the little white lie!!! starts off as nothing and soon gets found out then more B.S added to try and retract the W/L or make it sound convincing, next thing ya know, it a big black hole you got yourself into!! the worst lie imaginable? lying to yourself that the person you're with actually loves you!
TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
There would be times when she's stressed or upset and I don't give her my honest opinion on X. And if I'm concealing what I actually think for the sake of being nice then she'll know what a big deal that is.
myhome: At least your telling the truth and I know if something makes me look fat so I don't wear anything that does!And I don't ask!! And I know how to cook and i'm good at it,just saying.And if she didn't want to know the truth she shouldn't be asking!
real world. not what we think of as 'Nirvana'. I don't understand why people still argue this kind of thing. It is so prevalent, and so well known, that being that kind of honest will damage and ruin an otherwise OK relationship. I don't recommend telling your wife she "looks fat", even if that IS the truth. Not a good idea.
rohaan: real world. not what we think of as 'Nirvana'. I don't understand why people still argue this kind of thing. It is so prevalent, and so well known, that being that kind of honest will damage and ruin an otherwise OK relationship. I don't recommend telling your wife she "looks fat", even if that IS the truth. Not a good idea.
I would rather have you tell me that something makes me look fat so I don't go out looking bad.But I understand what you are saying.
you know what looks good, why do you have to be told ?[/quote You might want to go back and read what I wrote because I did say I know what looks bad on me!!! just saying,
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