54 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
pat8lanips: You have to rush, because chances are she's talking to 15 other men, and like so many things in life- first in best dressed.
rolling on the floor laughing Not necessarily best dressed but the most presentable as complete package person.
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Apr 30, 2016 11:58 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
lemonsieur
lemonsieurlemonsieursamos, North Aegean Greece3 Threads 1 Polls 76 Posts
123whisper: Not necessarily best dressed but the most presentable as complete package person.


good that you clarified this, now I know what to do when next door is burning. have my package presentable:) hahahahahahaha.
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Apr 30, 2016 11:59 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
123whisper: Not necessarily best dressed but the most presentable as complete package person.
...but if man comes in slippers like moccasins and bodgie clothing doh who is to blame for girl flying ...super rolling on the floor laughing
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May 1, 2016 12:06 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Obviously someone regardless can only rush online dating if they are encouraged to do so.

If you don't choose to rush into a online relationship then don't do it.

Simple. doh grin
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May 1, 2016 12:07 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Ccincy: Correction

Obviously someone regardless of gender can only rush online dating if they are encouraged to do so.

If you don't choose to rush into a online relationship then don't do it.

Simple.
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May 1, 2016 12:53 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
mickyj777
mickyj777mickyj777adelaide, South Australia Australia9 Threads 239 Posts
I must say I did I can't say I didn't
Firstly a female coworker pushed me into online dating pushed to meeting them ,
After wards I found its not the way to actually meet the one I have given up for two years .
And I found after all those meetings dates relationships that had different time lengths ,
The female coworker who pushed me was one of the female types while she did meet men no one good enough , most of the time she was one who didn't turn up to dates .

Me I worked out I basically let all those ladies down
Why
1 I work but don't earn enough
2 I lost my house
3 have teeth missing
4 not rich
There are probably more reasons it took me awhile to learn you must love you before you can love another .
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May 1, 2016 1:02 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
I'm in no rush at all, can save the wedding for next week.
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May 1, 2016 3:08 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
Ccincy: Obviously someone regardless can only rush online dating if they are encouraged to do so.

If you don't choose to rush into a online relationship then don't do it.

Simple.


You tell her Cc.. laugh

popcorn
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May 1, 2016 3:16 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
It seems like many people, (and there does seem to be a lot of men..) are just in a hurry for anything and everything. Not just about dating.

1. "The man who is always in a rush is proving the job to be too much for him".
2. "If you find that you are usually in a hurry, you are doing it WRONG".
3. "Those who do not stop and smell the roses get cut by the thorns"
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May 1, 2016 3:26 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Been hoping for 5yrs now on dating sites, another 5 will use up a lot more data lol
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May 1, 2016 3:29 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
I'm aging fast(chronologically)moping
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May 1, 2016 3:31 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
pedalguy59: I'm aging fast(chronologically)
You look pretty good to me, Boss--(profile pic, third over, shirtless....



(THERE IS A GOD!!banana )
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May 1, 2016 3:32 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
laugh cheers
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May 1, 2016 3:46 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Different people have different ideas about the nature of online dating.

Many people use it for the thrill and that's their perogative.

Me...? I'm a slow burner. In all the years I've been partaking in the internet dating scene, I've only interacted with one person with romantic intent.

That's my perogative.

I'm not going to complain about others not doing what I want them to do any more than I accept people complaining that I don't do what they want me to. laugh
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May 1, 2016 9:28 PM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
rohaan: It seems like many people, (and there does seem to be a lot of men..) are just in a hurry for anything and everything. Not just about dating.

1. "The man who is always in a rush is proving the job to be too much for him".
2. "If you find that you are usually in a hurry, you are doing it WRONG".
3. "Those who do not stop and smell the roses get cut by the thorns"
thumbs up ...'cut by the thornes'batting laugh
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May 2, 2016 5:39 AM CST Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Different people have different ideas about the nature of online dating.

Many people use it for the thrill and that's their perogative.
I'm not going to complain about others not doing what I want them to do any more than I accept people complaining that I don't do what they want me to.
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Created: Apr 2016
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